older men and younger girls  

rm_lustygirl71 46F
68 posts
7/13/2006 4:27 am

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older men and younger girls

As a bit of a nosey parker, I have a tendency to look at what sort of people one has in one's network. I often see older men with girls in theirs who are way too young for them. Is it the younger girl wanting a sugar dady thing or is it older men wanting these hot young girls? I don't really get it myself. When I was eighteen or nineteen I wouldn't have even looked at a man in his mid twenties let alone thirties, forties and even fifties. I also know that the woman I am now has evolved dramatically from that silly, naive girl; but then perhaps that is the attraction for men. The fact that they can mould this girl ino the woman they require. Would love any feedback on this thought

bbw4u06 51F

7/13/2006 4:54 am

Always have been into older men, although now at the age of 39 men in there 50s are even considered. When I was in my 20s no man older than 40 though! But younger wasn't a real option, one man was 2 days younger than me. I have had a intimate encounter with a 29 year old in the last year, which was great but still the age bothered me. Weird?

funintheday2006 57M
9659 posts
7/13/2006 4:55 am

Men like women. Age usually is a side issue although, women do mature earlier than men so the man tends to be attracted to women of a similar mental age. I just cant find one of minus 40
Call in and see me sometime!

shaper007 52M

7/13/2006 5:12 am

In a way I think you may be correct. Also younger women are less stuck in their ways and are more adaptable to suggestions.

If a man is able to pass on his experiences and perhaps teach a younger woman, then they are more indebted and eager to please. I am not saying for all cases, but is a distinct possibility.

rm_lustygirl71 46F

7/13/2006 5:44 am

indebted and eager to please? That's a diplomatic way of putting it I guess. I was thinking more easily manipulated. Perhaps that is me being cynical. I don't go for younger men, did snog a 23 year old guy last year and felt very self conscious about it, I know I look younger than my age and he looked older, but for me was still too weird. Dated a guy six years younger many years ago, but not sure I could even now. Maybe I put too much emphasis on a number rather than an individual, that's not good is it?

lassothemoon999 47M

7/14/2006 7:05 pm

age can be an issue but if folk are comfortable with each other and in thier OWN skin then go for it as your a long time looking at the lid. personnally i like to have my mind stimulated too and a lot of young girls just dont have the life experience to do that which is no ones fault, if u can click even a little bit at that level then on a sexual level you have a good start... or does that make me a "fukd up daftie" lol

rm_lustygirl71 46F

7/15/2006 1:25 am

I agree about the mental stimulation part, perhaps a cliche but age does often bring wisdom. But also the sex is better, you learn more as you grow up and are more able to share these experiecnes. I have also become less insecure, when I was young if a guy i dated looked at another girl or made a comment I was well gutted, thinking he fancied her. I now know that you can see an attraction in another person without that being about wanting to run away with them. Took me a while but I think i'm getting there

lurveisblind 43M

7/16/2006 1:11 pm

i've always gone for younger women, but an encounter with an older woman changed that so now i'm more fussy; all the younger women i've had relationships with have all been golddiggers, shy mumma's girls or just plain wrong for me..... now i'm looking for some older lover to teach me new stuff in the bed room & show me what i've been missing.

andythehunter 42M

7/17/2006 12:45 am

Here is a young man for a Young gal at ur place...

hornycouple0987 45M/36F
2 posts
7/17/2006 3:37 am

funny,i used to feel exactly same as u,i could never work out why young attractive girls even considered going with older men.then i meet zoe,she was 24,i was 39.and i have to say i never ever belied in soul mates or any of that guff,but right from day one there was never a thing we couldnt talk about,the sex life is truelly amazing,we never ever argue we laugh we wrestle we adore each other.and for the first time in my life i dont want another woman unless shes with me....just thought iwd let u know that sometimes the love story does come true.

rm_lustygirl71 46F

7/17/2006 11:06 am

i'm a terrible cynic eh. It's nice and also restores my faith in relationships to hear of 2 people who have that sort of relationship. Good luck guys.

