Sex Addicts Anonymous  

rm_kelli4u2dew 42F
7028 posts
9/9/2006 7:52 am

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Sex Addicts Anonymous

I was browsing through a local free weekly paper this morning, and under the "Arts and Culture" section for things to do, I came across two ads.

Sex Addicts Anonymous
A program of recovery from harmful, shameful, or uncontrollable sexual activities or obsessions. 7 p.m. Thursdays.

Sexaholics Anonymous
A support group for people striving for progressive victory over lust and its addictive behaviors. 7 p.m. Mondays.


What do you think? Sound like good places to make a connection?
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Perchance2000 58M

9/9/2006 8:11 am

. . . or is it a fundamentalist missionary group? (Pun intended.)


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/9/2006 8:35 am:
Sex without oral? I'd rather just use my vibe.

NxplcbleNchntmnt 47M/50F
184 posts
9/9/2006 8:43 am

as a youngster i didnt think women found me attractive. i guess confidence comes with age. or maybe i just realize now that attraction is so individual that say "more" or "less" so is irrelevant. at any rate, i met a woman way back when, we became friends, and shortly after she jumped my bones. bless her cute little heart, because back then one had to practically clunk me on the head with a frying pan before id make a move. she was very forward, very adorable, and very sexually driven. my stories ramble as it is, so i wont go into why it had to be a short lived, but wonderful, affair. years later we got in touch and i found out she had joined Sex Addicts Anonymous. she even apologized for using me for sex.

remember never to apologize to me for that! i never want to belittle anyones efforts to improve themselves, but i have always been wary of all the 12-step programs. while i agree that it can be helpful to foster a belief in a greater power, the programs seem to tell you to subjugate yourself to said power in a submissive and unquestioning way that i cant agree with. im all about doubting and testing and deciding what to believe for yourself. but she explained to me that she felt out of control of her sexual urges and sometimes did things she really didnt intend to. so i guess it goes to show that everything, no matter how enjoyable, can be taken too far.

connections? as though you need somewhere to make a connection. if only i was 20 years older! men in my family age very well =) hopefully im not too young to be a friend eventually =)

~b


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/9/2006 8:58 am:
I can see if someone's sexuality was leading to problems in their life, but most people just have a problem getting enough.

chas4037 68M
4119 posts
9/9/2006 8:44 am

Well in the interest of knowlege, Kelli, you MUST go and report back to us all. Either you'll have a newly filled social schedule, or you'll have much to rant on.

Have a great weekend!

Chas


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/9/2006 8:59 am:
And what do I do if I show up and find someone from my work?

mysticdreamangel 62F
2759 posts
9/9/2006 8:45 am

7 p.m on Monday's...where do you live?


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/9/2006 8:59 am:
Looking for a little action on Mondays?

JAE193 52F

9/9/2006 8:55 am

I was thinking like you. I'm going out with an orgy, black leather, 4 inch heel, Highway to Hell, and I've got friends in low places. Remember I am the gate keeper to hell and we will have one hott party.


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/9/2006 9:08 am:
Are you sure that's appropriate dress for the occasion?

rm_saintlianna 46F
15466 posts
9/9/2006 9:02 am

Oh, I sooooooooooooooo wanna go to that meeting, if nothing else I could get more writing material


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/9/2006 9:06 am:
Check, there's probably one in your area.

JAE193 52F

9/9/2006 9:03 am

I will read them all. I may not get back to yoy but I will try as you can see I'm just a little Brain Damagef, probably from hitting the wall with my face, that's what I think happened anyway.
Sandie (Alas Jae193 ro prot wxr rhw fufhiry? U ) i HOPW YOUU Xn ewN RGUK, NT SOEKKJUBG USUBKT THIS BAD.


fantasylover_05 63M

9/9/2006 9:09 am

So you are now busy Monday's and Thursday evenings? LOL LOL


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/9/2006 9:13 am:
With a date with Mr. B on Wednesdays, and Saturday with Mr. Coffeeshop, I only have a few more nights to fill!

JAE193 52F

9/9/2006 9:11 am

Please don't hit me with ketchup. It ruings my black leather.


minoan55 62M
114 posts
9/9/2006 9:12 am

Sounds like a great place to score - unless the "Swiss Businessman" is there.


rm_FreeLove999 47F
16127 posts
9/9/2006 11:12 am

sounds like it's worth a try!! wish i'd seen an ad like that in the paper here ... i'd definitely go; maybe i'd find a man that can actually keep up



[blog freelove999]


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/9/2006 5:04 pm:
LOL!!!

They have them internationally. sa org, and saa-recovery org, fill in the dot.

fantasylover_05 63M

9/9/2006 11:30 am

So can ya fit me in (pun intended LOL ) on Tuesdays or Sundays??


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/9/2006 5:05 pm:
When's a girl supposed to sleep?

NSAAddict 43F

9/9/2006 2:23 pm

you really should go Kelli and when it's time to stand up and introduce yourself, give them your handle You do have me curious though, I want to know what goes on at these meetings!


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/9/2006 5:06 pm:
Check the response to freelove, I'm sure they have one close to you ... considering the connecticutt bloggers, they may have several.

