men who ignore you  

rm_lustygirl71 46F
68 posts
7/6/2006 3:05 am

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9/22/2006 2:46 pm

men who ignore you

Just another wee thought for the day. I have been a member on here for about a year and a half now, during that time I have met and chatted with some really cool guys. However one of my biggest gripes is when a guy doesn't want to chat or see you anymore he just ignores you. I have always tried to be honest and tell guys why I can't or wont be meeting or chatting again, but men somehow think if they ignore you, you'll go away. The site is called AdultFriendFinder, so I assume we are all adult enough to deal with the truth. So come on guys, next time you don't want to see a girl tell her, don't leave her out to dry.

rm_Pickme20042 50M
18 posts
7/6/2006 3:46 am

I agree. This happens to guys too. Like you said Adult Friend Finder.
Isn't that second word an option also?
Sometimes it is the better choice.

rm_lustygirl71 46F

7/6/2006 4:42 am

I really don't understand it myself, had it done loads, chatted with some guys for months then all of a sudden, nothing, as you say, poof, gone in a puff of smoke. Weird. I wonder if they are just searching for what they see as better.

rm_hornyscot247 41M
29 posts
7/6/2006 5:18 am

It's good to know that it's not just me this happens to

rm_lustygirl71 46F

7/7/2006 12:56 am

So women do it too? It's not nice, always leaves me feeling that I have said something wrong, and it does knock your confidence a wee bit too. Apparently I ignored a friend I was chatting with for ages, but that was completely unintentional, I think I must have assumed I had mailed him, probably thought he was ignoring me so it can happen that we forget sometimes, but don't just ignore a person,thanks but no thanks is polite and lets someone know where they stand.

rm_abrown55 60M
29 posts
7/8/2006 1:20 am

Really don't understand guys doing it, but maybe its a kink they have hidding behind some strange personality and yes females do it.
One last year I had arranged a hotel , she said she'd bought a butt dildo and wanted me to do watersports on her, I thot I'l try anything once and then vanished from the face of the earth.
Knockbacks-it's always a wee but hurtful, but thats human nature, it happened when you were younf at 'the dancin' and will continue thro all your life, don't understand why females like lustygirl has any tho, as they say'nowt queer as folk'

rm_lustygirl71 46F

7/8/2006 2:35 am

Maybe a wee bit too much information there

elysianpleasure 48M

7/8/2006 10:38 am

The answer is really simple... they are cowards and selfish... and they ake the "easy" way out rather than being honest with the other person. It isn't just a man thing... it happens to all of us.

rm_lustygirl71 46F

7/8/2006 1:06 pm

I've had a few guys post comments too, it does happen to us all, and it isn't nice, and leaves a peron feeling entirely inadequate.

lurveisblind 43M

7/16/2006 11:39 pm

I've winked and i've sent emails but some women are just not interested which is ok. but i'm new to this so a reply for each one isn't expected. but it would be nice if i do find some cool adult friends & maybe some women who want to take things a little further..

I find in my normal social circle, women in particular are hard to talk to about sex simply because you could make their face turn beetroot if you kno what i mean

rm_perfect3453 56M

8/17/2006 4:02 pm

I think its not just this site people do it away from the site also.
I agree with you lustygirl and we should al be "adult" about it a polite no thanks is all we can ask for. Sometimes accidents do happen and we unintentionally let people down (ie crashed email addresses etc)or if you cant face it at least a "i've found someone routine " etc

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