Condom Friendly  

rm_lagano 52M
396 posts
4/3/2006 3:46 am

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4/5/2006 5:17 am

Condom Friendly

I have mentioned "G" before Whats the weirdest place you had sex, with "G" the relationship was really all about sex.

We were both "encumbered" at the time, in fact she was a lot more encumbered than I was, she was in a LTR with another expat, though I never knew who he was.

We met by chance through a mutual friend, a mad Norwegian who, for fairly obscure reasons, had the habit of tearing the arm of his suit at some point in the evening when, as usual, he had had too much.

We were in the Bull and Bear drinking in the bottom bar when in walks "G", my friend calls her over and he introduces us, several hours of conversation later I ask her if she wants to get something to eat, she says yes and we leave to get a cab over to LKF.

As usual its a struggle to find a cab when you want one, I turn around to "G" shrugging my shoulders in frustration, and the next thing we are in each other arms oblivious to any and all around us.

It was the start of something that was always hot and steamy, and when we made love it was always for hours on end, I only recall being perpetually tired at those times.

There was the christmas morning where I went round first thing to give her her christmas present, which of course included me, we spent the whole morning in bed before I dropped her off at her boyfriends for christmas lunch.
There was Chinese New Year where we spent a weekend making love at Pousada de Coloane in the freezing cold, her boyfriend was in a yacht race from HK to Macau so he would be there on Sunday afternoon, so we had 3 days all to ourselves.

There were I think a couple of times the relationship might have become something more, we both might just have decided that we wanted each other more than out current partners but we didn't and in the end we drifted apart, for me I had started to think it was either my job or her as I didn't think I had enough energy for both or maybe it was just for both of us it had reached that point where it had to become something more or end.

Apart from the frenetic sex the one thing that has alway stuck in my mind about her was condoms lol.

The first time we made love, she asked me not to use a condom but to be careful as she wasn't on the pill. I agreed (ok I know so you are going to say like I wouldn't but actually there are times I do say no) and anyway I don't have a problem with being careful.

Thing was she actually had condoms, she kept some in a bed side draw, and I asked her about what happened with the boyfriend, she said she always insisted he wear them. I didnt push it too far, didn't want to hear "well since your so damn nosey you can wear them as well" so I let it drop.

But this is something I have never really understood, what makes a woman ask one guy not to use a condom but insists another guy use one, I must admit women are a puzzle.

For me I do have my own "condom" rules, I always have then with me when I think I will need them, I will never ask a woman if I can go without, but if she asks or indicates I don't need to use them, well then it depends on a few factors, I guess I means trust. If I feel I can trust her and feel comfortable about the situation then ok otherwise I will say I just have to.

I would be interested in hearing a womans view though I guess this is asking a question that maybe few would really want to own up to, so dare to voice an opinion?

rm_goddess1946 107F
13518 posts
4/3/2006 5:47 pm

lovely memories...
juicy sex is a delight to your heart...
always my mind.

yes, women can be a puzzle...
so can men.
what was the question about condoms?
yes, condoms serve...
in many different ways.

was there another question???

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...

rm_goddess1946 107F
13518 posts
4/3/2006 5:48 pm

weirdest place?? was another question?

don't think anything is weird actually..
that could be weird

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...

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