We are Not Destined to be Faithful  

rm_rsp54 59F
892 posts
3/17/2006 8:45 am

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3/24/2006 10:33 am

We are Not Destined to be Faithful


Dreaming of cocks, all in a row. Sometimes I love being a shameless slut. Intercourse is fun, but oh the wonders of oral delights.

Still conjuring sexy fantasies in my minds eye. If you saw me in a store, I would appear to be an attractive housewife. Looks are very deceiving. When my cunt gets wet and my nipples get all tingly I'm up for a creative time.

I need a smart and sexy mind to satisy my desires. I love sex, supremely.

It is my opinion that the human species is not destined to be trapped in relationships that physically limit them to exclusivity. Emotions are totally seperate. Just wish I had figured that out years ago.

Have a wonderful weekend!!!

redmustang91 58M  
8917 posts
3/17/2006 9:18 am

I reached the same conclusions. Marriage will do that to you!


Satyr48 69M
1805 posts
3/17/2006 10:06 am

My wife & I figured that out before we got married. We met while my (then)girlfriend & I were swapping with her & her boyfriend. We hit it off and she & I decided to stay together. We recognized our primal sexual needs and decided not to ignore, or try to artificially stifle them. While we kept our emotional bond intact, we allowed each other to explore our physical requirements without restrictions.
That was 31+ years ago, and we're still together, still emotionally bonded, and still finding physical pleasures with each other AND other selected partners.
It doesn't work for everyone, but it does for us...

Pleasing women in unbelievable ways for 45 years...
You could be next...


breathedeep1969 49M
1 post
3/17/2006 3:03 pm

Hi rsp,
just wanted to say I'm enjoying your blog, though I am sorry about your situation. There are MANY beautiful people in the same boat. We're here for you!!

BTW - awesome nipples....


mandy696965 53F
1 post
3/17/2006 5:59 pm

a woman's tongue could take you to heaven and back, trust me it is the best antidote to a sleepy husband

Amanda xxx


mskans 58M/56F
8 posts
3/17/2006 10:17 pm

How many people can actually be that honest. Very few. I've thought about this since I left college more than 20 years ago. Read this and either you are totally fucked or may be beginning to understand. Marriage even at it's best,considering you are on this site, you should have the the utmost understanding for each other. At it it's worst you are here looking and reading, hoping to find an outlet that allows you to be who you really are deep deep down inside. Most times you are a slut---a filthy dirty slut---who wants to be abused and enjoys it. This is true for a man or a women. Only the man wants to think differently if he is not queer. (nothing against homosexuality). Men are sluts. Only few of them know how to treat their counterparts with the affection their partners deserve.
They deserve to be treated like the filthy sluts they want to be treated like. If you are a man, ask her, if she is on this site with you she is a deep down slut and wants you to treat her like one every once in a while, especially in bed, but NOT ALL THE TIME... Tell her she's a filthy whore slut after you had a good/great night and you're are walking out the door grabbing her great ass---and you should tell her that also---- FUCK THAT DIRTY LITTLE SLUT OF YOURS HARD----and tell her she is the dirty little slut of your dreams---and most importantly, tell her you LOVE her.


rm_mstrbatn 49M

3/18/2006 7:02 am

well thank u for ur truely honest words!! i love to please myself almost daily and ur words have made me hard and have begun to stroke right now! Great to hear ladies as horny as me


rm_needyou5050 59M/54F

3/18/2006 4:20 pm

Love the messages you left,It made me feel more relaxed about masterbation outdoors so I went for a walk and got my cock out over a bridge and wanked, my load shot all down the side of the granite wall.
Wife and I took the dog for a walk today and my come was still stuck to the side of the wall, I dare not tell her it was mine,Thanks I'll be doing it more when the weather gets better.


rm_HotChef02812 65M
4 posts
3/20/2006 8:10 am

People change as time goes on. Monogomy was foisted on us by Christians.


IPman 62M
313 posts
3/20/2006 9:37 am

Clicking "Watch Post"

RSP may I RSVP? Now this is a funny and TRUE post.

As a married male, unhappy with the sexual side of my relationship, I can't help but search for the female connection that satisfies.

The exterior does not show my internal conflict. Professional, morally upright, handsome, intelligent.... certainly not the fantasizing, cheater that my heart truly holds.

But it has to be more than Tits & Ass, I need friendship, warmth, and dark humor.

Is she out there?

I think about her all of the time.


kiwikid477 62M
99 posts
3/22/2006 8:43 pm

I have thought this over a lot, you know my situation and as much as I love my wife and the straight sex is very good, some of us just need more than that and the only way we are going to get it is to go outside that marriage situation. Some of us want the best of both worlds and I have to say I don't like being dishonest with my wife. I have have to work on the idea that what she doesn't know won't hurt her. I know that is not the right answer perhaps and in fact bloody selfish but it's my answer and discretion and carefulness and all that that entails will I hope allow me to enjoy both of these worlds. I am in a unique situation in that previously I have been away from home on numerous occasions and can use those times to my advantage.

Right or wrong this is me.
Your Kiwi Mate


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