rm_hotmamaNcols 41F
460 posts
6/15/2006 12:43 am

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Excerpt from the Discovery Channel:
In the animal kingdom, a boy turtle meets a girl turtle. They copulate, several times if lucky. They part ways. The following year, most are off to find another for the sole purpose of reproduction.

Ok, I do have a point.

Take Brangelina. They are both incredibly sexy, well paid actors with silver screen talent. They are a perfect match. She likes to run the show, he is comfortable enough in his manhood to let her. Even in the humanitarian department they are compatible. To me this makes perfect sense. 4s pair with 4s. 5s with 5s. In this case, the 10s have paired up.

Then you have a "WTF couple" like Britney Spears and Kevin Federline. Apparently, all of her grey matter disappeared when they met. And speaking of KFed, every time I see the Pepto Bismol commercial with the break dancers, I wonder if he "choreographed" it. Anyhow, this is one of those occasions when a 7 pairs up with a 2. A wealthy, hard working beauty, paired up with a baby daddy trying to shake his thing for a living. In my opinion, this pairing of non equals only happens when a free ride on someone's coat tail is the agenda. OR if someone becomes pregnant.

In this particular case, he managed to get her prego twice. Of course she allowed it( the big sack of rocks). But I saw this coming, and I've seen this before. Funny when there was a leak about her pre-divorce consultation, a month later she's with child #2. I hope there's a prenupt. We all know his career isn't going to take off, not that he had any intention of working anyways. Can we say wannabe rapper/trailer trash? And he's FUGLY and ghetto. WTF was she thinking?

I would have been happy to see her settle down with Colin Farell if I'd known she was going to just settle. I'd been content if her and Madonna hooked up but she's in the same sinking boat with her hubby who is ALSO deep in her pockets.

In your opinion, are my views wrong? Does a 6 hook up with a 9? Does it work? What other "WTF couples" do you know of?

Man word of the day: COCKPIT

im_your_man77 40M
961 posts
6/15/2006 2:57 am

Ok I don't know who Kevin Federline nor do I care to, I've never much cared for Britney. I don't think Britney was anything special, she could dance, she could, umm, sing. She could do what she could do, but I don't think she was all that clever.

To be honest I don't care about celebrity. However that said I think you are making unfair judgments on peoples lives you don't know enough about. I have actually met Guy Ritchie (Madonna's husband) about 9 years ago. I was at college, I think he was just getting into the British film industry at the time and he came over to do a lecture on going for your dream. Since then he's gone on and directed a few successful films (by British standards) with very little budget. He's had the chance to direct in America and not taken those opportunites because he prefers to have full say what he makes. Personally I don't think he's interested in money. I think he is much too single minded in what he wants to do to sell out.

Madonna is a very clever astute woman when it comes to her finances, always has been from a very young age and I have no doubt she would see through it if Guy were after her money. Madonna from what I can tell has very rarely settled down with anyone for any length of time but when she has done they have tended to be strong independent men, who didn't give a fuck what she did. From what I've saw about Guy on that one day I saw him, he is very strong and independent minded which was proven when he went on to make films at such a young age. In this country you don't make films unless you have that strong independent streak because you just cannot get the funding. His reward for his single mindedness was getting to be rich on his own right. He's not Madonna rich, but who is? He is rich enough to live very comfortably here in Britain, money over here isn't such a big issue as it is in the States. In my opinion Guy is not a 6 compared to Madonna's 9, or whatever you are trying to say, I don't say this about many celebrity marriages, but they seem a good match to me.

Success with love is not a numbers game, its about finding characteristics that we like on others and compromising in the less important character flaws. Its about finding the ying to go with our yang. Its not about how gorgeous someone is, nor how rich. When we love someone, and you love them for all the good things they are. You also accept that you are deserving of their love and them yours.

Don't make the mistake of judging other peoples lives we know very little about. We may think we know too much about the live of celebrities (thats certainly my view), but despite the fact their lives seem to be on every paper, magazine, and television program in reality we only see a mere glimpse of what their lives are like. How people are perceived in pictures and from words written by others who have nothing to do with their lives can be far from the reality of what their life is really like. People are only human and don't deserve to be judged and scrutinised with every choice they make.

Be open to what love is and you will find it will come knocking someday. Think of it as a numbers game and it might never come knocking.

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 6/15/2006 9:46 am:
well, it looks as if I were corrected about Guy Ritchie. LOL!!
I know love isn't a numbers game. I know I'm a sceptic and it may make me deaf to the knocking. But I also knew if I wrote something superficial, you would have something to say about it!!!LOL!!

Jeepidiot 44M

6/15/2006 4:24 am

I don't believe there is a prenupt between Kevin and Britany which means he gets half. I don't feel sorry for her one bit though. She's an idiot. I mean the guy already had a child from a previous relationship and started fooling around with Brit while his girlfriend was pregnant with their second child. How stupid does she have to be to see that this guy isn't worth a crap?

Oh well. I could rant and rave all day but I have to get to work.

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 6/15/2006 9:50 am:
Brit already had very little grey matter and post pardum, the brain refuses to work. It's called placenta brain, the brain is left at the hospital with the placenta. KFed knew this and is taking advantage of the situation. I don't feel sorry for her either. We all have to lie in our own beds, whether we made them or not.

p33c3y0 43M

6/15/2006 4:27 pm

i just got to say ... colin ... ? with those eyebrows? no way. give me a break !!!

(sheepishly puts down britney spears poster ...)

Sailor376 64M
2288 posts
6/15/2006 8:20 pm

Hello Hot,

I'm with man77. What little we can glean from the tabloids that can be relied upon is insufficient. And what we do know is most likely useless in gaugeing the good in a match. What is wrong, the negetive, is almost certainly there for all to see.

But does a 6 belong with a 9. We cannot judge. What portion of the psyche can we measure. Maybe a 10 needs to be with a 10, and a six with a six, but it would be the subjective measure between the ears. Only. Only parity between the ears will work and what yardstick is used by who may skew the results. Parity may only be each ones belief. I can only judge me. And I can envision older, younger, taller, shorter, (maybe not Republican), male(a stretch maybe), or female, for my soul mate.

For me and for others , I would think, the parity of some indefinable thing of the mind or soul is the only requisite. And really, when have we ever seen the popular press exhibit any vestige of either mind or soul. They are very good at venal, banal, and superficial. I am probably being too harsh. Sorry.


rm_jd29992z 55M
3888 posts
6/16/2006 10:42 pm

For the past 20 some odd years I have been working out of and sometimes living in Louisiana. So being an outsider looking in her thought process dose not surprise me. As far as a couple me and my EX. She always had the grand illusions of doing this and being that while I just plugged away at my job and now I am in a very high place and she is still having illusions hmmmm never could figure that one out. Later girl JD.

slimcountryboy2 39M
46 posts
6/17/2006 8:21 am

I take it you must have watched the dateline interview? I saw a commercial for that... Mis-matches are a frequent occurence. You know, Britney was quite a physical specimen a few years ago, not to say she wont be after her child producing times.. (a sexy mommy is as sexy as any woman ) ... But that takes me back to the point of WTF. How does she end up with him?? If I played my cards right, maybe I could have hooked up with someone famous... Hmm

david690r77 56M
11 posts
6/24/2006 5:36 pm

Some times it's not about looks, we have all seen the"10" with the"5" & we say wtf! Well he must be doing something rite. Intellectual stimulation, whatever it may be, sense of humor(huge!)or just the simple act of listening, being able to TALK TO HER about things she enjoys. People have said the mind is the biggest sex organ in the human body. Now that I've said my part back to kev & brit.....WTF!

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