looks that kill  

rm_kitkat95 48F
27 posts
4/1/2005 2:46 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

looks that kill

I wish just once a guy would come along and look at the inside of a person instead of looking at the outside....heavy set women need love too and not games.We have alot of love to give to the right person not someone who likes to play head games......someone like me is here and waiting for mr.right to come alone not mr.right now....I have alot of love in me going to waste because looks are everything to men....dont get me wrong im not a man hater I love men they just dont seem to like my looks because im heavy...its just wrong and one day this world will end and love will see that there was one women who had alot of love noone wanted or even cared about.

keithcancook 61M
18138 posts
4/1/2005 3:51 pm

I feel your pain. Also, I believe you and all that love you have waiting to gush out on some lucky guy. There are many men who can look beyond the surface to discover the depths of the person underneath.

When I was younger I was much more shallow than I am now. I had to have beauty, and I put up with the heavy maintenence required for being with vain people. After being burned more than a few times I grew wiser from the experiences and determined that a good woman is ALWAYS determined by what is inside not outside.

mnfun952 103M

4/1/2005 4:59 pm

why are you making the assumption that just because a guy is not into 'heavy set women' (to use your words) that he must be into games or that looks are 'everything'? There are some VERY attractive heavy women...so don't think that guys aren't attracted to you just because of your weight. I also notice that you won't post your picture.. why not? If you do, then you can at least stand a chance of attracting men who ARE attracted to heavy women. Finally - it's as much about your attitude as it is about anything else, and from this post, you seem to be pretty hung up on your weight. That's not going to do much to attract a man. Instead, be more up front with your weight and ignore everyone else.

rm_Synn74 43F
1206 posts
4/1/2005 7:56 pm

you tell em girlfriend !!!!

I welcome you to the House of Syn...

wyvernrose 39F  
3962 posts
4/1/2005 9:00 pm

kit kat, work on the skills and flexibility, if you can show em on the dancefloor that you can do what the other girls can't then they will forget about size.......and the sex is just oh! so! Good!


rm_kitkat95 48F
13 posts
4/3/2005 2:21 pm

as far as my pic not being on here its because i number one havent figured out how to do it. Yes i guess you can say that im hung up on my weight because the guys ive been with start out likeing me then the weight thing comes into play...i wasnt saying this to all guys there are some good guys in this world i just want one.....

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