Sex, politics, and religion  

rm_kelli4u2dew 42F
7028 posts
2/20/2006 11:45 pm

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Sex, politics, and religion


How comfortable would you be if your boss knew you hang out here? A very interesting post:

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tillerbabe 57F

2/21/2006 1:32 am

I worry about it all the time....My immediate boss..no prob. The Fire Chief = problem.


StaynHardnHot 43M
305 posts
2/21/2006 2:32 am

Sadly i have come to find that the less any ones know the better..including friends, i used to be open about where i had met someone i was dating, meaning not ashamed about meeting them online, but recently i have have had friends reluctant to introduce me to their female friends because the have some preconcieved notion that there must be something wrong with someone who goes online looking for anything...clearly there problem , not mine, so i have come to the conclusion that i either need to keep my online life private, or just find new friends..lol I also had the same problem at work by the way, not thinking it would be an issue in an all male work enviroment....found out that it became my "claim to fame" when i was introduce to new business associates of their's instead of the work i did, something i wasnt real comfortable with at all. This is another reason i'm glad to be in a new job, definately keeping my private and person lives separate on this one..lol By the way Kelli, you never did let us know what the end result was with you boss you thought was hiting on you....or did i just miss it..??


StaynHardnHot 43M
305 posts
2/21/2006 2:34 am

Sorry about the spelling Kelli , hey its 5:30 am here and i also clearly detest spellcheck..lol.


MillsShipsGayly 52M

2/21/2006 5:49 am

WOW .. this is a whole can of worms ....


ldftb1 36M
214 posts
2/21/2006 6:13 am

my employer would love to be on here, maybe they are, iwouldnt be suprised


blueguy1051 61M

2/21/2006 6:48 am

staynhard - you missed it. I knew you were just stopping by for the pictures ...

KOFLA - your activities on this site, at least the public ones on your blog, are a public service activity. I'd be proud of it, also.

tillerbabe - I think that my bosses would be concerned that our clients might be upset.

michael - the current administration's approach to privacy and the constitution is a very large can of worms ...


pinkplaytoyz 50F

2/21/2006 7:04 am

As I mentioned in the post you linked for us, My immediate bosses would crawl all over themselves to make an example of me...they love to do that kind of thing and have done it several times in the past 2 years...They "reassigned" and stripped one of the best captains that we had of her stripes when an incident occurred in her private life...but that thing usually happens when you give the good-ole-boys a little power...they love to prove it!!!


rm_kelli4u2dew 42F
5220 posts
2/21/2006 7:42 am

staynhard - you missed it. I knew you were just stopping by for the pictures ...

KOFLA - your activities on this site, at least the public ones on your blog, are a public service activity. I'd be proud of it, also.

tillerbabe - I think that my bosses would be concerned that our clients might be upset.

michael - the current administration's approach to privacy and the constitution is a very large can of worms ...


aascrompn 43M
6444 posts
2/21/2006 8:16 am

I have zero problem if my employer were to find out! He's probably ask me for assistance in setting up his profile!


rm_FreeLove999 47F
16127 posts
2/21/2006 10:16 am

one of my bosses already knows and he finds it embarrasing, but his wife thinks its so cool (they both met [blog gaeb]). the other one knows i am in an open relationship, but not the online stuff, anyway as from next week i won't be working for him anymore, but wouldn't care if he knew. my woman boss -- who i admire greatly -- i am a bit nervous about her knowing. i work in a very serious leftwing environment where everything is about putting your shoulder into the struggle for change -- i am afraid this side of me would be viewed as frivolous, and a waste of energy that should be going into fighting for change! i also work in an organisation fighting for public health services and anti-retroviral rollout for AIDS -- from the point of view of HIV/AIDS my sexual promiscuity *might* be viewed in a negative light, but i am not sure.

i, however, think that this place is at the cutting edge of exploring sexuality and this is a massive part of changing our society, so if anyone raised it as frivolous, i would bring that into the conversation.



[blog freelove999]


wantonwill 61M

2/21/2006 12:32 pm

I'm self-employed...no problem....try to never let my AdultFriendFinder activities interfere with my job/career activities and requirements...though all this blogging makes that a challenge.


muscles4u2have 55M
1645 posts
2/21/2006 1:00 pm

Let me find out? Hey boss is it okay if I am on this site? .......Yes! Sure is nice being your own boss!!


whats4dessert2 50M

2/21/2006 1:51 pm

Kelli

Sex politics and religion..a volatile combination at best. I'm also a firm believer that God has no place in religion. If there is a God he's certainly annoyed at what religions and governments do in his/her name.

I linked to blueguy's blog from here and I'll just copy my post on my feeling on this below

"Funny thing, I happened across AdultFriendFinder one day and joined out of pure curiosity. My activities here have been limitted to blogging and meeting fun people. I have no intentions of being intimate with anyone that I meet here (unless you count great conversation as intimate). At the same time though, I would never post a pic because if someone from my company found it here my career would be in tatters.

As an officer of a major corporation my company would consider my participation here as an exercise in poor judgement and ask me to quietly resign. I would be handsomely compensated for said resignation but the odds of me ever getting a similar role in another company would be slim to none"


im_curious_4u 51M

2/21/2006 9:18 pm

Let's just say if my boss found out that I was on here, none of his f'ing business anyway, he would spread the word around faster than if I posted my name, address, and home phone number myself.


rm_kelli4u2dew 42F
5220 posts
2/22/2006 7:14 am

FreeLove - until all of our attitudes are liberated, the world will continue to be mired in the muck.


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