Mixed signals....  

rm_lgz58 59M
14 posts
3/19/2006 8:34 pm

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12/14/2007 12:05 am

Mixed signals....

I actually got an e-mail the other day from a young lady. She seemed perfect. Smart, well educated, but too busy to try and maintain a relationship. She said she was just looking to meet someone to have fun with, whether that meant grabbing a bite to eat, or getting together for some hot sex. Things were going well until she asked me what I was really looking for. I made the mistake of thinking she was like some other women...saying they were looking for sex without strings but really hoping to develop a long term relationship. So I told her I was looking to meet someone special. Now, I really would like to meet my soul mate...who wouldn't? But I am here on AdultFriendFinder looking for a fuck buddy. Still, I think I scared her off. Valuable lesson here? Always tell the truth and maybe, just maybe you'll meet someone who is looking for the same things you are.

caressmewell 55F

3/19/2006 9:21 pm

Honesty is best.
Good Luck!

cutie4umm 49F

3/19/2006 9:30 pm

I have a question for you, lgz58, if u dont mind. Have u met alot of 'women' on this site that want a serious relationship? Or is it your opinion that all women are this way in life? fantasy or real?
I hope u dont take this wrong, i am very interested in ur reply. hope to hear from u

rm_lgz58 replies on 3/20/2006 4:04 pm:
Hi Cutie,

I actually was referring to women I met on other personals sites. Reading my post, I can see that wasn't clear. I am surprised when I see women with profiles on AdultFriendFinder that say they are looking for an LTR and not just sex. After all, isn't that what this site is for? No, I was thinking of a couple of relationships where after several dates, I let the woman know I wasn't interested in pursuing anything long term. They said they were fine with that and wanted to continue being friends and enjoying a physical relationship. It was easy to see that they were rationalizing. They were hoping by maintaining a physical contact that I would eventually come around and want the same thing they did. That's really why I'm here on AdultFriendFinder...to meet someone who has the same sexual appetite I do, but doesn't need that emotional connection.

Does that make me shallow?

TheRealThing96 59F

3/19/2006 10:16 pm

Hey lgz, I know exactly what you are feeling. I have plainly stated what I am looking for. You think you find someone, and then """Poof""" they are gone. I'm not giving up tho, don't you either.

cutie4umm 49F

3/22/2006 7:55 pm

hello lgz58 to me if u 'know' what u want, your honest and go with ur feelings. hell no ur not shallow... keep in mind I am a non-judgemental person. but it has always seemed to me that every guy I had a 'realationship' (whatever that means) with they seem to want to be who i want, So it's a good for me to hear honest thoughts. thanks HavE A Great evenin

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