Skeptical  

rm_mangomami2 42F
415 posts
8/13/2006 2:21 pm

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9/13/2006 10:15 pm

Skeptical


Ok so someone wants to meet me ......

Why?

This is what I am thinking
Nothing sexy about metal and a limp
We have talked yes , but they seemed more interested in one small portion of my life than anything else .

After all the shit said here about me , I have to wonder is it for the novelty ? Do you wanna see what the hoax looks like ? Wanna see how real I am ?

And if we meet is the main topic going to be AdultFriendFinder ?

What do you all think ? Maybe I am too jaded after all the things said about me here . I have met two people off of here , only one I still speak to . I am not sure I want to bother if it's all about the "Mangomami who is she really? bullshit " And I
can't imagine why someone would find me attractive right now. I even sent a picture of me after the accident to scare em off , but all that was said was It doesn't matter to me . What does that mean ?

Anyone care to offer an opinion ?

GuyWhoListens2u 57M
325 posts
8/13/2006 5:11 pm

Mango,

Many of us ask those same questions. The person we see in the mirror never looks to us like it does to others when they see us.

Metal and a limp..? I don't understand how that would change how attractive you are in any respect. I guess I would have responded differently than your "someone" did (since I don't like using often repeated phrases with a pre-meaning) but what "someone" said seems close.

As far as what has been said about you: I have had a lot of things said about me too (some pretty bad stuff at the peak of the battle) but what has been said doesn't change or define who we are.

In my opinion you would be an excellent person to be with.


rm_mangomami2 42F
364 posts
8/13/2006 11:03 pm

Guywholistens -Awwww how sweet !!!


ticktock500 45M

8/13/2006 11:09 pm

nope, no advice
though, i've never asked about what pics were you (that sweet ass, i assume) and which ones were someone else (that nice torso shot-you alluded to it being someone else) i do have to say, regardless, i would be interested in meeting you. and i wasn't here for any of that blah blah blah , so my interest would be purely physical, i mean spiritual, or something, and my jello eating midget wants to show you his squirrel.


rm_mangomami2 42F
364 posts
8/14/2006 9:05 pm

ticktock - actually BOTH pics were mine . I have been doing this blog , just me since november of last year . The only pic that wasn't me was the one face shot . I am , was ,fuck I hate writing that , an ad exec .My face plastered all over business cards and such , I didn't think it prudent to advertise " Hi My name is Sunni R**** and I am a part time perv on a sex site , I would like your business !" Call me crazy . Oh wait someone already did . I wouldn't mind meeting you (just you , not sure about the midget yet , maybe if he starts blogging ) And can we be honest (HA) for a sec ? Physical attractiveness is a huge part of what I was . This blog, my business , dating , I won't even kid myself , a lot of I got because of outward appearances . As much as I hated that , it put money in my pocket . Now I am not a troll , but I have scars , some extra parts (no not a dick , shut up !) Just a lot of metal plates and cool things . And I have never seen " The seven hottest playmates in wheelchairs " photo spread . So am I jaded ? YUP Am I suspect ? YUP Will I ever stop rambling ? YUP ...........................

Spunky - thank you for sharing with me ! It does help to know someone out there knows what an immensely frustrating thing this is !


DiscreetFunCMH 51M

8/15/2006 7:44 am

Well... I've learned more about you in this one post and it's comments, than I have in most of your older posts. I've only been around 6 weeks or so, so I have no frame of reference for your history, but I can certainly understand you being skeptical. I would be as well.

With all that being said, there are some people out there that do appreciate your blog and you for being you to the extent that happens on AdultFriendFinder. So if local, I can also understand someone wanting to meet you just for the sake of getting better acuainted. No sex, no attractiveness required {aka the metal and the limp}, just getting to know someone, they may be considering a friend {which is a very loosely used term at this site IMHO}.

Sooo, be rightly skeptical, but leave enough room for someone actually wanting a real world friendship/aquaintence. But most importantly, be careful! Of course you know that already.

Cheers,


rm_mangomami2 42F
364 posts
8/15/2006 8:51 pm

Fun - as always the voice of reason . I guess I can't expect people NOT to be curious . But I guess it is more diffucult than you realize to meld AdultFriendFinder impressions with real life you .

Discreet - good advice! I think I will leave room for that .


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