playing with fire  

rm_icky1215 36F
407 posts
12/30/2006 8:03 pm

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12/31/2006 8:07 pm

playing with fire

is that what I'm doing? am i doing it to be a bitch? because I'm bord? lonely? am i really that sadistic? or do i just not want to be forgotten? I'm not sure. i have been thinking about it ever since my x's best friend gave me his phone number. i have had it for like two weeks and never did anything with it cause i already know that this other guy is bad news but tonight i text messaged him and talked for a bit. I'm not sure if i should keep this up i think I'm talking to him for all the wrong reasons but on that I'm sick and tired of always doing the right thing i wanna act like a little jack ass. i don't know does any one have some advice they can give me or should i just screw it up and see what happens after words?


someones_angel2 52F
1 post
12/30/2006 9:12 pm

Is your leg long enough to kick yourself in the ass later?

rm_westonite 67M
3521 posts
12/30/2006 9:26 pm

Fools rush in where Angels fear to tread! How close is your ex to the friend that gave you his number??? Rebounds can cause a lot of pain. Be careful. If yah wanna be a jackass, get laid by a someone neither of you know! Practice safe sex, of course.

Once you have that revenge thing dealt with, call your ex's friend and find out where the person thinks any relationship will go. Don't rush it!!


rm_icky1215 36F
347 posts
12/30/2006 10:00 pm

my x is best friends with the guy who gave me his number. they have been friends since childhood. i don't want to do the revenge thing but on the same slate I'm not sure what i want. i guess i want him to remember me and think about me. i guess its may not be the best way to go about it but i don't know how else to do it. he wont even talk to me!


FanErotic6996 58M
1019 posts
12/31/2006 10:21 am

There is a big difference between your x's best friend and your best friends x. Do it for the right reasons if you do it, not the wrong ones. And know that this could harm their relationship too. What you find may be very fleeting. But while you can ask all for advice, only you can choose.

Next best thing to perfect

LustyTaurus 49M
21253 posts
12/31/2006 10:48 am don't need advice, you're looking for permission to do what you already feel is just wrong!!...

That's ok...making mistakes, doing stupid things is part of living!!

Whatever you do, just do it with your eyes open and you'll come out on top...

It's nice to see another Saskatchewanite blogging regular...

rm_aboutme66 52F
6047 posts
12/31/2006 3:51 pm

You are not sarcastic, a bitch, stupid, nor are you a fool . Why are you trying to get a feeling of him remembering you at another expense?
Like the man said smart ole Tarus up there you are looking for .....


Someday is today.

rm_icky1215 36F
347 posts
12/31/2006 8:07 pm

ya everyone is right. I'm not concreting others. and how my actions may harm others relationships. and i am just looking for permission to act like an ass hole. i don't need it cause i don't want to be like that. i just don't know how to get over the revenge


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