First meet and greet.  

rm_naughtynjcpl 58M/55F
225 posts
5/16/2006 5:16 am

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5/27/2006 5:23 pm

First meet and greet.

Next month we are planing on going on our first greet and meet. I'm wondering what to expect. It's going to be held at a local restraunt. Is their usually a adgenda that is followed? If anyone has gone to one post your experience. I'd like to know if everyone showed up, if the experience was pleasant and if it was something you would do again. Hope to hear from some of you.

RockPebble 70M
2493 posts
5/16/2006 6:59 am

I've never been to one. If you don't mind posting some details maybe I can make it, I'm not that far from central jersey.

rm_rickyD134 47M

5/16/2006 9:12 am

The only meet & greet that I have attended was in NYC, & it was a bit disappointing...
25 people showed up & twenty were horny guys. But it was kind of nice to put a face to the names of people you have chatted with.

rm_naughtynjcpl replies on 5/16/2006 1:58 pm:
Hopefully Mrs Fire will keep the numbers more even. Sorry you had a bad experience.

rm_naughtynjcpl replies on 5/16/2006 1:58 pm:
Hopefully Mrs Fire will keep the numbers more even. Sorry you had a bad experience.

firestarter665 44M/40F

5/16/2006 9:28 am

I have never been to one, but the way that I look at it is having dinner and drinks with friends. To chat about blog life and AdultFriendFinder experiences. Under my watch, no one will feel uncomfortable.

We will see you there.

rm_naughtynjcpl replies on 5/16/2006 1:56 pm:
Sounds like it should be a good time and a new experience! {=}

SpaceRangerNJ 56M
4687 posts
5/16/2006 1:14 pm

Will be my first as well. Dinner with friends, as FireStarter665 said is my expectation. It will be nice to see the faces and RL personalities.
Meeting a close friend for the first time.
Much laughter I hope. More socialization to come as well.
I'm very excited. I've wondered about these from when I first was a member.

rm_naughtynjcpl replies on 5/16/2006 1:54 pm:
I look forward to meeting everyone their

rm_rlandma 43M/42F
476 posts
5/17/2006 9:42 am

ok, so just for the record, if you have a coin feel free to flip it now as you have a 50 / 50 chance of how the evining will enravel. i have been to a select few, a few years ago, and true online groups have come a hell of a long way since then (much like from the model t to a mars rover thoug that might not be the best anology as they both didnt work the way they were supposed to but i digress) mostly, bet thing to do is go into it with no expectations, lots of money for liquid courge, and a prayer that somehoe teh event hasnt been leaked out to the general populace as was already stated, because then you have the peep show factor and in public its never fun to have a group of strangers too shy to talk to you or smile but who wont keep their eyes off you all nite, and just watching like some predatory animal ....circling circling ..... however it is easy to drive off these voueristic creatures usually by a siple greeting in which they look at their feet or becore suddenly interested in a leaky spot on the celing and tun tail and run. that said ....while first meetings are awkward, and seconds always warmly anticipated ... i suggest ya all meet, then order drinks ... then one by one ...... leave and come back 15 mins later. good times good times (on a serious note however, soem i have been to have been wicked fun so i wish ya all the luck kids.)

rm_naughtynjcpl replies on 5/17/2006 7:46 pm:
Thank you very much for the info. Your suggestion are very helpful.

rm_rlandma 43M/42F
476 posts
5/17/2006 9:44 am

and my god i butched teh englis language worse than ever before on that one .....*sighs and rests forehead dispondently on keyboard* dskjghlkghiuhgiuarghriapuh
i so need and editor for these

rm_DarknStar 55F
2823 posts
5/17/2006 12:25 pm

Never been to a meet and greet....So I sit here and wonder what goes on.....THX for stopping by my blog!

rm_naughtynjcpl replies on 5/17/2006 7:42 pm:
Hopefully if everything goes Ok I will let you know what it is all about I love reading your blog too!

toys2us 59M/59F
147 posts
5/18/2006 9:03 pm

Greet/Meets are very fun, But finding those that go all the way are for us.
Hope it works out, Toys!

rm_naughtynjcpl replies on 5/23/2006 7:14 am:
I just think that it should be no pressure and everyone should be honest and open.

ApacePlumsFatui 62M
3 posts
5/22/2006 11:02 am

Very interesting.Any cover fees?

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
5/26/2006 3:41 am

Our group, Temptation Island has one about once a month. We just meet at a local restaurant/bar and everyone chats and dances. There are NO EXPECTATIONS other than meeting. Some people do hook up, but for the most part it gives people a chance to meet for the first time.

Just be yourself, relax, and have fun!

BTW, can I come ?

Purry {=}


rm_naughtynjcpl replies on 5/27/2006 4:37 pm:
If you can come to ours, then can we come to yours I can't wait to see what it is all about.

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