rm_lnrb2 46F
337 posts
3/22/2006 1:10 pm

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3/28/2006 9:11 pm



what is that? And who decides what’s moral and what’s immoral??

Who is to be the judge over others?

For example.. If I decide to go to bed with a married guy, does that make me immoral? And WHY does it make me immoral? And I mean in a situation when I am NOT the one to take the first move.

If I am not hitting on this guy, but I decide to have sex with him (after his first move, or we meeing over AdultFriendFinder or something like that) ‒ why does that make me a bad person? What is the difference compared to, if it would be a single guy? Isn’t it his choice what he does and doesn’t do, to his wife, in their marriage?
Why am “I” considered the snake in paradise? When he decides.. ?

Any opinions? Please share them..!

rm_vaihtelu1969 49M
1260 posts
3/23/2006 1:06 am

Evereybody makes their own decissions.
Morality issues are judged based on false info.
I make my own choises and stand behind them and I don't give a damn what others say unless it's my wife

-Vaihtelu1969 to spice you up-

mollen6 35M

3/24/2006 7:59 am

In thahat special case you shouldn't care, a married man has what I know made a promise to his wife, it wouldn't be your fault even if you temted him.

One have to take the cosequenses of what you do

I don't hit on girls with boyfriends either even if they don't wear a ring, some might say it's stupid, maybe but it's my moral

rm_lnrb2 46F
123 posts
3/24/2006 8:22 am

well, I truly know since I too was in a marrige for 10 years...

There is so many diffrent way to see things and therefore I asked for opinions. I love discussion!

Tell me then, what would you do if a girl who is occupied were to hit on you?

mollen6 35M

3/24/2006 9:52 am

I think I have experieced that, I say think because I'm not an expert on female signals, I did not try to go further. She was and still is a great friend of mine, and in that case I held back.

I see her almost daily, and she is a fantastic person, so I sometimes have regrets of not answering to her signals(?)

But I made my desission and live with it, there are other girls!

But for now I have to say I am happy with my lonely situation

wastedlips 70M
2 posts
3/28/2006 7:55 pm

I have been married for over 30 years to my wife, sadly i felt bound by a promise i made for almost my entire life: I did "cheat" on her...until now....when i realiced that all those years ...i "cheated" on myself...ignored my own needs just an lived a lousy lovelife....or better....non at all....
and why???
cuz of my "moral values"....wich wherent even my owns....they served the best interest of society, sure....but what about me? my best interrests???
fuck so called "moral", iz only a way to execise power over individuals, thats why the church finds so big interrest in what they call "moral"
can you think of a better way to execise power over others then to controll theyr sex-life??

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