What The Fuck!!!!!  

rm_jr0428 44M
39 posts
8/15/2005 5:28 pm

Last Read:
3/5/2006 9:27 pm

What The Fuck!!!!!

Why is it when you decide to change how you will interact with a woman (I Know I'm generalizing, ladies! But cut me some slack till you read all of this!!) They suddenly get interested and PISSED!

My example!

I Started chatting with a young lady from this sight! Are chat's were phenomenal! No subject barred, just getting to know one another.(Well?! As well as you can online, I guess!) I was just a few chats! Then suddenly nothing! I send a couple how are you's! She seems to only reply( If at all!)When I'm offline!


So I stop sending messages for awhile( about a week or so!) Then I'm chatting with someone else, she pops online and sends a hello! I send her a hello back and tell her I'm just finishing up chatting with someone else, I'll chat with her in a few! Okay! Pops up! I finish my conversation!(All of 5mins!!) I send her a hello again! Nothing!? "Are you there?" Nothing!? So I leave my online up Thinking maybe she stepped away.

An hour later I get up and go to bed! Go to shut it down and check. Nothing!!

So the next day it shows she's online. I send a message! Nothing!!?? So I don't chat with her again for a couple of days. I don't send any messages! She send me one when I'm offline, Telling me she'll be on later! Okay!? When I'm on later, I see she's on and I send a hello!(Guess What!!) Nothing?!?!?

Today I go online and there is another message!?!?!? What the fuck!! I'm not a game player! And I don't expect to have games pulled on me! So I send her a message to inform her that I'm not sure what she's playing, if anything, And Explain to her that I'm starting to feel like a Creep and a Idiot!(I may be an Idiot at times. But I don't dig feeling like a creep!!) I send to her I have decided to take her name off my messenger and mail! I wish her well! The end right!


An explosive all caps message comes back within minutes!! She tells me the timing just happen to be wrong. That she's looking for a relationship and because I don't want anymore kids, she didn't want to waste her time and mine!( Mind you, these are things I told her when I first chatted with her! And She read it in my profile! DUH!!)Then she proceeds to throw a few jabs about game playing, like I'm up to something!!

I don't honor any of these with a response!( I won't throw fuel on a fire and burn my ass too!)
She ends with a "Be well"????

My Question is this:
Was I wrong on how I handle this?
And Has this happened to any of you?


Merrysunshine 59F
16 posts
8/15/2005 6:30 pm

don't get so upset about it, she does not sound stable

rm_jr0428 44M
34 posts
8/15/2005 7:09 pm

Thank you Merry! I was not so much upset as Confused! Welcome to my blogs!

Philosophy_N_Sex 50M/48F

8/15/2005 8:54 pm

they come in all shapes sizes and genders

SensuousStars 52F
20 posts
8/15/2005 9:30 pm

This gal doesn't seem to know what she wants. You were more than patient with her.

Lapkin4u 43F

8/16/2005 7:06 am

She's the idiot, she has no idea what she just passed up. Kisses Babe!

rm_jr0428 44M
34 posts
8/16/2005 6:24 pm

Thank you,Jezebelle! That was why I Got rid of her, for lack of a better term! And I guess I should say that I hold no malice, I just don't want to deal with it!


rm_jr0428 44M
34 posts
8/16/2005 6:26 pm

Very true philosophy! I hope women understand, It's not just men!


rm_jr0428 44M
34 posts
8/16/2005 6:28 pm

I thought so too, Sensuous! Plus I consider myself a patient person, but even I have my limits!

rm_jr0428 44M
34 posts
8/16/2005 6:30 pm

Thank you Lapkin! She didn't miss anything! You Know I don't meet if I don't feel comfortable!


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