rm_kelli4u2dew 42F
7028 posts
1/25/2006 3:35 pm

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4/10/2006 10:52 pm


Starting yesterday evening, friends started contacting me to tell me that my profile here had disappeared. My blog also disappeared from watch lists, and my response to an email was delivered with the content deleted and a message about my violating the "terms of use" inserted instead.

I tried to log in, and couldn't. I sent a message to support, and was told my profile was removed.

Dear Member,

To protect the privacy and security of our members, Friendfinder, Inc. enforces a stringent policy in regards to email abuse such as spam, as well as other abusive and/or fraudulent behavior.

In accordance with this policy, your account has been removed. This decision was made after receiving numerous complaints, as well as an
investigation that confirmed these reports.

If you have any questions regarding this policy or your expulsion from our site, send an email to

I appealed, asking what I had done wrong. I think I've initiated two emails in all the time I've been on this site. I'm a standard member.

This evening, I got an email saying my profile was approved, and it's like nothing happened.

Anyone have any suggestions as to what I should do to prevent this happening again? Remove my pics? Redo my profile with their profile wizard? Remove my auto response? Rename my blog "Prayers and Meditations"? Start saying nice things about the half wits who write me?

I feel as though I'm starting to make some "friends" here. It's not central to my existance, and I'm not going to die if I can't bore folks with my blogs, but it beats the hell out of what's on TV.

"I refuse to engage in a battle of wits with an unarmed man." - Winston Churchill

Cowboy_Deluxe 39M

1/25/2006 5:12 pm

Geez don't know what to tell ya on any suggestions. I think they goofed up..thats what I think, no way they gonna remove you, and then put ya back on unless they screwed up somewhere.
Thats what I think.
Ohh and for a good laugh maybe for you, I don't have T.V.

caressmewell 54F

1/25/2006 5:15 pm

There have been some glitches in the system and someone is missing daily it seems. My understand is that this friendly site is trying to integrate this and some other sites and there are some problems.

You will hear from me very soon.

rm_mtnravyn 61M
890 posts
1/25/2006 6:10 pm

Why shouldn't things be largely absurd, futile, and transitory? They are so, and we are so, and they and we go very well together. George Santayana

It would seem that AdultFriendFinder and/or whatever clone site you signed in with all have techs who fit the above. I do enjoy your wit and the quote.

StaynHardnHot 43M
305 posts
1/25/2006 9:06 pm

Kelli, glad to see your back, had to go to great lengths to find your blog and reply yesterday...hope it wanst too long or disrespectful, certainly wasnt meant that way, will keep my comments short and to the point from now on...if i can..lol As AdultFriendFinder..you can call them complete idiots, morons, theives, hackers...as i have done all of those in the past on the phone no less...lol..and not have your profile removed. But minding your own business and creating enjoyment for others with wit, sarcasm, intelligence and beauty is apparently a crime punishable by cyber death. If it's worth the phone call to you...complain and you'll get a few weeks with an upgraded membership....maybe Damn...and here i wa going to keep it short..oh well..there's always next time..lol. Peace


StaynHardnHot 43M
305 posts
1/25/2006 9:10 pm

Oh, by the way...your still not showing..lol. IDIOTS!!

blueguy1051 61M

1/26/2006 2:56 am

She has been removed again, and when I talked to her last night the latest email she had received was that she will not be restored. There has never been any explanation other than what she posted above. She certainly is not spamming anyone, and unless idiots are feeling abused by her blog or her profile, I don't know what her transgression could be.

Her good bye post will be on my blog as soon as she gets it to me. Anyone who wants to link to it will be welcome.

curious082385 32F
4925 posts
1/26/2006 4:01 am

Still not showing up on my watch list.

StaynHardnHot 43M
305 posts
1/26/2006 7:36 am

Thats it..i'm calling AdultFriendFinder and complaining...those mental midgets are fucking up by removing her, i didnt know her that well...but i loved reading her very interesting blog..grrrrrr..i'm pissed and they're going to know it!! Anyone who wants to do the same here's the number (650) 847-3151 or( 88 575-8383

StaynHardnHot 43M
305 posts
1/26/2006 7:38 am

Damn AdultFriendFinder..the toll free is 888-575-8383...its the billing number but the should transfer you to customer service once you tell them you have a complaint!!

ObsidianButtrfly 42F
6 posts
1/31/2006 6:27 am

Please check Blueguy1051's blog for Kelli's goodbye. A F F has not restored her profile.

Cowboy_Deluxe 39M

1/31/2006 5:47 pm

BOOM! Your on my watch list..as of the last day of Jan. Please blog..I would hate to look for another great..*ahem* bronco fan. Yeah this might actually be another reason not to blog..

aascrompn 43M
6444 posts
2/1/2006 6:58 am

Welcome back! WooooooHoooooo I don't think you should ever change your pic...

MillsShipsGayly 52M

2/2/2006 5:57 am

Just yesterday, I was discussing you with tillerbabe thinking that you had probably disapperaed after your work related post - maybe got a stalker or something.

Glad to see you are back.
That promotion and move to a new office was good to see!

cuddlykittenn 43F

2/3/2006 11:38 am

i have written "work related" posts before and had them "declined" no matter how nice i was in the post or how much i beat around the bush. i think some folks may fear relatiation and a lawsuit for they would rather censor that topic of conversation. work related items also fall into the "too personal" relm for the AdultFriendFinder folks.
my recommendation is remove the work post and refrain from posting them or beat around a larger bush. sometimes it works. don't forget to provide all of your friends with decoder rings...lol. j/k

sometimes it just takes an extra level of creativity.

rm_kelli4u2dew 42F
5220 posts
2/3/2006 5:07 pm

cuddlykittenn, Michael - it never occurred to me that something related to work would be taboo. I figured it was related to my "no lawyers" update to my profile (which I have removed). No sex at work, huh? Weird. This from people that give you an option of selecting "my desk at work" on their initial profile fantasy section. Which, by the way, was one of my selections, and also that of the best sex I've met on this site. Unfortunately, we were never able to make it on either of our desks.

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