what to do  

rm_pickynlookin 44
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11/21/2005 1:23 pm

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what to do

So if I blog more I will get what I am really looking for? That is if i know what I am really looking for. I do know what i am looking for...but as i discussed with my favorite blog responder last night...that would mean opening up...and wow does anyone do that anymore? What to do? Open up and get what I want possibly with an ending that will break what heart i have left or in a positive ending save my heart? Or pretend that great sex is the answer to my question.

Someone help me out here. Why cant i have both...and why do people think one cant find it here. Pretty sure I am not gonna find great sex at my local church meeting (of course I don't go so i wouldn't know) Bars...well I've tried that...and got me someone who now resides with someone else. So here I am....where are the good looking men who want great sex and aren't afraid to step up to the plate. Now before someone says...omg she's looking for an immediate relationship. No that's not it. I want the possibility. I dint want to be your placeholder until someone better comes along cause I am no placeholder.

Now I have total respect for those who tell me up front...I'm committed to my significant other and I do not judge. To each their own! I want my own. If someone wants to share theirs with me...I am certainly open to the prospect until i get my own.

If you are just looking to screw someone and leave you probably dint want me....as i am looking for the connection. While this is an "adult dating" site I have had the pleasure of having meaningful conversation with a few people here. I have also had the pleasure of meeting a guy that is so totally top shelf (except for the fwb issues) so I think finding a connection here is just as good as anywhere else.

Ok, so that's the blog for the day. Boring as it is...its all mine

MothsLysesMelon 40M  
39 posts
11/22/2005 1:17 pm

I think if your constantly looking at people you meet here as future Long Terms it is likely not going to happen. This site seems to work best to try things your interested in. If something comes out of that great -- but most likely this site serves as a transition phase for alot of people.

Just my impression -- but ofcourse there are going to be exceptions to everything.

rm_bigsky1971 47M

11/22/2005 6:46 pm

what to do? First you go get yourself a rattlesnake...

Here's an analogy from a recent "Ask a Navy SEAL" column I read.

Blowing up a bridge might look easy in the movies, but remember, they're designed to withstand the sheer forces of wind and weather. Deploying an underwater M-32 satchel charge at the base of each load bearing pylon looks like the answer, but it might not even shake a modern riveted steel highway or railroad bridge. Without delving into the complex language of the guerilla combat engineer, the best advice I can give you is to forgo subtlety in favor of brute force. Put two satchel charges at each X shaped trestle buck, and this should rob the bridge of any reinforcing strength and cause it to buckle nicely.

Again, I hope I answered your question.

MothsLysesMelon 40M  
39 posts
11/23/2005 2:09 pm

What the? Love the post bigsky! Not sure what your saying -- but you say it well!

rm_pickynlookin 44

11/23/2005 3:37 pm

So what your saying is that I should get a powerful military weapon, aim where I think i will do the most damage and pray that it works. Now when do i use the rattlesnake? Thanks...I would love more advice from the "ask a navy seal" As always....your advice rocks, from one Montanan to another!

rm_bigsky1971 47M

11/23/2005 8:17 pm

I'm just saying don't beat around the bush And actually I didn't say it, it was good ol' Lt. Ryan Cusper...always can be counted on to dish out some sound advice.

The rattlesnake is just for fun snake girl lol. Diamondback or Timber? Which one do you usually use? You tall, leggy snake charmer you

And whoever disagreed...just how you would blow up a bridge?

harebare2002 54M  
2 posts
11/25/2005 8:01 am

I still have my army demo book, but I do not think we will need it to achieve the objective. Let's set out for mind blowing orgasms without explosive devices, but maybe some other toys and tools!

rm_bigsky1971 47M

11/25/2005 2:52 pm

yep, the onion is an under utilized vegetable...you just need to know where to find the good advice, screw Miss Manners (seriously, I'd like to screw her ). Rattlesnakes...you'll just have to ask picky about them, they're crazy...and under utilized as well.

