MAIL TIME!!!!!  

rm_hotmamaNcols 41F
460 posts
5/21/2006 2:17 am

Last Read:
7/8/2006 7:38 am


LOL!! I gotta love this site. The emails I get remind me of how grateful I am to regular readers and the friends I've made here. Occasionally, I get a few questionable emails, that I report. Here's a couple you are sure to enjoy.
Sender: a2006parolee
To: hotmamaNcols
Date: Apr 21, 2006 7:24 PM EDT

And what makes you so great? The fact you've probably slept with a million sleazy guys and are a mile wide between the thighs?

Pfft. Whatever. Women on here are unreal.


If you even had one Forrest gumption about the kind of men I want to repel, look in the mirror, it's your type. Go spread that hatred of women of yours elsewhere. Me a whore? I'm looking for alternative activities(dating).You are on the same website but you are looking for 1 on 1, group, 3 or more. You are no better than me. As a matter of fact, you are the bigger whore. Let me guess, you've had a Domestic Violence before? if you haven't, that would be a surprise, since you like to bash women you don't even know. Good luck meeting women here. Seek help.

And if that weren't enough:

Sender: another2006parolee
To: hotmamaNcols
Date: May 21, 2006 2:31 AM EDT

Hey hotmamaNcols, If you are no longer actively dating or looking get the hell off this site and make room for a GOOD looking broad. Blogging is so yesterday it aint even close to funny. After reading some of your blog I get the feeling that you think you are hot, I got news slut, you are nothing more than a bustop whore whose dreams include moving up in life to be a truckstop whore.


For a 39 yr old college student, you are extremely immature. Your "news" is irrelevant. I don't give a damn what you think about me or my blog. As for me "making room", even if I left this site, NOBODY WOULD WANT YOU!! In your search for sex, you've become disgruntled. Maybe your language and abusive tone is relative to you not getting any. You will never get a piece of ass if you keep calling women whores. Maybe that's the problem.
Let me guess, you have a police record don't you? Seek psychiatric help for your anger issues directed at women. OH, and one more thing... you may be a gold member, but you can have your account erased for abusing your priveledges or if you get enough complaints. I'm sure you are almost there.

rm_jd29992z 55M
3888 posts
5/21/2006 8:22 am

There are some disturbed people everywhere. I think this site just brings them out more. I like the "Forrest gumption" line, that was cool. And the statement, "blogging is so yesterday" hmmmm after reading it I had to check my calender to make sure I was not back in the 80's. Hmmmm yup still in 2006. See you babe and "bloggers rule" (oh I have not fully returned back for the 80's yet sorry) JD

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 5/22/2006 6:24 am:
yup. Blog on!!!

Jeepidiot 43M

5/21/2006 8:58 am

Blogging is yesterday?? Dammit will I never be cool?

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 5/22/2006 6:26 am:
Unfortunately we both aren't anymore. You can only be cool if you are a teenager or musician.

nxxs1 69M
12 posts
5/21/2006 6:42 pm

hotmamaNcol,i am here to say i stand with you 110%, and if they were in my neighbor hood,they would not disrespect you or other women again......nxxs1

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 5/22/2006 6:27 am:
I appreciate your chivalry, but this site has a way of weeding those kind of people out.

out_for_a_ride 36M

5/22/2006 12:16 am

there's nothing more chicken shit than a person trying to bring another down to their level. you did what's right in reporting them, but you should try and keep your aura clean of a retaliating sentiment, there's no reason to taint your exsistence with a negative response...not that we're unjust in such actions, but we could stand to have little more compassion in the world for what you obviously understood about them (your insight as to why they might behave in such a manner) and to help heal them in their ways. it's understandable if we don't care to be that person to heal those out to harm us, but if we aren't going to try, we shouldn't project thoughts that will fuel their drive down self destruction lane, it creates bad energy for us to partake in such a ride.

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 5/22/2006 7:02 am:
I may sound like a bitch when I say this, but I have no compassion for men with psychological dysfunctions and issues. When I'm disrespected by a complete stranger, the last thing I'm going to do is hold his hand and be understanding about the bad day he is having or the old wounds and baggage he carries. I understand their anger is misdirected. But, what do I owe them? Nada. They aren't children, they shouldn't behave as such and shouldn't be treated with patience as if they are. I save my compassion for those worthy of it, ie my family and friends, the hungry, children and the elderly, for those in need of it. Not men who haven't mentally passed the age of 15. With all that said, I know I was a bit childish in returning fire, but as they say "When in Rome...." you have to speak in a language they understand.

im_your_man77 40M
961 posts
5/22/2006 1:00 am

I hate to steal a line but I'm feeling lazy this morning....'assholes on here are unreal.'

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 5/22/2006 7:04 am:
LOL!! yes I read it aloud. I understood what I was posting although I was in a zombie like state. Insomnia sucks!!!

laydbacklover 38M
2 posts
5/22/2006 10:45 am

yes k totally agree with both but sometimes you just have to say it and better you say through a letter than scream at them that way you get much more thought into it. and i dont see how you can project bad energy when you are standing up for your self worth and dignity you went about it spot on well done .

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 5/22/2006 4:39 pm:
Why, thank you! The funniest thing about it all is they never responded back... I think when a woman fires back with the right kind of ammo, it comes as a surprise. They KNOW I'm right in my suspicions. And if I'm not, my response usually gives them insight about how others view their behavior and I get an apology. Unfortunately, I only ever got ONE apology for a nasty email and it wasn't these two or the countless others.

slimcountryboy2 39M
46 posts
5/22/2006 4:27 pm

The man only said the things he did because he can't handle you ... I mean to say, he can't handle the things you say, the person you are... He shows signs of being quite and ass (to put it simply ).
Knowing that there is no way he could ever be with you, physically, or on any level for that matter.... He lashes out... Because that's all he can do.
I know this doesn't torment you much... But obviously it bothered you enough to bring it up here in blogville. Don't lose any sleep over it... I know you wont, not over this anyways.. You need to sleep more woman ...

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 5/22/2006 4:53 pm:
You're right. I'm only hurt if the person is someone I care about or respect. As warped as this sounds, I thought it was funny actually. A battle of words is always entertaining when I've had no sleep in 48hrs and counting. I'm waiting until 8 pm tonight to take my zzzzs.

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