rm_mzhunyhole 66F
60250 posts
6/20/2006 12:27 am

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When I share my life with ya all here on the blogs..I try my best to do it in an uplifting way..that's just how I am.Always thinking positive.

Sure..I was abused as a child,but then I found my daddy and he rescued me.My most precious gift to give a man someday was taken from me against my will at the age of barely 12,but I didn't really know what he was doing,I was still innocent.I was a battered wife,but I wised up and got the hell out of there and got me a life,on my own.I have been homeless and lived in some pretty crappy rat holes..but at the age of 51,I finally got me a nice little home,all by myself.

But...I ain't never lost one of my children to a damn frigging war..or a drunk driver..or a sicko..or a disease.

I've never lost my breast,or a limb,or anything else to cancer.

I've never lost my home in a disaster..and came back later to see all my precious memories laying there in the ruins.

I got food to eat and a nice bed to sleep in every night.Just 30 miles up the road from where I live in parts of West Virginia there are people who have to live in tents with their children,have nothing to eat for days.

I'm free to make choices..some in this world are not,they are oppressed.We all have a voice here.We can write what we want and speak out on anything we choose without fear that tommorrow we might get gunned down for it.

Ya all..I don't know shit..and ain't professing I do..All I know is..

I use to not have a pot to piss in and a damn man on my ass beating the shit out of me every frigging day making me feel worthless.I think of the things I've went through to get to where I am now and I wonder...How the hell did I ever make it???

But ya just do..younguns...And things do get better and have a way of working themselves out...I really believe that with all my heart.Your life is truly what ya make it.Soooo many of us on here are living proof of that.

Soooo I never take anything for granted.I always smile,that really helps..believe me.I stay humble,never get above your raising,remember where ya came from.I'm so very proud to be an American.Thankful to God I have more than enough,everyday.And that I am soooo loved.Sure,I don't get any on a regular basis and I live alone and going to bed alone again tonight..but does that make me sad??Hell no.I got soooo much more in my life..that would just be icing on my cake.

Soooo do I need to be griping or down today??...I think could be sooooo much worse..That's why I'm smiling..OOOhhh could be soooo much worse.

Do ya all see your glass as half empty??

Or half full??

Do ya have a positive outlook??

Or a negative outlook on life??

Are ya lucky??

Or unlucky??

When someone comes along,gonna give ya some love and affection,I say..Get it while ya can.

Nightguy_1961 56M
4866 posts
6/20/2006 12:36 am


I tend to have a bit of a negative outlook on life....have all my life.

I don't believe in luck; one makes their own 'luck' in my book.

Just my viewpoint...

NG61...slipping back into the darkness...

rm_1SweetBitch 56F
8575 posts
6/20/2006 12:42 am

There are day's that I am in a positive kinda mood and then I have them negative moods. I am really sorry to hear what you have gone through in the past yet happy to see you are still smiling and making many others smile along with you. Everything we have gone through in our younger days have made us who we are today. I am grateful for the life I live and take nothing for granted...too many go without.

No Day Is So Bad It Can't Be Fixed With Great Sex!

1 SweetBitch

rm_FreeLove999 47F
16127 posts
6/20/2006 12:50 am

i am extremely lucky, despite everything i've been thru. not far down the road are people living overcrowded in leaky corrugated iron, wood and cardboard shacks, with their kids in overcrowded schools, AIDS spreading like wildfire and sexual predators attacking young girls.

if i were not an optimist, i wouldn't bother trying to make a difference ... so many people say you can't change things, but my experience is you can!

[blog freelove999]

imLadyBambi 59M/51F

6/20/2006 12:53 am

Hun E. Hole

Mr. Bambi here...

I am a realist - neither a pessimist nor an optimist.

I have been lucky and very blessed.

waerlookin4fun 51M/47F

6/20/2006 1:01 am

I always try to see my glass half full and I do know I'm blessed to live in this country and have enough to get by on. I too was abused as a child and by an ex, but I look at it now as a place I needed to be to be who I am now. I would so love to meet you in person just because of how you present yourself here.......

rm_smosmof2 68M
3240 posts
6/20/2006 1:05 am

Ya know, I have never understood that glass half full/half empty business. It all sounds the same to me. I may not be happy with my life right now, but I do recognize that I've done it to myself. Of course, I never realized that once I got into this hole, that even with a shovel, the dirt would be falling back in faster than I could dig it out....

So it goes....

happyladychat 49F
3740 posts
6/20/2006 1:05 am

I just feel blessed with my loved ones. Why lead a sad life when one can be happy-go-lucky? Anyway, I'll choose a half-full water cup.