ollie996 59F

7/28/2006 5:33 pm

an older man please, am fed up with the younger guy's looking for a 'Mrs Robinson, don't want to teach want to enjoy unless you know of a young guy who thinks foreplay is something more than a golfing term!!

rm_aw234 46M
6 posts
7/29/2006 3:24 pm

you just got to keep looking otherwise its the road to doom and gloom. Somebody somewhere will light that spark again and you'll wonder what all the fuss was about. At least I'm hoping that's the case otherwise I'm going to jump out the window

rm_lustygirl71 46F

7/30/2006 12:56 am

Jumping out the window if you live on the ground floor wont do you ant harm, may even make you feel empowered, don't do it if you live higher up though

rm_aw234 46M
6 posts
7/30/2006 3:23 pm

nah I live on the 3rd floor so it will defo leave a mark (on me AND the pavement ). S'ok I haven't given up hope yet.

rm_lustygirl71 46F

7/31/2006 2:35 am

I think I have, all the good ones are taken

rm_aw234 46M
6 posts
7/31/2006 9:40 am

nope still a few of us around . you just have to be looking otherwise you'll miss us or just dismiss us.

rm_lustygirl71 46F

7/31/2006 11:49 am

you're very wise. Perhaps i've given up looking then

rm_aw234 46M
6 posts
8/1/2006 1:58 pm

me wise, god no but give me the best part of a day I can usually think of something sensible . You can't give up, you're far to young for a start, just a pup like me . It's the thought of not giving up that keeps me looking. Who else will get me out and about instead of vegging in front of the tv? Got to be somebody out there for us all. There is isn't there?

rm_lustygirl71 46F

8/2/2006 3:44 am

I really really don't know. People say there is somone for everyone, maybe mine has been and gone or just doesn't exist, I really have no clue and have given up, maybe you find them when you stop looking. I just like the blogs and occasional chat now. I hope you find someone, still hopeful for others and a terrible matchmaker, so be warned

rm_aw234 46M
6 posts
8/2/2006 2:31 pm

all help appreciated. You keep looking too, maybe catch you on msn for some matchmaking tips

GuyFromEK 50M

8/3/2006 4:32 pm

size 6]For me age doesnt normally come into at all, its looks first, we all need that baisc attraction to get us drawn together, then from there its all about personality and not anything to do with age, have went out with someone 9 years older and 10 years younger, the way i look at it, if you start discounting people on age etc that elusive mr or mrs right might not get looked atbut then am still looking so who is to say anything, all depends on what we want as a person and without feeling guilty ot paranoid about it.

rm_aw234 46M
6 posts
8/5/2006 5:15 am

^^ couldn't really have put it better myself EK. If it feels right, or doesn't feel wrong more like, then go with it. You will sually find out soon enough whether it's going to work or not

rm_punkypoo98 50M

8/17/2006 3:14 am

lustygirl has restored my faith in woman lol

rm_lustygirl71 46F

8/17/2006 1:42 pm

why? What did I do?

rm_perfect3453 56M

8/19/2006 9:45 am

lusty, age doesnt matter but if it bothers you then it does (for you anyway) - I admit i think twice if someone of 20 talks to me but dont if they are olded than me. We chatted a while back on and the first thing i though of was "am I too old?" but you wouldnt have chatted if it bothered you so its irrational at times. Know this is no help but hey..................

