A thoughful post.....and no facial hair!!!  

rm_kalisweet 49F
326 posts
9/10/2006 2:53 pm

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9/12/2006 1:08 am

A thoughful post.....and no facial hair!!!

First, I have copied this from

funintheday2006's blog....

9/11 is here again.
A number of bloggers are requesting that we show our respect with a day of silence on
Monday 11th September.
No posts or comments on that day.
Perhaps you would like to join this particular expression of respect and sorrow.
Please post this on your blog if you support it.

As human beings we, naturally, respect your right to commemerate the day in your own way, we are not trying in any way to coerce you into it.

Thank you

I think that is a nice idea....tomorrow should be about something much bigger.....

But....for today.

I have learned so much, and have had so many experiences, good, bad, and great from this site.

I have been doing 'internet dating' for a long time (2002), but probably nothing as intense as what I have experienced on this site. Or as long...

I like it here.... I like the fact that men outnumber women by such a huge amount. I am not a crowd pleaser by any means....but I have found that there are many men who like what they see......when they see me. It has affected my confidence, and the effects are touching every part of my life. I only regret that it took so long for me to learn about this.

I can be picky. One thing I did learn shortly before starting here is that physical attraction is important. Let me explain.... all my life I have connected with great men, and have been turned down many, many times. I ended up with a bad view of men, what shallow beings they were! I often thought. Didn't they see how great I was? Could they care about anything other than physical appearance?

Then I got a life lesson...... I met someone great. Understood me and accepted me in every way, totally lusted me just the way I am. But I didn't have any physical attraction for him. I tried, I really did. But it wasn't there. I will always care for him, and we will always be friends. But we have no future in the romantic sense......

So, if this happens to me, isn't it okay to happen to men in regards to me? Yes....now I know. And I feel less guilty when I turn down men who aren't my definition of 'hot'. Because someone, somewhere, will think they are hot. If you don't get lucky, move along and try again. It's all good.

Especially here....I am not looking for my soul mate, or a life long commitment. This is about fun and pleasure. I feel I have the right to choose by what turns me on. And so does everyone else.

And if you've read this blog for any amount of time....you know what that is for me

Kali XXX

P.S. Okay, I'm going to say it...I have resisted putting this in my profile, but here goes: I hate facial hair. A nicely trimmed goatee is okay, sometimes....but beards and mustaches, no thank you. Plenty of women go crazy for it....so go get 'em boys. Clean shaven, short hair....I'm all over it.


Glimmer_Man06 49M
3308 posts
9/11/2006 12:28 am

Never Forget 911 Victims

They say a woman ages like fine wine...

...mine ages like milk!


muffinstud50
4 posts
9/11/2006 8:05 pm

great post on getting over feeling rejected-don't have to
take it personal cause we're not someone elses idea of
hot.


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