Faking Orgasm  

rm_lagano 52M
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4/10/2006 2:49 am

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Faking Orgasm


Abercrombie has a post where she talks about how she has never had an orgasm, o O o O OrGaSmic.

As you would expect she's got a bunch of guys with the typical "because you never tried it with me" type of response, and how they have no problem giving women orgasm's. go figure!

But this got me to thinking, you know there is the old "When Harry met Sally" thing of does a guy ever really know when a woman is faking it, so how would any of these guys really know for sure?

So just how common a problem is this, how often do women have sex without having an orgasm, and would you fake it if you didn't have one just to keep the guy happy?

Is there any guy who would like to admit that he been with a woman who faked it or didnt have an orgasm? LOL, yes thought not.

I would throw into the pot, I have never been with a woman who didn't have an orgasm, but how many of them faked it, I haven't a clue.

I have known one woman who told me she had never had an orgasm through vaginal sex only through anal sex which I thought was really odd but who am I to argue it's her body after all.

Oh and just for the record guys can fake it too and I have done as well.

rm_pagan380 66M
4405 posts
4/10/2006 5:48 pm

Hi Guy, just thought I'd return the gesture and read your BLOG. Guess I need to start reading more from the majority gender here on AdultFriendFinder and not just from those sweet ladies that got me started BLOGGING.
I have had sex with ladies who didn't get off, I'm sorry to say I can't always please them all but that doesn't stop me from trying. I take that back. I quit trying to please my second wife after I got the feeling from her that she was just letting me fuck her and not really making love to me. Guess that's why she's an X.
I would rather have a woman tell me that I just don't do it for her than to have her fake it. Sex is an emotional connection for me, I need to feel the passion not just dip my wick. If we're not making love the sex will never be good wither she gets off or not.
Never had to fake it but I do find it hard to get off the third time in a row now a days, must be getting old LOL.
Truly,


Come play naked in the sunshine and dance naked under the stars.

Digambara


rm_lagano replies on 4/10/2006 6:29 pm:
Hi there,
Yes us guys need to start reading and commenting on other guys blogs instead of letting the ladies run away with this thing LOL

I agree with you I would also rather have a woman tell me that I just wasn't doing it for her (and hopefully tell me what I should do instead).

The connection thing is so true, there may be those times when we go for the fast food type of thing and it might be great fun but it never really compares.

papyrina 52F
21133 posts
4/11/2006 11:38 am

has never faked in her life,i wish i could but all those strange sounds and noises i just could not make up,they just happen


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papyrina 52F
21133 posts
4/11/2006 11:40 am

plus i never orgasm on a first date and rarely orgasm more than once when i do


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rm_lagano replies on 4/11/2006 8:36 pm:
Hmmm,
No orgasm on first date, why do you think that is? Need to feel more connected to someone or just too tense or nervous with someone new?

papyrina 52F
21133 posts
4/12/2006 4:49 am

a combinatio of all i think lol


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