MothsLysesMelon 40M  
39 posts
11/25/2005 8:35 pm

Really Miss Manners.. isn't she like 80 right now? I am not judging Big Sky but...ok I am judging... Miss Manners?

dano6332 57M

11/26/2005 9:02 am

You really can meet people here for a relationship. I have seen it happen and it is like a relationship anywhere else. You get out of it what you put into it so if you are wiling to open up and risk getting hurt the payoff can be just tremendous. Of course you have to wade through just as much BS as anywhere else, drama, liars, cheats, stalkers and lunatics. You hear "but it is a sex site" to explain why they are only looking to get laid and that is fine as well but if you can stand kissing a few toads you can find a prince or princess. You can also meet some great folks and I have found people who blog here tend to be more open and honest. Once I gave up on the trying to get laid thing and just blogged I made some great friends and when we met at the convention a while back it cemented friendships as well.
Its just like anywhere else, take your time.

rm_666skier666 51M
4 posts
12/9/2005 12:33 pm

"Good morning," said the fox.
"Good morning," the little prince responded politely, although when he turned around he saw nothing.
"I am right here," the voice said, "under the apple tree."
"Who are you?" asked the little prince, and added, "You are very pretty to look at."
"I am a fox," the fox said.
"Come and play with me," proposed the little prince. "I am so unhappy."
"I cannot play with you," the fox said. "I am not tamed."
"Ah! Please excuse me," said the little prince. But, after some thought, he added:
"What does that mean - 'tame'?"
"You do not live here," said the fox. "What is it that you are looking for?"
"I am looking for men," said the little prince. "What does that mean - 'tame'?"
"Men," said the fox. "They have guns, and they hunt. It is very disturbing. They also raise chickens. These are their only interests. Are you looking for chickens?"
"No," said the little prince. "I am looking for friends. What does that mean - 'tame'?"
"It is an act too often neglected," said the fox. "It means to establish ties."
"'To establish ties'?"
"Just that," said the fox. "To me, you are still nothing more than a little boy who is just like a hundred thousand other little boys. And I have no need of you. And you, on your part, have no need of me. To you, I am nothing more than a fox like a hundred thousand other foxes. But if you tame me, then we shall need each other. To me, you will be unique in all the world. To you, I shall be unique in all the world..."
"I am beginning to understand," said the little prince. "There is a flower... I think that she has tamed me..."
"It is possible," said the fox. "On the Earth one sees all sorts of things."
"Oh, but this is not on the Earth!" said the little prince.
The fox seemed perplexed, and very curious.
"On another planet?"
"Are there hunters on that planet?"
"Ah, that is interesting! Are there chickens?"
"Nothing is perfect," sighed the fox.
But he came back to his idea.
"My life is very monotonous," he said. "I hunt chickens; men hunt me. All the chickens are just alike, and all the men are just alike. And, in consequence, I am a little bored. But if you tame me, it will be as if the sun came to shine on my life. I shall know the sound of a step that will be different from all the others. Other steps send me hurrying back underneath the ground. Yours will call me, like music, out of my burrow. And then look: you see the grain-fields down yonder? I do not eat bread. Wheat is of no use to me. And that is sad. But you have hair that is the color of gold. Think how wonderful that will be when you have tamed me! The grain, which is also golden, will bring me back the thought of you. And I shall love to listen to the wind in the wheat..."
The fox gazed at the little prince, for a long time.
"Please - tame me!" he said.
"I want to, very much," the little prince replied. "But I have not much time. I have friends to discover, and a great many things to understand."
"One only understands the things that one tames," said the fox. "Men have no more time to understand anything. They buy things all ready made at the shops. But there is no shop anywhere where one can buy friendship, and so men have no friends any more. If you want a friend, tame me..."
"What must I do, to tame you?" asked the little prince.
"You must be very patient," replied the fox. "First you will sit down at a little distance from me - like that - in the grass. I shall look at you out of the corner of my eye, and you will say nothing. Words are the source of misunderstandings. But you will sit a little closer to me, every day..."
Antoine de Saint-Exupery: The Little Prince

Hi there!

Is there a possibility that you’re looking for friends? There’s never enough friends… The reason for this activity is obvious: 'Friends will help you move, good friends will help you move a body.' (Just kidding!) It is easier to find friends than good friends. Some friends or good friends (provided that they posses the preferred combination of X and Y chromosomes in their somatic cells) may become partners. As you know, people prefer either XX or XY partners, or both. Sometimes it is not easy to find a right partner - but, of course, it doesn't mean that while waiting for the right partner to come along, one can't have fun with all the wrong ones…

The main problem is that many potential partners are too obsessed with the burden of the daily problems, rarely elated or joyous, almost never in the world of music and pleasure. They've simply lost their fluidity, have become set, finite, predictable…

What do you think?

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