WHATS THE BIG DEAL ABOUT ANAL SEX???  

rm_kteegate69 46F
65 posts
7/20/2006 8:58 pm

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WHATS THE BIG DEAL ABOUT ANAL SEX???


why do straight men like anal, if you are totally straight why is anal sex so important? Im not understanding...I dont mind anal sex but why is it so important? Can someone please tell me? Im up for any insight on this subject please educate me...

POPPA_T_ 50M

7/21/2006 12:29 am

i think some men feel they are in total control that way.maybe they think if she does that there is nothing they cant do her.myself ive done that to girl once or twice.it was ok but nothing to get excited about.must say what beautiful pic you have.


SexyT12078 50F

7/21/2006 12:29 am

I love it myself. It feels so fucking good. But only with someone I am very intimate with.Maybe if you masturbated and tried it out on yourself first you may either like it or hate it. I've had some very big orgasms from anal sex.
But why it's a big deal to men I'm not sure. Maybe it feels tighter, I don;t know for sure. But I know when I use my butt plug it feels fucking great!!!
I know you were looking for a guys point of view, but I couldn;t help answering. I miss having anal sex, I really do. But I won't do it with just anyone.


lilsmile4u 42F
1 post
7/24/2006 6:59 pm

I agree in that I love anal sex. At first I was not sure. Butt then I realized how super good it felt.
I would recomend all girls try it at least three times. I learned to love it actually on the first time.
I have a new butt plug that keeps me excited. Especially when I leave it in all night. And discover I need to remove it to dump.
I do have to admit. I enjoy my finger up my ass to. I guess one reason is because,I can wiggle my finge and just go wild.


hardkscock 44M

7/27/2006 12:23 pm

    Quoting luv_your_clit:
    Straight men like it b/c it's "forbidden" and thus makes it exciting. Though I have not done it, sort of, it was good to know that the woman I was with allowed me to penetrate her with my fingers as well as with my thumb while we were in the "doggy" position: I was working her up to accept my cock for future encounters. It is tighter as well as getting some resistance. Both partners have to work together so that she would not be in to much pain. Plus anal sex can be something that can be done when she is having her period and still wants to be penetrated, be it orally or anally. I look forward to my first cock to "brown eye"experience
I agree...I have had anal a few times, and it can be very erotic, but it always depends on the woman I am with.


SweetLoadInKC 47M

7/28/2006 8:31 pm

I think it's just that it is a taboo/forbidden area.

I used to be obsessed with finding someone to have it but since I never could, I got over it.


BlueJeepGuy 58M  
3 posts
8/2/2006 2:29 pm

The taboo aspect is very arousing. As is her submission. The stereotype that "nice" girls don't but here this woman is offering her ass to me only adds to the thrill of the act. For me all these things combine with the snugness of her ass to make me just explode.


rm_1typeguy1 55M

8/17/2006 9:24 pm

It might just be me. None of the guys have mentioned...
I actually like rimming a lady more than anal sex.
(I LOVE rimming!)
I have only done anal a few times and it was pretty good, but nothing I can't live without.
For the ladies, it is almost like motorcycle riding. There are few people who are neutral. Most either love it or hate it.


HORNEY4U2DO 59F

10/6/2006 10:55 am

TIGHT AND SNUG...GRABBING AND HOLDING


rm_SoftLicks3 71M

11/2/2006 8:25 pm

Kteegate69, I think it became something desired or "cool" to do (probably due to "macho" impulses; sometimes I am with a young guy I know who says, "I'd love to fuck her in the ass" or "I'd lick her ass" ). Whatever the case may be, I am not that excited about it. There is a more natural more pleasurable female location. However, I see some women saying it is a route to a great climax. (Probably because they, too, think that's what is cool and or what men want). I don't know, you tell me what you think since you're on the receiving end. With you, looking at your picture, "anything" would be exciting.


imjust1guy4 47M

11/4/2006 4:06 pm

In the spirit of great sex being mostly mental, anal sex is great for two reasons - first because it is a unique experience outside normal convention. It's pure sex for pleasure's sake - there is no other purpose for doing it and that is very erotic. Secondly, as Sexyt said, it does feel different, yes, tighter.


LuvaLikkapuss 48M

11/30/2006 11:04 am

Do you want to know the real reason why?
Here it is...
Because most of you (women) dont want too.
If every woman gave up anal sex as easily as they gave up vaginal sex the desire for anal would quickly diminish.
For some reason the male of the species always wants what he cannot have. The fact that it is being withheld with a slim chance of getting it is like the carrot dangled in front of the donkey.
The only thing is...that carrot sure tastes good once you get ahold of it.


rm_be_done 45M
1 post
11/30/2006 6:25 pm

If any women like anal sex, I am totally in to it. I am in kansas city.


patriot205 45M
186 posts
4/11/2007 2:17 pm

Personaly, I don't care for anal. I love forplay and I could spend 2 hours on it alone.


rm_pistolbuster 52M
6 posts
4/11/2007 6:42 pm

Anal sex is just a way of getting out of what people might say is routine sex. It can be just as pleasurable for a man. I can't say how it make a women feel.


rm_Fuzzy_Bear2 61M

4/14/2007 2:49 pm

. . . not interested in anal... ty for the question...


rm_sean_vaughn 46M

10/29/2008 6:11 am

I like the "last frontier" aspect of it... when you're with a partner for a while and you've done so much... you're looking to make things new again. There's anal, and the awkwardness of trying something new and the excitement that you haven't before with this partner brings back that feeling of your first kiss..

...except ... you know... in the dumper.


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