Make yourself an honest man  

rm_lovelyLady 65F
552 posts
2/13/2006 10:19 am
Make yourself an honest man

Make yourself an honest man, and then you may be sure that there is one less scoundrel in the world.

--Thomas Carlyle
(1795-1881) Scottish Writer

There has been an amazing amount of drama online at AdultFriendFinder lately. Quite a while ago I was a member of a group that started to have problems and I recommended tolerance and that started a huge argument.

Long story made short - My thinking was that if you ignore those people and posts that you don’t like - if no one reply’s to them - then they will go away. They will Drop off the page.....
This will continue to happen and there is no way to stop it.
I see to this day so many of the moderators spend so much of their time banning people and deleting posts. I think this is a total waste of time. I think that those that want to post will and just what does it hurt for others to be members and not post. I mean really… So what? All this deleting, bickering, and banning is making for a lot of negative feelings for everyone…

I Highly recommend reading this blog [post 204502]

Since I was gone for a couple of months I have been banned from this group. I was sort of
sad that this happened, but there has been so much bickering, I think now it is for the best. Something else that happened was a lot of threads and posts have been deleted. My theory on this is that they should be left, so others can read them.

Those posts are a part of that persons history that you can read for future reference and see just what kind of things that person has to say. It is their history - for better or for worse......

This is my suggestion for all concerned in the groups ‒

Tolerance (if you find something offensive - click off, you don't have to react and you don't have to read it if you don't like those people and posts that are negative, hurtful, or self promoting - just ignore them and don't reply to them. )

Isn't this supposed to be fun....?
You don't want to be upset every day about something you can't stop........
So have some fun, better yet ‒
think about sex
or write
about sex
or have some sex
xoxoxo lol LL

oldman1776 79M
3164 posts
2/13/2006 11:30 am

I think your right just pay no attention to them and they do go away.

If you comment on there post or reply to a comment that is what they are wanting. They neeed atention good odr bad it makes now diffrence.

Darkpassion 58F

2/13/2006 11:51 am

Do you think that all this repressed sexual energy makes for angry people. I think you advice is sound.

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