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rm_lumpylowell 45M/40F
14 posts
7/9/2005 1:17 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

welcome to my blog

It's often difficult for a couple like us to meet new people, expectations are always running through our minds. It seems as though those who say they are looking for real people are looking for who they imagine in fantasies are real. Life does not always work out that way. I'd rather be with a couple or lady or even a man who is as honest as we are. On sites like this, even complete honesty often goes unrewarded. We ARE REAL, however reality is not always as pretty as one would like. Would you rather be teased and waste your time with someone who plays games or meet people who are interested in the same thing you are. Sometimes swinger parties offer much more in the way of freedom and there are no limitations other than your imagination. Parties we have attended have made us realize that couples in their 40's are much more mature and ready for this lifestyle and we may stay out of the generation x'ers pool. Afterall isn't this about meeting people and hopefully having sex with them? That's what it is for us. Not an endless game for people who are uninterested in taking chances. We are the true anamoly on here. We're completely unjudgemental and open-minded in a sea of posts and profiles that suggest the same thing. As time marches on we see that this is often not the case, in fact the more we read the phrases "no head games" or "not time wasters" or even "not looking for ken and barbie" we have realized that those are the profiles which need to be scrutinized all the more.


numbersman2004 51M/50F
3 posts
7/17/2005 9:24 pm

We think along the same lines...


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