fighting for ones perceptions  

rm_mojomike 51M
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1/18/2006 6:17 am

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12/4/2007 1:41 pm

fighting for ones perceptions

I have been helping a woman overcome a small problem ( my girlfriend ) . it's basically that she thinks she's a perv.

all her life she was told sex was bad. wrong and very repressed. that is until she met me. I remind her every day that she is my sunshine, that sex is wonderful, that she should explore her sexuality.

she's exploded into sexual ripeness ( to the point that it's amazing ).

But she still considers herself a perv. I told her it's all a mater of perception. people that enjoy swinging or including extra partners into their lives have sexual freedom. and with that freedom comes the responsibility of being choosy in whom you share yourself with. Now others would think that you just sleep with everyone, and the truth is that everyone is very selective.

It's the perception as I slowly explained, being free has a small price, that small price is that others will be narrow minded.

So folks, don't forget, we are OK. We love great, passionate, ever getting to newer highs sex.

SCREW the rest if they don't know how to get their rocks off.


i_fuck_dirty 34F

1/21/2006 2:41 pm

everyday i let go just a little bit more of that perception that was drilled into me, and everyday i feel less taboo about sex. it has taken me 5 years with the same person and 6 months on this site with a FB to get to where i am, but there is still progress to be made.

cristale75 42F

1/22/2006 8:55 am

It is a struggle to let go of the perceptions one is taught through life. It took me awhile to realize sex can be fun, free of the hang-ups. Unfortunately I have only found one person who was ever open like that. He's out my life now but I definitely look at sex differently since then.

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