Facial Recognition Among Perverts (closet pervs too)  

rm_hotmamaNcols 41F
460 posts
5/27/2006 3:26 pm

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Facial Recognition Among Perverts (closet pervs too)

A week ago, I changed my profile pic to reveal the entire face. Radical move? Hell no. But I do wonder why others absolutely refuse to post a picture of their face on their profile but will show more intimate pictures of shlongs and cooters in provocative poses. But why refuse to post a face but entertain us with all of your goodies?

Personally, genitalia pics make me spew out my coffee upon logging on in the morning. I really don't like to see "strange" first thing, I like to see "familiar". Some of you bi tarded fucks have no business posting your mutated FUBAR genitalia. But that's another subject.

When I ask those conflicted with "to post or not to post" an actual picture of yourselves, I generally get the same answers. Some do not want their faces on a sex site due to their professions, standings in their community or church, etc. Others fear they will have friends or family members recognize them...

Ok, I will address these:
Profession: I have no problem with people knowing about me and this site at work but I do not broadcast it either. I know what I do off hours are no one's business. I don't have an alter ego and my persona here is the same at work. To be honest, they'd probably enjoy the publicity. Or in the least, be entertained with having something to talk about.

Standings in community or church: Again, no such problem. Yes, I have children. Yes, I am a soccer, karate, swimming lessons, school volunteering mom. Yes, I run the marathons aiming for cures and attend alot of charity events. But I have no overblown reputation to protect due to politics, and I belong to no church.

What about my family and friends? Again no such problem. My family (except the children and preteens) talks openly about things like this. We joke and harass each other when need be and secrets are few. We aren't "shadow dwellers" and all of our competitive personas and non chicken shit attitudes always drives the truth out eventually. Yes, I care. I care whether they love me, and that's the extent of it. If they still love me whether I'm the skankiest whore or the most reserved prude is never a question. I know where I stand, and they know where they stand.
My friends? Same thing. Everyone that knows me in real life knows this is how I am. I'm a perpetual horn dog, an activist, a protester, and I'm a good friend.

I respect those who will put themselves out there. I respect the brazen, the bold, the unafraid. There is something sexy about the confidence, the nerve.

In closing, I was recognized by someone I know. No drama, just funny. Her and her man was on the site and ran across my pic in someone's blog. I recognized her tattoo when she told me their handle. It was too funny. The bad thing is that they know Mr. Two liters of alcohol.

NickRules999 40M
9464 posts
5/27/2006 4:43 pm

I hear you. My profile has nothing but face pics. And I'd rather see a face or a full body shot, coz up close genital shots don't do it for me.

Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 5/27/2006 6:57 pm:
Isn't hard to identify people by just a genitalia pic? After a while, it all starts to look the same.

jadedbabe78 107F

5/27/2006 7:32 pm

Yeah, I'm not a big fan of the genitalia shots. Some of those pics are just downright wrong looking.

Now, I'm one who doensn't show my face very often. I just added the partial face shot yesterday. I don't want to be recognized for a certain reason. BUT, I also have my location changed, as it states in my pro. People who know me know the reasons why.

But a dick pic, a cooch shot, face down, ass up.....they just make me want to hurl. Then again, I wish some people would cover up their face, too (ok, that was mean, lol.)

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 5/28/2006 5:29 am:
I hear you on the last comment! some people are just down right fugly!LOL! Ok, we are both being a little mean.... but HONEST. BTW, beautiful pic.

out_for_a_ride 36M

5/27/2006 10:16 pm

no fears here....a faceless voice to be heard or not

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 5/28/2006 5:36 am:
Your voice is quite clear even without a pic. I recognize you by the tone of your writing, the way you lay out your sentences... a little weird huh? Maybe the distinction in your comments is more telling than a pic. Although I would like to see one posted one day!!! LOL!!