Make it your challenge.... turn me ON!!

Balibabe19 43F

6/20/2006 1:11 am

Do ya all see your glass as half empty?? Always half full, three beautiful children who adore me ...or so they

Do ya have a positive outlook?? I would like to think so...I can be solemn sometimes...when I feel low i remind myself there enough people in the world who do it much harder than me.

Are ya lucky?? I consider myself lucky enough to be loved by someone...anything else is gravy...

rm_abutoo2 45M
1078 posts
6/20/2006 1:14 am

sometimes you get the bear and sometimes the bear gets you. LOL. "This too shall pass." And the only thing that I control in this world is my attitude.

BaBs_Oaks 58M/58F

6/20/2006 1:17 am


We believe in keeping a positive outlook on life itself. It is the center of our being. Negativity is never allowed to linger for very long, if any at all.

You have the mind set of a survivor. That is how you made it!

BaBs / Oaks

freetime648 53F

6/20/2006 1:53 am

I always try to take my past "endeavors" bad as they may have been...and learn from it and move on. I guess I am a nuetral person.....I just look at the glass and if it is half full or half empty I do not care....MZ, you and I had to be seperated at birth I think sometimes... Our lives are so parallel ironically!

xx FREETIME648 xx

shylena256 43F
1967 posts
6/20/2006 2:05 am

I read this and thought it fit me to a tee:

Some people see the glass as half full.
Some people see the glass is half empty.
I realize that I am broke
and drink out both their glasses while they argue about it.

TheCliticals 36F/F

6/20/2006 2:05 am

Noone could ever be as lucky as us coz we both climaxed FOUR times before breakfast

qship52 64M

6/20/2006 2:26 am

I'm an optomist - glass is half full, or better. And I'm lucky!

rm_yukonpaul 52M
1120 posts
6/20/2006 2:44 am

I am definitely a 'glass half empty' person. True, life is what you make of it. I guess in many ways, my life is not that bad. I tend to see what I don't have, instead of what I do have.

rm_KirkVW44m 56M
688 posts
6/20/2006 2:58 am

You said it dear! No matter how crappy some days are it could always be worse. I'm a realist meaning i take life at it comes at me and do the the best with whatever that may be. I don't look to far beyond today and try to appreciate all this day has to offer paying special attention to things that matter and letting go of things that don't. Wonderful post Mzhunyhole and I'm no slut

mickdevil 52M/53F
3496 posts
6/20/2006 3:05 am

I'm the type that thinks the glass is half full mick is the type that thinks its half empty so we balance each other out!


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oldude1946 72M

6/20/2006 3:24 am

I need to think this one over, I better go fishing

VATraveler1948 69M

6/20/2006 3:28 am

My glass is ALWAYS half full and the level is rising all the time. I have a wife and family that I love dearly. I have a job that I am very good at, I love and that I am well compensated for. When I stop to think about my life I realize that I have more blessings in my life today than I have had at any other time.

I think sometimes that I am the luckiest person alive. The luck hasn't extended itself into the Pick-6, PowerBall or MegaMillions domain but that doesn't matter at all. I count myself lucky to be living in the United States of America, where like MzHuny said, I can speak my mind freely. The biggest stroke of luck has been with my wife and family. Only a few months ago I was headed on a very destructive path and was diverted/dissuaded/redirected/detoured or whatever you want to call it around a huge, ugly pit that could have claimed everything that I treasure. But, here I stand today, a happy man with a wonderful family.

I'm a very lucky man... with a positive attitude on life... and a glass that is half full. What more could I ask for.

rm_shannee2006 53F
3355 posts
6/20/2006 3:53 am

MzHuny this is a great post. Thanks! I'm deeply happy. Even with things that disappoint, hurt or sadden me, the joy I feel in just being alive and in the beauty all around me bubbles through. I can't stay down long. Bless you pretty lady and I'm glad you have found your peace despite the things that have kicked you around in life...

Yup...this juiciness is from me....


tracy_de_lacy 106F
9268 posts
6/20/2006 4:04 am

Hey sorry I ain't been on much...had things going on...I am definately a glass half full type. Life keeps giving me a kicking too..just like you and yet, like you I just keep getting back up and kicking it's ass back.

A negative attitude will never acheive anything for you in your life. A positive one, however, like ours will get you everywhere.

There are always people worse off than yourself. That's why I ain't letting my recent bad news change things for me. I still have my life and my home and people who love me. When one door closes another one opens and so goes the circle of life.

