Girls versus Women  

rm_kelli4u2dew 42F
7028 posts
2/13/2006 10:49 pm

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Girls versus Women

My best friend sent me this ...

GIRLS leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
GROWN WOMEN make plans with the guy or adjust their schedule where possible to fit him in

GIRLS want to control the man in their life.
GROWN WOMEN know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.

GIRLS check you for not calling them.
GROWN WOMEN aren't too stubborn to call you

GIRLS try to put a man 'on lock' by using sex.
GROWN WOMEN know that it's the sex of the mental kind that makes a man want to 'lock' you down.

GIRLS fake-moan, lay there and take the stabbing.
GROWN WOMEN will stop you, and show you how to really please her

GIRLS are afraid to be alone.
GROWN WOMEN revel in it-- using it as a time for personal growth.

GIRLS ignore the good guys.
GROWN WOMEN ignore the bad guys.

GIRLS make you come.
GROWN WOMEN make you come home.

GIRLS worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
GROWN WOMEN know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.

GIRLS try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e., don't want him
hanging with his friends).
GROWN WOMEN realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time'
even more special -- and goes to kick it with her own friends!

GIRLS think a guy crying is weak.
GROWN WOMEN offer their shoulder and a tissue.

GIRLS want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
GROWN WOMEN 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate w/o fear of losing his 'manhood'.

GIRLS get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
GROWN WOMEN know that that was just one man.

GIRLS fall in love, chase aimlessly after the object of their
affection, ignoring all 'signs'.
GROWN WOMEN know that sometimes the one you love, doesn't always love you back -- and moves on, without bitterness.

GIRLS will read this and get an attitude.
GROWN WOMEN will read this and ask...which one am I?
Loved by some, hated by many, envied by most, yet wanted by plenty!

tillerbabe 57F

2/14/2006 12:26 am


gnr8nrg 47M

2/14/2006 12:33 am

Grown Women Very good post. Happy Valentines Day Kelli.

curious082385 32F
4925 posts
2/14/2006 1:29 am

Awesome post and so very true!
So...if I came out woman on most, but girl on a few...what does that make me?

danteszippo 53M
4065 posts
2/14/2006 4:18 am

with any luck girls will all grow to be grown women.

Cowboy_Deluxe 39M

2/14/2006 5:04 am

I just got checked for not calling a "girl" this weekend.. I was upset by it! Geez now I know why.


MillsShipsGayly 53M

2/14/2006 5:16 am


I like this one ...

GIRLS fall in love, chase aimlessly after the object of their
affection, ignoring all 'signs'.
GROWN WOMEN know that sometimes the one you love, doesn't always love you back -- and moves on, without bitterness.

caressmewell 54F

2/14/2006 5:23 am


blueguy1051 61M

2/14/2006 7:06 am

Happy Valentine's Day, Kel!

rm_Keystone3812 66M
583 posts
2/14/2006 8:34 am

Great post! Happy Valentine's Day, Kelli.

sillyperv 55M

2/14/2006 8:47 am

It's maturity. Though I'm sure no matter how wide our view of the world there's that button that brings out the girl/boy - hey there's got to be a little spice in a relationship, otherwise there's no make up sex.

Efilnikufecin69 48M

2/14/2006 8:52 am

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<font color="white"><font face="verdana">Very Nice! L'amour Toujours! Happy Valentines Day Kelli!</marquee>

Allsleeky 37F

2/14/2006 10:45 am

Very true.

Happy Valentine's day

rm_1hotwahine 64F
21091 posts
2/14/2006 11:11 am

This would be GREAT [blog EveLWoman} material! I hope the spirit moves you to comment over there someday. But for the time being, I'm copy/pasting this into emails to select girlfriends. Or should I say grown up woman friends, LOL. Thanks, this is cool.

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]

rm_kelli4u2dew 42F
5220 posts
2/14/2006 6:09 pm

Sparkee - fasten your seat belt!

Curious - I think it makes you normal.

Efil - Thanks! (I don't know why my email wouldn't take the valentine you sent???)

Blue - Thanks for the awesome weekend.

Cowboy - go read Frogger's post on this - girl or woman, not usually appreciated!

1hotwahine - Maybe I should have. I'll try to remember next time I get something like this.

And thank you all for the Valentine's wishes. I hope you're all too busy to be blogging tonight!

StaynHardnHot 43M
305 posts
2/14/2006 6:14 pm

As usual i messed up my post...its one blog behind Kelli...but i'll wish you a very wonderful Happy Valentines Day from all your wantabe valentines here if you dont have one yourself there..

Kisses, Chris

rm_kelli4u2dew 42F
5220 posts
2/14/2006 10:58 pm

Staynhard - keep it up, honey!

TTiger - Thank you!!!! The most wonderful lawyer in the world! (I can't believe I'm saying such a thing ...) A lawyer with a heart! Who woulda thunk it?

thickgonzo 53M
2 posts
2/15/2006 2:17 am

u have and intresting view and your pic is sexy

kyplowboy22 62M

2/15/2006 5:33 am

I like your style, kid. No doubt which group you fall into. I appreciate a woman who has a handle on life and is not handled by life. Later


rm_FreeLove999 47F
16127 posts
2/16/2006 12:10 am

that's true & cool!

mostly i'm a grown woman, but sometimes, hell i just wanna be a girl

[blog freelove999]

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