PS still available for chats with you though lol

rm_lustygirl71 46F

8/20/2006 1:03 am

I remember chatting with you, you weren't that much older. I thinkmy initial thought for this blog was a guy at 52 getting nasty with a very pretty 19 year old girl because she wouldn't meet him, then I noticed similar age differances in lots of profiles. For me the site is just about chat so age has no barriers for that. I just feel that someone younger can be more easily manipulated into situations, I may be talking rubbish, who knows (theory would also apply to older women with much younger men)

rm_perfect3453 56M

8/22/2006 2:48 pm

youre not talking rubbish but you are right about the manpulation but remember it can work the opposite way that you are thinking of. 19 year old girl can manipulate a 52 year old man or older women can manipulate younger boys - its all about the peole involve. I came across a nasty group on this site all about older men and younger women which i'm not even going to give space to but they seem happy including the younger girls. The nasty part to people applies whatever the age , some men have a very low regard for the women on this site even though they want them.

ps your pants (and bum ) are still sexy lol

rm_lustygirl71 46F

8/24/2006 1:59 am

aww, thankyou, you're too kind. I agree that some men on here have very little respect for women, which spoils it for the majority of cool decent guys. That is why some of the good ones sort of slip through the net and get ignored.

rm_luckyladdie2 58M

8/28/2006 10:42 pm

I would go for the older woman every time young girls may think they know what they want mature ladies always do....

rm_uncloaked69 38M

8/31/2006 1:58 am

i'll be honest and say that i haven't read through all of the replies you have had, and therefore do not know if i am treading on anyones toes with my thoughts here. However, i do feel that sometimes these older guys have been accepted into a younger girls network as a sympathy vote, or simply to increase the number of network members - never to be spoken to again.

i have invited younger girls to my network and been accepted. i don't consider myself old though, at 27, but i do at least realise that there is an age gap between me and some of the girls in my network. and do feel that they really dont want the same as what i want from this site. and if they do, i'd probably feel uneasy meeting, maybe a bit guilty.

in the same vein though, i have older women in my network - some with larger age gaps between me and them than the girls i'd be uneasy meeting - and have met a couple of them and there have not been any issues (at least, none that were apparent). so, to be honest, i dont know if this input will be constructive for you or not. i was sure i had a point to make when i started typing, but i'm damned if i can think what it is. different strokes for different folks, i suppose.

all the best.

rm_lustygirl71 46F

9/2/2006 2:25 pm

I agree, it prob is just a number, some people in their 50's are so childish and some people in their twenties are really mature. It's an individual thing. Manipulators come in any guise, I fouund that out to my cost this week, they prob seek a personality type rather than an age, it just happens that often, as we get older, we become more self aware and confident.

rm_bubster1979 38M
3 posts
9/6/2006 6:42 pm

I think there may be pressure thing, Young girls think they could benefit from an older man's experience. I have always been around younger girls and now at twenty seven find myself looking to older women (mid-late 30's ish) for their experience. I used to find a more experienced woman almost frightening now I find an older, experienced woman who hasn't let herself go to be extremly attractive. All I need to do now is find one
Not sure if that's how the girls see it.
I know guy's like to talk about their conquests maybe the younger guy's immature approach to sex is what puts girls off.

rm_lustygirl71 46F

9/9/2006 6:32 am

I never thought of that, I had a bf when I was about 19, he was 2 years older, and he told all his mates and work mates about the things we did. We never did anything weird or unusual but I just felt so ashamed at the time. I reckon that could be a reason why younger girls like older guys.

rm_bubster1979 38M
3 posts
9/10/2006 7:36 pm

For what it's worth a 21 year old guy at my work is always talking sex, we don't believe a word of it.

Aristotle once worked out an equation for the perfect age for a couple to marry was 37 for the man and 18 for the woman.However he was about 37 when he worked this out.

You can tell I do backshift when I've got time to watch all the open university programs

rm_soundboy83 63M
4 posts
9/20/2006 1:35 pm

I think older men and young woman is exciting for both absolutely

rm_soundboy83 63M
4 posts
9/20/2006 1:40 pm

your comment is spot on an old cock can still give a pussy a good hiding..... some pair of tits u have

davrian998 63M

10/24/2006 8:12 am

Other way about for me -- I always go for women older tham me - great fun when one is young.
Trouble is as one gets to 50 the older women just get too old.

One thing that isn't often talked about is younger women (and I suppose guys) smell and taste better -- sexier.

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