On a side note  

rm_phoundrx7 40M
498 posts
4/29/2006 1:19 am

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4/29/2006 5:59 am

On a side note

I touched on size in the last blog, and I wanted to clarify that one a tad.

I have a gut. I'd say it adds 20 lbs to me, give or take (I'm sitting in the high 180's).

So I understand if the slim, petite, or athletic ones don't want to come here, definitely understandable. I tend to feel the same way about a woman who outweighs my ass.

At the same time, there is a personality attraction that can outweigh (pun intended) that previous objection. Hell, I've seen some cute faces on a few of these chubby women that make my dick stand up in an instant. So, your size really doesn't matter, as long as there is something upstairs to play with too. Seen too many women that are wonderful to look at, but totally vacant and intellectually draining.

Yes I do value the face. If I can't look at your face while I'm fucking you (for whatever reason), then it's just an exercise workout, and not an enjoyable experience of unadulterated fun.

There are multiple variables, ranging across different aspects.

As I said in my profile, I can deal with almost anyone, but we have to deal with each other on an individual level (whether email, letters, or in person) before I can determine whether we can be friends, friends with benefits, fuckbuddies, or full time lovers.

And as far as couples go, since I don't have a problem with the idea of the group thing, the last thing you have to worry about is me trying to "muscle in" so to speak. Basically, I look at it like this: you are together, I'm just visiting, so the idea of trying to take over a relationship that isn't mine is inconceivable, and would be a violation of the trust necessary for a relationship such as that to work.

Besides, a level of trust is always necessary in order for any kind of relationship to work. Sammy said it best: If you don't trust the pussy, why are you fucking the pussy? What are you trying to prove?

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
4/29/2006 5:49 am

I think you are right about appearances here. For a woman especially, sex begins in the mind. So, a man who can fascinate her...make her laugh...make her think....all adds up to sexy feelings beginning. You are young....you will find the one for you.

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