the quandaries of being married and miserable or......  

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4/2/2005 7:16 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

the quandaries of being married and miserable or......


I know this is an age old question but when it hits so close to home it seems impossible to rationally decide, hence I am seeking comments. A married man who has practically everything he wants except what he really desires, seeks a female who is into everything sexually. Have had a taste of outside love, twice. Both were married but ended the relationship when they got a divorce. I was there emotionally and finacially when they needed someone. Is there a pattern that I fail to see? I know 30+ year marriage can naturally lost some of its luster, yet what I seek now is something that has never actually been in my marriage. Talking did no good. She will not change her passive ways. No sex between us in over two years. Should I follow my desires and lusts or stay passive and miserable the rest of my life?

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