Good on ya girl...keep that positive attitude for with out it we are nothing

Bye everyone, it was a blast

rm_blkondemand 37M
236 posts
6/20/2006 4:18 am

WOW! I wrote about something similar to this in my own blog today, Hunny!
Some see the glass as half full, some see the glass as half empty. I see what's in the glass as being sufficient no matter what or how much is in it. I found everything I was looking for the day that I realized that peace and happiness are not things you seek, but rather things that you recognize when you have them.

My feeling is that everything happens for a perfect reason in this universe. Where I am is where I am supposed to be. There are no wrongs or rights, just experiences and truth. I consider myself to be evolved enough to have that perception and am grateful to however I got here. I don't know if I believe in luck. In the distant past when I used to perceive my life as not so good, I didn't think I had good luck. Now that I am at peace and extremely happy in my life, I want to give the credit to my experiences (good and seemingly not so good) and the growth that came from them, not luck.

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
6/20/2006 4:35 am

Although we all have our days that we get down....I am normally a glass half full person. I know that there are many who have less than I do....and are less fortunate. The thing that gets me down someimes is that I'd like to help those less fortunate than I am.....and I don't have the resources most of the time to do so. So....I can give a smile...and my time. And I do try to do that.

bigandtallreturn 38M

6/20/2006 5:08 am

Glass half-full.

It used to be the other way around, however. I had the lowest self-esteem known to common man. On the receiving end of 4-on-1 beatdowns at school more than I care to remember. Couldn't turn on a lightswitch, let alone a girl. Bad acne outbreaks.

It's funny to look back at how I used to be, because if you had told me at 16 that, at 26, I'd be relatively happy with a job in the broadcasting industry and a pretty good sex life, I would have never believed it.

Now, nothing is out of my reach.

"Today may be the first day of the rest of your life, unless you live on the other side of the International Date Line, then yesterday was the first day of the rest of your life."- Larry Andersen

(What the fuck is this shit..?? *rolls eyes*)

6/20/2006 5:09 am

Amen to that Sister, Thanks for reminding me of all I have to be Grateful for cause Hell Yes shit could SUCK a whole lot more than they do so suck it up and SMILE Ready...


rm_Rico0825 56M
483 posts
6/20/2006 5:24 am

Half full, optimistic, and believe more then not we make our own luck. Not that there is not pure luck out there. And as you know the biggest luck or lack there of we get is the parents we are born to.

PassionKisses4Me 45F

6/20/2006 5:40 am

I am a postitive person...always have been...really can't understand why some people have to be negative all the time...take what life has given and make the best of it...and if you don't like it, work and change may give you crap but only you determine how you react to it

Great post sweetie



Myhoneysrooster 69M
882 posts
6/20/2006 5:45 am

Great post MzHunny,
Most of the time my glass is half full but I've seen many the time it was completely empty. Hell I just work at filling it up again.
I positively think that if you work at it hard enough you can pull yourself out of any rut.

I came up without a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of also.
Little luck, lot of work and a lot of love along the way, so I can't complain.
Learned not to judge people by what they got but by what they are.
What they are as a person that is, not what job they have.
Give me someone along the lines of MZHunny and I am a happy old man.

TnWitchyWoman 57F
6852 posts
6/20/2006 5:50 am

Some days the glass is half full, some days it's half empty, and some days someone has spit in my glass....or maybe worse *eyes Mz. Huny and remembers to not piss her off (pun intended)*. LOL

I tend to see the glass as half full if I'm not thirsty, half empty if I'm parched and I may, or may not, have deserved the spit but however I feel that day life keeps coming at you and I keep waking up breathing every morning. I simply deal. Sometimes I do it with a smile and grace, and some days I'm just happy to put another day to bed.

(and it's "interesting" that my code for this post is 666. Damn. *sigh*)


somethingelse40 76M
14676 posts
6/20/2006 5:51 am

Alas, the mental and sexual health hotline!

somethingelse40 76M
14676 posts
6/20/2006 5:53 am

One of the funniest things about people is how they differ in what they think is funny.

rm_gorilla062 51M
232 posts
6/20/2006 6:13 am

Glass half full... need to be that way for me to survive! Just because I get depressed about some of the shit in my life I still smile everyday and thank the Lord I am alive anyway!

Djeeper1987 48M

6/20/2006 6:17 am

I am a half full glass right now in my life. However I am gald to be alive.

