All Things Must Come To An End  

rm_need4fun2469 48M
879 posts
7/16/2006 5:00 pm

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10/2/2006 12:44 am

All Things Must Come To An End

The FWB I had in Dallas is no longer. When we first got together a year ago, we both agreed that it was what it was. A friendship with benefits.

When I came into town, we would go out to eat,see a movie and fuck. It was good for both of us. So I thought. Over the years time, she developed feelings for me. I knew this would happen eventually.

The questions started a while back. Where do you see yourself in a couple of years? What am I to you?

Last time I was in Dallas she met me at the yard. She walked with me as I went around to the different departments to get cleared to be able to leave again. I introduced her by her name to friends I met while there.

She had gotten upset because I didn't introduce her as my girlfriend. Why would I? We talked on the phone after I left. To make a long story short. She gave me an ultimatum: "don't call me until you are ready to be more than friends".

I haven't called. I admit I am stubborn and hard headed. If you give me an ultimatum, I will dig in ever deeper and bury the anchor.

All in all, I had fun with her while in town doing other things other than fucking. I know women get emotionally attached over time. She said she could separate the two. I guess she didn't figure on meeting someone quite like me.LOL.( Had to lighten it up.)


7/16/2006 8:15 pm

Ya all have had this going on for a year and ya don't have any kind of feelings for her at all? {=}

just a squirrel trying to get a nut

MWWwantmore 52F

7/17/2006 4:56 am

I have had that happen to me as well. If you dont want a relationship, just be careful what info you give these FWB about yourself!

I'll have a cafe, mocha, vodka, valium latte to go please!

Good girls go to heaven.....bad girls go down!!

534 posts
7/17/2006 7:04 am

Sounds like she really liked you first friends with benefits..and then wanted more??...but you are your own individual and you do what you feel is best for that given time...and if you were not ready for more...thats cool also...

You are a great guy.....and sometimes things DO come to an end...but a book closed is another book to be opened....LOL...

Take care ~Daisy~

crazygurl2xx 58F

10/1/2006 7:01 am

bipolybabe describes it as "the oxytocin effect", a theory that you are pretty much doomed to fall in love with the person who creates orgasmic feelings in you, so give her a break. she probably doesn't even realize this...

this is something that just happens. if you are aware it can happen, you can watch it happen to you and laugh and then move on, like the saying goes(never more true anywhere but in this situation): the best way to get over a guy is get under another one!

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