That big red X........  

rm_kalisweet 48F
326 posts
4/23/2006 2:48 pm

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4/25/2006 1:38 pm

That big red X........

The one thing that I detest is when I get a wink, mail, or hit up for a chat, and I look at the man's profile, and there is a BIG RED X next to my body size. What the hell are they bothering me for? Did they look at my photo? Do they think I'm going to see that and then want to chat with them?

I have my own theory about why they do that....and I'm sure the other ladies my size know exactly what I'm talking about.

It's just as bad as getting mail from married men who are gold/silver members..the ones who can see my profile...the one that says No Married Men!

meerkittykat 43F

4/23/2006 4:05 pm

Lots (not all) of the men on this site take a scattershot approach to hitting on women; they know the odds are against them, so they throw everything they've got at us and hope for a couple responses.

Of course, this means they don't always pay attention to what women are actually looking for

good luck

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