Carpe Diem

cbron2 75M

6/20/2006 6:20 am

Good Morning,MzHuny..Another great picture!!!So glad you camethrough all that be the person you are today!!!! We are thankful to you for being the person that you are...Wouldn't mind be the icing on your cake...Oh the questions..My glass is full with one one to share it with right now...When i returned from Nam, I was bitter and very negative, but time seems to be a good curing agent..My attitude changed when I went back to college and then broadcasting..but i had such a hatred for Vietnamese...Then when I began teaching...God placed a young Vietnamese girl in my class..Kheng San..With her sparkling eyes and personality..she turned my hatred into love and understanding...she was hard worker and loved life...and she taught me to become a positive person instead of a negative one...her grades and hard work, earned her a college scholarship..and I know someday I will see her on TV, somewhere...So, today,as you, after all I went through..all that negativity..I thank God, that not only I am an American, but that my home was not destroyed by Hurricane Rita,that I just lost a few trees..and yes, the rain is back..but I'm better off than those folks in Houston,right now..I don't think you know just how SMART you really are!!!!...I'm sorry you had to put up with some abusive assholes...Thank God..You came out all right..All of us are better for your wisdom..THANK YOU!!!

LustyTaurus 49M
21253 posts
6/20/2006 6:39 am

    Quoting TheCliticals:
    Noone could ever be as lucky as us coz we both climaxed FOUR times before breakfast
DAYUM...that's pretty lucky...

I'm a glass is half full kinda guy, even though I do get down or at least impatient from time to time. Have a godd day MzHUny.

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
6/20/2006 6:45 am

99.9% of the time my glass is half full, but on occassion it does seem half empty and then I kick myself in the ass and get a grip and fill it up again.

Purry {=}


pillowtalk4Uonly 60F
292 posts
6/20/2006 6:59 am

“Destiny is not a matter of chance
It is a matter of choice.
It is not a thing to be waited for
It is a thing to be achieved”.

- William Jennings Bryan

You have chosen well Mz Huny ... You should be proud of yourself...
{{Hugs to Ya }}
~ pillowtalk ~

meerkittykat 43F

6/20/2006 6:59 am all depends on my state of mind really.

Generally, I'm a half-full gal but I admittedly succumb to the occasional inner demon...and a pessimistic side comes out. It doesn't happen often, but I'm well aware it's there.

I think I have been very lucky in my lifetime. I've been surrounded by good, caring people who want the best for me. I am thankful for that every day.

rm_imtheone42 75M
485 posts
6/20/2006 7:04 am

I`m lucky enough to be sitting here reading your blog again this morning. I`m just grateful for every day even though some days are better than others. I`m doubly grateful for your blog. It always brings a smile to my face or gives something worthwhile to ponder. I don`t know how you can think of something different to say every day and say it so well but we are all so LUCKY that you do.

BowelLikesSaint 58M
142 posts
6/20/2006 7:29 am

mzhuny.... I guess I am not always positive or negative. At times I am positive and other times I am negative. Most of all I hate it when I am negative. I like to look at the positive side of things, if at all possible. Sometimes the situation just won't allow it!

digdug41 50M

6/20/2006 7:30 am

Huny I am truly blessed and cannot complain the glass is always half full even in the darkest of times

roaming the cyber streets of blogland

silverbreeze2 66F

6/20/2006 7:43 am

My life has been a roller coaster of events, but I try to think things will get better. It really can be so much worse. I do think things happen for a reason, even if we don't understand what that reason is. But I try to be thankful when I can get out of bed, walk, do my work, drive my car...when so many bedridden people can't.
I am glad that things have turned out good for you MzHuny, you deserve it!

bipolybabe 56F

6/20/2006 7:46 am

MzHuny, you are a jewel.

I appreciate how you've kept your positive approach throughout your life.

I was a half-full kid and then grew into a half-empty adult.

I've realized only recently that the lens through which you choose to view life is really that...a choice. Life is sweeter when viewed through the half-full perspective.

I've chosen half-full again. Thank you for sharing your human warmth with us.



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duststormdiva 52F
6854 posts
6/20/2006 8:11 am

Do ya all see your glass as half empty??

Or half full?? I see the glass half full and I do have a positive outlook on life. Most of the time. Today I am a bit down, but not because of what I don't have, but because of the sorrow I feel for the children who are abused. I'll post a blog today why this has all been brought out for me to mourn over.

I am so very lucky. I have a nice home, great children and a most wonderful boyfriend. I have family who love me and who would do anything in their power to help me.


sassy1296 52F

6/20/2006 8:15 am

Glass is half full. With every new journey in life there are road bumps. But I have a family that love me, kids that are the light of my life. Friends that are there for me. What more could a person ask for in life. I have all the good things.

SmallTightKitty 59F

6/20/2006 8:20 am

Well said !!! And like you my like has not been a bed of roses but but it has been better than other peoples life. May all your dreams still come true for you!