EroticaXTC 51F

9/9/2006 3:31 pm

Actually, I don't think I want to know if there are any sexual addiction groups around where I live...Bubba and Hoss might still have a few tricks up their sleeves!


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/9/2006 5:07 pm:
Hmmmm ... that is a consideration.

JuicyBBW1001 55F

9/9/2006 6:16 pm

Hmmm been there done that not exactly the place to pick up the hotties unless of course you don't mind stick thin men with receding hair lines and the other extreme is tippin the scale at even way beyond my limit. Not to mention their affliction seems to be based on jackin themselves and not necessarily sex with a human either. I will just stick to being addicted thank you.

Juicy


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/10/2006 6:15 am:
I noticed on their web sites that they included masturbation as part of the problem. Without that, I'd be a total nut case.

rm_mainevern 52M
10197 posts
9/9/2006 6:59 pm

Heh, you're BAD .

Vern

I Wanna Pull Purpletrashcan's Fucking Hair!


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/10/2006 6:16 am:
As Sleeky says, good girls go to heaven, but bad girls get to go everywhere!

IsThisBetter4u 107M

9/9/2006 11:54 pm

OMG! I am such a BAD person! I've decided to start my own group therapy sessions. Click here for details

*Thanks Kelli. Sorry to pimp my blog on yours; but this is VERY important stuff!


IsThisBetter4u 107M

9/9/2006 11:57 pm

OMG! I am such a BAD person! I've decided to start my own group therapy sessions. Click here for details

*Thanks Kelli. Sorry to pimp my blog on yours; but this is VERY important stuff!


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/10/2006 6:28 am:
It must be important if you had to post it twice!!!!

rm_skyeone2 65M/46F
7186 posts
9/10/2006 5:48 am

    Quoting chas4037:
    Well in the interest of knowlege, Kelli, you MUST go and report back to us all. Either you'll have a newly filled social schedule, or you'll have much to rant on.

    Have a great weekend!

    Chas
And what do I do if I show up and find someone from my work?


LMAO, well if there is someone there from where you work, you hook up of course

But yes, by all means please please report back

Skye


Blessed Be


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/10/2006 6:48 am:
If there was someone from work I wanted to hook up with, I wouldn't still be looking. Other than that cute young secretary ... but she's got a boyfriend.

IsThisBetter4u 107M

9/10/2006 9:46 am

I like Purple better than Black. Now be a dear and delete the 1st one for me. I advertise me neuroses PLENTY on my blog.

I changed the links, BTW. One will send the gay guys to Mav and Foto, another will send the rest to you. But you got me to thinkin', too. You're gonna need to change your profile if you keep up your "Collecting New Men for My XXX Trophy Shelf" campaign. That's false advertisement, missy!


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/10/2006 2:51 pm:
I read every email I receive. Most of them just go in the trash, but occasionally ...

RevJoseyWales 70M/67F
14393 posts
9/10/2006 9:55 am

I tried them Kel. It was just a bunch of guys looking to get laid. Like me. Joe

"McVeigh had the right idea, wrong address."

"This ain't Dodge City, and you ain't Bill Hickok."


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/10/2006 2:52 pm:
Ah, ha! The definitive report!

papyrina 52F
21133 posts
9/10/2006 11:13 am

wish we had those here


I'm a

and
i'm here to stay


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/10/2006 2:57 pm:
Yeah, we know about the kind of women who post pictures of their butt on the internet ...

StaynHardnHot 43M
305 posts
9/10/2006 12:09 pm

Kelli...girl you're incorrigable..i LOVE IT! So we ever going to hear about the REAL weekend at the cabin.??


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/10/2006 2:57 pm:
People keep telling me that ... it's a good thing, right?

tootsiedippin 54M/54F
1078 posts
9/10/2006 12:12 pm

doesn't sound like the place for us...it not a problem!

T & D


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/10/2006 2:58 pm:
LOL!!! {=}

rm_222when911 47M/43F
5206 posts
9/10/2006 8:47 pm

That's funny! I had an employee tell me he was thinking of attending one of those meetings to find a weak woman. I told him that anyone he finds would be a weak woman. J

"You may think I'm a little off center, but if you really knew me you'd run~!"


rm_kelli4u2dew replies on 9/11/2006 4:30 am:
LOL!!!

StaynHardnHot 43M
305 posts
9/11/2006 4:17 am

Kelli...girl you're incorrigable..i LOVE IT! So we ever going to hear about the REAL weekend at the cabin.??

kelli4u2dew replies on 9/10/2006 5:57 pm:
People keep telling me that ... it's a good thing, right?

Simply the best darling!!


KC_JJ 55M

9/16/2006 10:53 pm

It will be quite interesting to see what sort of field notes you might bring back to the tribe here if you do decide to do some further research on this potentially captivating subject.

We need more adventuresome and bold trailblazers like yourself to shine a beacon of light into unknown realms such as this for the selfless betterment of mankind itself.

I've heard from a few people who have attended AA and NA meetings that at least those types of gatherings can oftentimes yeild them some righteous "party partners". So maybe something of a similar nature can also be found at the sexaholic meetings as well.

Be sure to publish your research findings if you do venture to investigate!

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