Inside every good girl, is a bad girl dying to be set free!  

rm_partytramps 62M/61F
9 posts
4/14/2005 2:43 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Inside every good girl, is a bad girl dying to be set free!

This is the guy speaking. See, here's the thing...and it took me a long time to realize it, but it sort of a secret to women. One of them any way! There are many. But this one gets you laid a lot.

In earlier days, I always put women on a pedestal. I still do, but in a different, respectful way. Women are pretty intimidating. It took me a long time to realize that most women are as horny as men. They're just trained differently. Reputation is a big deal. You know how we men are...writing nasty shit about them and their phone numbers on bathroom walls and all... OMG, Judy sucks dick! So they have to be careful. No decent guy wants to marry a tramp, which is…especially if you’re on this site… who we should be marrying.

But I digress. About six women ago (still friends with most) I started talking honestly to women about sex. All conversations eventually turn to sex, right? Whenever I was with a woman I knew, taking for granted they were as horny as me, I just spoke openly about it, like talking to a guy friend. Not like a come on. Just… let’s get down and dirty, girlfriend, kind of talk. Slow segue into….Didja ever has sex with two guys?…Didja every want to?…Didja ever make it with your girlfriend? Ah, so how did that go? … Just drop a bomb and LISTEN! Just listen! Accept and listen! Nothing shocks YOU! Eventually, they turn themselves on., and if you’ve listened carefully, you know where her hot buttons are.

Now if you have enough finesse to get her to bed, the whole sexual dialogue is already expanded… wide open, baby. I’d love watching you fuck another guy with me. (if that’s the fantasy) Ever think about going to a sex party? How much fun would that be! Come, on, I’ll take you. You don’t have to join in, just watch, (yeah right!). You da man!… take the lead…make it happen…find her a good lookin’, big dicked guy to fuck. And once she does it, you can’t betray her, you got to stay with your baby, or you’ll lose her. You have to set free the slut inside that princess and love her for it!

We guys have been fucking around all our lives, but most women have never felt the joy of that sexual freedom. Unlike us, they’re looking for real relationships. In general, it’s not in their training or their genes to whore around. You got to let them feel some freedom, then watch out. Once they us, that “lust is good.” That fucking for fucking’s sake, is a joy unto itself; that they can still have a real relationship and fuck other guys and lick pussy, too without shame, guilt or reprobation… that their pleasure pleases you…you’re in business.

So a note to all you single guys who would love to join this lifestyle couples crowd. You’re more than likely not going to hook up with woman who already is into it. They are loaded up with men and are in real high demand. You might get some crumbs. You’ve got to find one of your own and introduce her the lifestyle, then stand behind her. In other words, you got to find yourself a real relationship, with all the pain and joy that that entails, and then be willing to share her...what’s that? Ah, you want mine, but are you willing to give up yours? Hmmmm! No free ride, baby! Deal with it!

So ladies, how full of shit am I?

multiO4Uno5 64M
17 posts
4/14/2005 6:04 am

agree with the crux of your thesis, if you want sex then talk about sexual things. it is my belief, though, that ladies are also equally as likely to have been "fucking around" as the guys are.

playfulwithyou33 57F
961 posts
4/14/2005 7:26 am

(batts eyelashes and smiles a wicked little grin) "What?" she asks coyly.

Apolybear 55M

4/17/2005 8:40 am

I agree with CT44, most women are too heavily socialized in serial monogamy to consider swinging. Plus, most women naturally associate love and sex, so getting them to the separate the two can be a challenge for lots of women. It took years for my wife to give swinging a try, but once she did, we never looked back.

1 post
4/21/2005 5:59 am

Bravo...Bravo, I enjoyed your narrative. As a female with an extremely high libido...The truth is the truth and I applaud you for being the second male (first being my own special someone) to separate sex from a relationship.
Sex is an act, a physical sensation, an exchange of flesh that can turn your body into a temple.
Relationships are the emotion, the desire and the dream that sustain our souls.
To have both is to have the ultimate communion between two people.
Remember “The Sacred Feminine”.

cop7 68M

4/24/2005 7:06 am

At 55, i don't care what anyone thinks, whats important is what i know, what i need to keep myself contended, Happy Fucking,,,.Florene xo

rm_twister682 49M/53F

4/25/2005 8:23 pm

that's a good good trip in women (and men) minds.....

goldenthought 45M
4 posts
8/2/2005 2:38 pm

excellent!!! i learnd that years ago but it is true that woman have a hard time seperating an act from their hearts

rm_findfuninme 55M/57F

11/12/2005 12:40 am

I totally agree with just dropping the bomb. Many times my conversations get there early because that is what I am looking for. That is why most of us are here in the first place, correct?
Anyway, I have found the majority of the women continued with the conversation and eventually opened up with what they like. Now don't get me wrong, you are not guaranteed a hook up. Some just appreeciate the chance to openly discuss the subject. Others, well, I'll just smile and keep the memories.
As far as a single guy getting into this lifestyle without a companion, you better be good. I haven't foud her yet but I am not giving up. I am 42 and never married and have only had a handful of serious relationships. So if I am to make it long term with a woman, we both have to be totally open to group meetings/parties.
Thats my 2 cents. Wish me luck and hope all works out for the rest of you.

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