6/20/2006 8:31 am

My life is overflowing

Hope I get caught up soon for a hunymoon! {=} loves ya sis

just a squirrel trying to get a nut

pragmaticCTcpl 62M/51F

6/20/2006 9:23 am

I try to be as positive as possible. Always pushing away those gray clouds... I'm lucky!

TheRealThing655 49F
9558 posts
6/20/2006 9:30 am

Oh Mz. Huny I loved that. You're an inspiration to us all...that it is truly our attitude that is the most important.
Yes I always try to think all humans I have my up and down days. And I always know that many people have it MUCH worse than I do. So I am grateful for what I do have.
Thanks for the inspiring you!!

HoaryCronySlimy 36M
169 posts
6/20/2006 9:31 am

Hey MZ!

I am a "glass half full" type of guy, but there are days

rm_DarknStar 55F
2823 posts
6/20/2006 9:33 am

I barely have my head ABOVE the water! in some ways I Just Exist!

whats4dessert2 50M

6/20/2006 9:40 am

I needed this given the past few days I've had.

Reality can sometimes be a bitch. Sometimes though, a little missive like this comes along and lets us know that reality sometimes isn't so bad either

All I can say is "Thanks"

free2chose2 67F

6/20/2006 9:41 am

Mzhuny, by worldwide conditions,not only is my glass half FULL but overflowing-I'm not lucky I am "BLESSED" with God's grace

Don't worry, be Happy

rm_gent258 69M
486 posts
6/20/2006 9:42 am

I was born an optimist, but life experiences have made me a cynic. I look for the best in people but know that people will disappoint you. Once I looked for love. Now I have stopped looking. Life is beautiful if you can accept the bumps in the road.

rm_mikeyeatyou 64M
1 post
6/20/2006 9:51 am

Hi everyone, I think the glass is not the point. Really, I think Im very lucky (fortunate) to live life with what Ive learned. That being that the answers are ALLWAYS right in front of us, the hard part for me was knowing how to find them. mikey

ohcurious14 60M  
1684 posts
6/20/2006 11:22 am

Do ya all see your glass as half empty?? no

Or half full?? Half Full

Do ya have a positive outlook?? Most of the time

Or a negative outlook on life?? Sometimes

Are ya lucky?? For the most part yes. Definately Lucky I have the woman of my dreams, Naughtyblonde78. She's my everything and I Love her so much.

CastsAetasPoets 53F

6/20/2006 11:35 am

We've said this to each other before, and I'm saying it again...Parallel lines in this universe you and I are. So here it goes:
Do ya all see your glass as half empty?? During my marriage, I didn't think I even had anything in my glass at all!!

Or half full?? Today it is half's on my blog.

Do ya have a positive outlook?? I am a surviver, to do that you have to have a positive outlook.

Or a negative outlook on life?? In the past it was very negative.

Are ya lucky?? I like to think so. I have 2 great kids...I'd like to get lucky though

Or unlucky?? I used to think I had the shitiest luck, but it was the choices I made that made my life the way it was.

TTigerAtty 63M

6/20/2006 11:57 am

My glass is 3/4 full, MzHuny. I have been raised to be optimistic and hopeful. I have been a member of a local Optimist club for about 25 years now. I posted the Optimist International Creed in a posting a few months ago. I think it is worth reprinting here:

The Optimist Creed

Promise Yourself-

To be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind.

To talk health, happiness and prosperity to every person you meet.

To make all your friends feel that there is something in them.

To look at the sunny side of everything and make your optimism come true.

To think only of the best, to work only for the best, and to expect only the best.

To be just as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are about your own.

To forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future.

To wear a cheerful countenance at all times and give every living creature you meet a smile.

To give so much time to the improvement of yourself that you have no time to criticize others.

To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear, and too happy to permit the presence of trouble.

lustcurious42 57F

6/20/2006 12:51 pm

There are those in life who overcome obstacles no matter how great they are, as you have chosen to do. And there are those who choose to let the obstacles overcome them. Like yourself, my past is varied with scars that will always be there but resilence always wins. Let your soul continue to shine in your writing. And there is love to be had for the taking. Is my glass half-full or half-empty? Hell, girl, my glass is completely full and running over.........

goodatpoetry2 68M
16569 posts
6/20/2006 12:53 pm

I tend to be a little negative.
I'm probably somewhat lucky in ways, but don't know it or feel it.

rm_renagade449 68M
4 posts
6/20/2006 1:42 pm

Well mz Hunny, you certainly have a way with words. I've been a member for some time, but never investagated these blogs, ect. I also
belive my cup is half full. Just an example: I met you, so to speak.
You are one sexy lady!!!! You also come from the heart, not a bull-
sh-t artist. I feel in my heart, you actually feel it, and I know
where you are comming from. Heard the song.....looking for love in all the wrong places? Wow, how's this for a trip? My life has taking me in many directions, to many places, and yet wind back up where I started from. This is getting to deep, yet in yim, if you wish to chat more, look for bill4cars, add me to your friends list, and im me. Bill........aka....renegadeofsorts

ilsuconu 57M

6/20/2006 1:46 pm

Neither... some days it's entirely full, and other days it's entirely empty; never seems to be in the middle. I've grown to know that I won't always get what I want, but, whether I like it or not, I'll always get what I need.

