let's be honest  

rm_jakeUT 37M
6 posts
5/25/2006 2:56 pm

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5/26/2006 9:54 am

let's be honest


Ok, I understand this is a sex personal site. Everyone on here is either looking to meet new people to chat with, maybe find a mate, a partner, a fling, whatever...

Personally, I work a ton of hours each week and when I get off (work that is) I'm pretty tired and just want to head home and crash. This makes it tough to meet new and excited people, such as yourselves that are reading this here post. I've met all kinds of cool people, some weird people, some attracive people, some not-so-attractive people and some people that really scare me and make me want to lock myself in my house and never come out! lol

Anyway, here's the deal and point of my newest rant... I'm honest. I'll tell you like it is. What you read on my profile is the truth, I'm being me. I really am a guy. I really am 6'1" tall. I really am in shape. I really can bench press 415 lbs (not that anyone cares, but I thought I'd throw it out there in case it impresses you). The pictures are really me. One of them is from this past weekend even. Yes, that's water in the background, it's Lake Huron.

If you've read my previous post then you understand what frustration I've had sifting through the bullshit on this site and what's got me flustered now is that when I really find a real person... be honest! Don't tell me that you are "slim/pettite" when you are 4'9" and weight 250 lbs. Tell me ur large. I will still talk to you. I'm a good guy. No, I probably won't want to hook up with you, but yes, I wouldn't mind chatting or talking on the phone or going to dinner or lunch or whatever. But it's really not cool when you do that kind of stuff.

If you are afraid of protecting your identity or you're worried about stalkers (I totally understand, btw) then don't put up your picture. Putting up a picture of someone else will just make me disappointed when I come to realize that this person is not really you.

Be honest. That's all I ask, and I don't think it's too much to ask either!

*sigh*

Ubermik 50M
209 posts
5/25/2006 3:37 pm

You think this place is bad you should look at the more mainstream dating sites lol

I swear to god I reckon theres a law against people having pictures newer than 10 years old or within 5 stones of what they weigh and even that is a mild misrepresentation compared to how people portray their "personality" (they basically claim to have one lol), and dont even get me started on their self perceptions of how sane, sorted and baggageless THEY think they are

Comparatively this place so far looks like a bastion of truth and honesty


rm_jakeUT replies on 5/26/2006 6:32 am:
I guess that's good. I know you can be anyone you want online, but the truth will come out eventually, it's just very frustrating!

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