discipline for kids  

rm_onyx513 45M
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5/12/2006 12:44 am

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discipline for kids

its your choice you decide how to handle the child tomarrow ill post my official comments on the results heres the situation little johnny your son says to you " fuck you go to hell i will do as i fucking please "do you
spank his ass
send him to time out
ground him
take away his favorite video game

freetime648 53F

5/12/2006 1:39 am

None of the above........I would talk to him first to find out what his problem with me was and then if he continues on with the disrespect....he gets everything taken away not just a video game......

p.s. I never have raised a hand to my child

xx FREETIME648 xx

rm_onyx513 replies on 5/12/2006 2:56 am:
see you have no idea on who is the boss between you and your child looks like the child is the boss and your the one out of the loop ever wonder why todays youth is so out of control well lets see people like you dont discipline their kids duh!!!!

freetime648 53F

5/12/2006 5:27 am

My dear Onyx......just cause I do not raise a hand to my child does not mean I am the reason for our youth...get a grip.....my daughter is a well adjusted respectable girl......and if more parents learned to communicate with their children on their level maybe our youth would not be so "undisciplined"....a hand does nothing but create an animosity that cannot be reversed........A-DUH!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And by the way...opinions are like assholes...............

xx FREETIME648 xx

rm_onyx513 replies on 5/12/2006 9:12 am:
in response i say to you and i quote " SPAR THE ROD SPOIL THE CHILD " it is in the bible look it up

lifeisablast333 55M

5/12/2006 3:05 pm

The same thing that my old man would have done!
and freetime needs to get a clue...
but as she said........opinions are like ass holes....A-DUH!!!!!

rm_auto435 93M/32F

5/13/2006 6:25 am

none of the above but I would probably do the same a my dad would with such a dirty mouth get a bar of soap and wash it and it realy works I have raised 3 boys to adult and they by other people standards turned out very good have to put in about other peoples standards because I dont want things to be twisted saying look at your standards a member here lol every one with raising kids

rm_onyx513 replies on 5/13/2006 9:16 am:
the good book says " spare the rod spoil the child if little johnny did that in the store you damn right he is getting a spanking

lifeisablast333 55M

5/13/2006 5:21 pm

a response to auto435, in my home state, putting cleaning products into a childs mouth, is child abuse.

rm_onyx513 replies on 5/13/2006 10:03 pm:
but 2 or 3 firm swats on the ass is ok and not in anger

ExplicitWoman 47F
10 posts
5/13/2006 11:48 pm

One of my first questions is: How old is little "Johnny?" I'm not a mother, but an aunt of four, and though I love them dearly and my mother and my sister will let them get away with a certain amount, I'm not above putting my foot down, or more specifically raising my voice. My mother is not overly fond of this at all, but I am not a screamer, but a bellower. Mind you, these kids are seven and under, and only have certain limits to their understanding of the world. I'm not a spanker, at least not yet, and not a slapper. For me, I know that if I had gone so far as to spank or slap a child (a teenager is another creater all together different if not completely alien in a nearly monsterous sense at times), then I've gone too far. I know my temper. If I'm that angry, I probably one stop at one or two swats. So instead, if this child Johnny, were under the age of fourteen and this came out of his mouth I would read the boy the riot act until he was deaf of I was horse, he would be grounded, have a time out, and neither play with video games nor watch television for quite some time. One of the things a friend of mine's family did was take all the toys away from the child when they were in "time out" as they sat in their room...nothing to read, nothing to play with, nothing to watch. And then once the parent calmed down, they would bring the child out and calmly but firmly meet out the chld's punishment. Scaring the child is one thing to shock them into awareness, the other is to make darn sure that every action, every behavior will have its repercussions. Privilages can be taken away.

Just a few thoughts, the choice is yours though, and in the end it's up to each individual parent to decide. It's not an easy situation, really. A misbehaving child leads to so many actions, questions and thoughts, namely what's causing it. Are they being spiteful and mean, or is there something seriously wrong such as someone bullying them outside of the parent's view, or at worst abusing them.

Nothing is ever solid, though, and methods change over time. In ancient Greece the Spartains exposed their children to the weather, and whether they lived or died depeneded upon how hearty the child was.

rm_onyx513 replies on 5/14/2006 11:03 pm:
as a mall shopper and an amusement park goer i have seen kids at their best and worst so some food for thought not all is what you may think and i have seen some of todays youth in lock up so if the courts say we cant discipline our kids then we are all headed down the wrong road and time out does not always work on kids sooner or later they are gonna become wise and decide to play the game while they bend the rules to get what they want adn wham you done i know first hand that the " time out " was a load of crap and never did work the only way to get to me was a swat on my ass

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