ButteryDelight 59F

6/20/2006 2:05 pm

Do ya all see your glass as half empty??No

Or half full??half full at times briming over at other times
Do ya have a positive outlook??yes, I do.

Or a negative outlook on life??Not very often but sometimes I get negative. Usually I am negative towards myself.

Are ya lucky??Yes..I am very fortunate. I have a good home, wonderful children, a job and more then enough food. What more is there?

cherokeekid52 65M

6/20/2006 2:09 pm

Huny, something happened to me this weekend that has put me in a wonderful mood. My glass is half full and I am hoping that she will fill my cup to overflowing like no other has before her. Great blog, sometimes we think we have it bad, then someone else comes along to show us, that we got it good. Be thankful for your blessings no matter how small. This world is what we make of it, let's spread peace, love and joy.

Did I ever tell you I think you're hot! Whew,light my fire sugar.

HotSexyGurrrl 42F
44 posts
6/20/2006 2:31 pm

MZ Hunyhole

You have done it again! We are lucky to have you.

doesnt matter if the glass if half full or empty - lets order another!

The past 2 days have been tuff for me, havnt slept very well because I wake up worrying about things.

Thought to myself : what does Mz Hunyhole have to say today

and behold - there you are... the answers to ALL my worries are HERE.

You might not have much but you are GOLD GOLD GOLD.

BaronessK 53F

6/20/2006 2:40 pm

I'll tell you what I told my shrinkadinks {right before their eyes went all crossed} -- it's all's half liquid and half air; and I got more important things to think about and do than to listen to psychobabble {that ain't my psychobabble! }

I've had a lot of bad times, even horrendous times...but it's made me strong, and because of being strong maybe it's why I was the one 'chosen' to have them {being able to deal with them}.

I'd say I have an optimistic realistic outlook.

Like NG, I believe we make our own 'luck'...I am at the 'right place at the right time' because I WORKED to get or be there. I don't feel, even if I wasn't 'lucky' in a lot of ways, that I was 'unlucky', any's just a 'down' time, time for me to remember and appreciate all the things I do have, or for me to be able to deal with something coming along.

Although I do have a cup holder that says, "The Lord will only give you what you can handle...I just wish he didn't trust me so much!"

**I used to think it was a terrible thing that life was so unfair. Then I thought, 'What if life *were* fair, and all of the terrible things that happen to us came because we really deserved them?' Now I take great comfort in the general unfairness and hostility of the universe.** {Marcus Cole, Babylon 5 series}

rm_Ptalk1155 35M
3450 posts
6/20/2006 2:47 pm

Most people say I'm a pessimist. I consider myself a realist. I try not to make more of things than they are and expect the worst so that when the worst does happen I'm prepared. 'Course, I'm also crazy enough to have started my own business at this age and am optmisitically (I suppose) persuing despite the big red negative number at the bottom of all my income statements...

spacecadet561 61M

6/20/2006 3:18 pm

The engineer's observation is that the glass is twice the size it needs to be.

I tend to be positive that things will go as badly as possible. When I'm right, it's no surprise. When I'm wrong, it's a pleasant surprise.

I've worked hard since kindergarten to make a good life for myself. I've managed to avoid getting wiped out by natural and man-made disasters, but come close a few times with tornadoes and car wrecks.

I came of age just late enough to not get drafted into the military. Having had an uncle who finished WWII as a "guest" of the Luftwaffe, I appreciate those who go in harm's way on behalf of our country. I wish they didn't have to, but given the necessity I am grateful.

This is not the best of all possible worlds. It is the ONLY of all possible worlds. Thank you, C.S.Lewis.


rm_shy_girl364 47F

6/20/2006 3:22 pm

MzHuny your blog brightens my everyday. Your outlook on life makes even me smile. So if you ever get that you're feelin' down just stop and remember how many ppl you lift up everyday, just being you.

I don't have none of those fancy britches you were talkin' about there but my glass is pretty full and I am in control of my life, the way I like it. And I am very lucky that I have a couple real friends and two happy, healthy children.

Looking forward to tomorrow's smile. Thanks MzHuny for today's.


rm_hotpockets20 53F

6/20/2006 3:25 pm

I think any day above ground is a good day. I thank God every day for watching over me. I also had an abusive husband. He was physically and verbally abusive and made me feel like nobody else could ever love me. Years later I found out that he said things to make me feel bad about myself so I wouldn't leave him and be with someone else. So anyone else out there going through the same thing remember it's not you, It's him.

KIttenSmiley 52F
11 posts
6/20/2006 3:31 pm

Hello, Hunnyhole, from KittenSmiley! I wanted to say, I like your main profile pic, and also your other pics. I think you're attractive. You are also sexy and funny. I liked your story about underwear. The merits and drawbacks of crotchless panties vs. g-strings and other kinds of drawers.... Glad to see you. You sound Southern. Kewl! You are kissable, and SUCH nice breasts. I bet you have a wonderful accent like warm honey.... mmmmm... happy f;

Notfunanymore 106F
10289 posts
6/20/2006 3:49 pm

To be honest....... I just see a glass, I can fill it with something and empty it in a snap!
I just live.... somehow, things always work out.
I have my up days and my down days..... I have a lot of days when I just do what has to be done, those days are more than the ups or downs.
I am not a robot or a jolly person, I am human. One with responsibilies and things I have to do.
I don't harp on the bad stuff, there's been some shit. I don't forget it, but I just do what I have to, to get to the next day. I don't have a choice.
I don't let people with negativity in them for me or my family in my life.
Therefore, I control the content. I have Adult Control...
If they don't let me be me, screw them. I didn't have them in my life before, I can do without them now and in the future.

Have a good night, huny.

HBowt2 60F

6/20/2006 4:03 pm

usually positive ....but a bit scared and stuck at the moment...

PurplePeach72 45F  
9199 posts
6/20/2006 4:26 pm

I try to always remeber that there will always be people who have more than me, but how many more have so much less, there will always be people who are happier than me, but some many millions more who are hurting worse than me. I maybe strong but as one of the strong it is my duty to help those weaker than I. I always try to see my glass as half full, the silver lining in the storm clouds. Like you I think that everything happens for a reason,


skyking412004 54M
5363 posts
6/20/2006 4:57 pm

______I'm not where I want to be, but I could be a lot worse.


6/20/2006 5:23 pm

I'm usually really messes me up when some one say's I'm to positive..
I fix what I can.. what I can't I move on ..

great post

under the stars
We choose to write
you choose what you comprehend.
read twice and be nice
every key stroke... has a heart beat

rm_sexxikritter 53F
2715 posts
6/20/2006 5:48 pm

Mz. Huny, I'm so glad I decided to look through some blogs today and happened on yours. What a great attitude you have! You made me smile several times over with your writings.
I am a realist who tries to look for that silver lining. On the outside and to people around me, I am positive. But inwardly, doubts and negativity can sometimes cloud my mind. I was raised by a very cold and negative woman and swore that I would never be like her. It's a struggle some days but I will persevere.
Thank you for brightening my day, giving me a smile and making me think and be thankful for what I do have in my life. PEACE.


6/20/2006 6:09 pm

I try to keep a positive outlook. I firmly believe everything in life happens for a reason. I learn and grow from each event in my life whether it be good or bad.

ArgosPlumyKooky 46F
3902 posts
6/20/2006 8:02 pm

hi huny i am generally postive but i can catch a true funk and then the glass is near dry

rm_imtheone42 75M
485 posts
6/20/2006 8:09 pm

I`m reminded of a cartoon I saw where one fellow says to the other "She not only sees the glass as half empty, she sees all the water spots as well". I`ve known people like that.

rm_mariner464 71M
40 posts
6/20/2006 9:17 pm

Mz Honey:You are a PEACH & a National Treasure! Our lives shape us into the end product we are. Like yah-all most of us have had our trials & tribulations. Bitchin' 'bout them only brings one more of the same!
Some like you rise above the easy bitterness & realize; "Hey I have learned from this; I have value; I have worth!". Give me a graduate of the "School of Hard Knocks" over a Harvard grad ANY DAY! Just realizin' I am alive, content with who & what I now am; means my glass is MORE than half full! I look forward to tomorrow with a POSITIVE outlook ...... 'cause I get to read another of your blogs!
Don't ever stop!

rm_wetfingeraz 55F
3012 posts
6/20/2006 9:49 pm

You are just so cool. What a highly evolved spirit you are. I love reading your blog everyday.

I'd say most of the time I'm positive. Sometimes I get down on myself or the human race in general, but I have a good cry and I get over it. There's just too much going on it the world that I want to see and experience to waste my time feeling bad. If I don't like the view from where I'm at, I just move to a better spot.

lightswitch1963 70M/54F

6/20/2006 9:55 pm

Mrs.L here....I was homeless with a baby in Kindergarten. I've been beat to shit by wothless men. I've been I have a good job, the most wonderul MAN God ever put on this planet, and we are looking into buying a home!!! We don't have the money for extras, but all of the utilities are on, and my car runs. I try ro be upbeat, but it's not always easy. I just come to blogland and catch up with my true friends, and find out I forgot to leave a light on...we adore you, and appriciate everyone on here.

We'll leave the light on for you......MzHuny

absolutelynormal 57F
6563 posts
6/20/2006 10:05 pm

It could be worse, unless I'm dead it could always be worse.

tootsiedippin 54M/54F
1078 posts
6/20/2006 10:36 pm

Dippin~ half full kinda guy...but it wasn't always that way. Luck has a lot to do with persperation

MZ~ I'm sorry about the game A F F ate my responce so I will repost it tomorrow...sorry again


warmandsexy52 65M
13164 posts
6/20/2006 11:19 pm

I believe in the power of positive thinking.

It brings good fortune to do so.

That alone makes me lucky.

Great post - you always touch souls with the things you say. Wonderful!

warm xx

8337 posts
6/21/2006 12:36 am


I see reality.....

People often say attitude is everything.

I disagree.

Having the intelligence to see things for what they are is everything.


"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur

Looking4sex44240 55F

6/21/2006 1:55 am

I think my luck has finally changed. I have some really good friends. Hopefully my new job will start taking off, so I can take a close friend to Hawaii

fortunaswm 63M/53F

6/21/2006 8:38 am

Thank you for the wake up call (thats twice today I stated that - and thanks to "fly" for the same).
The bucket of cold water in my face was good - but, please, next time a good paddling would be nice

curiousinlorain7 60F

6/21/2006 2:20 pm

I feel blessed. I've got two kids that I love and not only love me, but want to spend time with me, and even pick up the check !!!(well okay sometimes anyway ) I've got a future daughter in law that doesn't take guff from my son, yet wants him to do his best almost as much as I do. And, bonus, I love her and I'm so happy she is going to be part of the family( no mafia reference intended) I've got some pretty darn good friends...I'm blessed

BigBeautyBeotch 50F

6/21/2006 5:06 pm

I would have to say I'm both lucky and unlucky in life. However, whenever I was "unlucky" little did I know that later it proved to be a "lucky" break. Glass empty or full, the glass was always interesting.

RevJoseyWales 70M/67F
14393 posts
6/21/2006 5:37 pm

Half empty. I done drank the first half.

I am positive the light at the end of the tunnel is a fucking train.

I use up all my luck marrying Carol. That's it, no more luck for me. but I don't need it. Joe

"McVeigh had the right idea, wrong address."

"This ain't Dodge City, and you ain't Bill Hickok."

complexlysimple 35M

6/21/2006 5:51 pm

BRAVO ..... I just read the comment above mine ...awesome

well, said mzhunyhole, well said

libgemOH 57M/53F

6/22/2006 3:55 am

Just thank you for the reminder. I needed it today! -B

rm_gata11459 59F
10597 posts
6/23/2006 9:50 pm

mz.. i always try and stay positive.. even if i dont feel that way..i am thankfull every single day that i was able to raise my kids with a roof over their heads (most of the time lol) and food in their bellys.. i was able and willing to work all my life, and provide for them. I dont ever remember wishing for more then that really.. and dont think i need more than that now? there are values in other things that mean so much more.. and ya.. no matter how bad it is.. it could be a damned site worse xoxo k

Peace xxx K

rm_lucytart 51F
590 posts
6/27/2006 10:11 pm

I've lost a brother to a drunk, when I was barely older than a teen myself. And I lost a mother, not permanently, at least not yet, to untreated mental illness, and there's a running fear... we all know this runs in families, but so far... And my health sucks, I've been screwed by disease and doctors alike.

But the glass is still 1/2 full, more now than ever. I enjoy the life I have, friends and family, and all we do together. I live life. I love life. (And I love love

1/2 full, for sure!

4biddenlove4us 50F

7/13/2006 4:57 pm

Reading your blogs keeps me smiling and worth reading giving me the will to carry on even when life deals me the worst anyone would want but after reading what you have to say I can't deny saying that I rather have a glass half full than nothing at all and even if I had nothing, I'm still someone and that counts for something right??
I LOVE YOU {=}{=}{=} you one loveable lady!!!!!

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