3d60 49M

5/28/2006 3:49 am

I just have no pictures of me, a lifetime taking them has made me invisible to the camera. I took the ones of me and have been so offended by the results as not to try again.....ho hum. but I'm not ashamed or scared of my presence here....the chance of anyone recognizing or knowing me from here are so dammm long LoL ....I have posted this question before and received sweet FA back but what apart from a face pic do youse women want to see in a man. Now according to many girlfriends....( yhea right ) a mans forearms and shoulders are a turn on as is his butt.....as for women I like to see something but also be teased by whats hidden....like you ...though I am glad that I can see all your face....as like my imagination created it, yhea your damm fine, beautiful and gorgeous. But the best bit by far is your intelligent vocal and witty...I know you weren't hanging out for praise but I reckon i gots to give it...in another life your mine buckle up All me juv me XX

Just needed to write

Oh man she is far away, but she makes me giddy with pleasure
She’s on the other side of the ocean but she talks to me congratulates and confides in me
Her life is so far apart from mine
Her experience rich, full and high
But I feel close feel warmed feel included
She makes me laugh makes me wanna find her double
But when I look I know she’s unique, I know there’s no one like her
Her Bravery and fight speaks of her honesty
And I know she has the energy the tenacity to deal with those assholes
That seemingly surround her
I can hope that in another life I would seek her out
Hold her hand look in her eyes and together get what we wanted
Until then I’ll just be here and she’ll be there
I’ll look forward to the posts
And seek no more than friendship
All me juv to you

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 5/28/2006 6:35 am:
My cherished thespian,
An ocean can be crossed. Even for a day at the theatre, a cup of coffee or tea. I would like to one day see one of your plays. A friend of mine is playing with the thought of collaborating with me, on an opera he is threatening to write. And we know operas take years to perfect. And there is much more to it than talented voices, the poetry in the lyrics, the suggestive undertones in the music...the undertaking of such a project could make one a nervous wreck. So I can imagine how you felt before your opening nite, and how exhausted you were even before the first act.

You too, have a distinct way in which you lay out your words. I KNOW I would recognize you even if you changed your handle. As for the camera, I really hate posing for it. I think the best pictures are the ones caught candidly. Although nice arms, a stout chest, and a firm muscular ass are all yummy, I prefer to match the words with a face(even upside down, partial, blurred)

As for all the assholes.... I'm not completely surrounded. I've got a few cherished ones who will spank my fanny back into gear when I'm feeling tired and defeated (looking directly at you) juv ya too

beamer52up 65M

5/28/2006 8:38 am

I agree with your views on pictures of genitalia. I don't particularly care for any of them male of female. I don't necessarily agree with your views on face pics.

Many people for a variety of reasons don't want to be identified on this site. Right now I am one of them. Actually in a short time my circumstances may change and it won't matter. Then I will put up a face pic.

I don't have a problem sending someone a face pic. I just don't need it publicly displayed right now. It would add complications to my life that I just don't need.

Everyone had different reasons for being here. Everyone has different circumstances in their lives that dictate what they need to do.

It is great that you are so secure in your life that you can be as upfront and genuine as you are. Many if not most are not in that position.

In summary (after rambling a bit) I don't like pics of peoples sex organs, I think those pics are a waste. But I don't condemn someone for not wanting their identifiable face picture on a public site, let alone a public sex site.

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 5/28/2006 4:03 pm:
I understand my circumstances allow me the freedom. I'm not condemning those who can't or won't post a face due to complications that may arise in their personal/professional lives. I understand this, really I do. My point? To me, I think its less personal to post your face versus the coochie, tits, and asshole. That's all..

rm_jd29992z 55M
3888 posts
5/28/2006 9:28 am

Hmmmmm I have a reason I will send it to you profile if you would really like to know JD

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 5/28/2006 4:04 pm:
And I will respond to your mail.....

im_your_man77 40M
961 posts
5/29/2006 1:55 am

With the way I'm feeling right now I'm struggling to write a coherent sentence but it matters not I think you already know my thoughts on this.

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 5/29/2006 12:21 pm:
Yes, I do. I do indeed.

Jeepidiot 43M

5/29/2006 1:44 pm

My thing is, so what if someone from the outside world recognizes you? In order to be seen here they'd have to be here themselves. If they wanted to confront you about being here, they'd have to admit they were here also.

I don't want my face pic up there because I never get any views with the face pic.

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 5/29/2006 4:16 pm:
Yes you do too!! The last time you had your face pic up, I saw comment after comment about how HOT you are. And good point about having to admit they were here too.

MusicMakerMan 47M
1 post
6/20/2006 11:42 pm

Wow, I'm impressed. Impressed with how open and expressive you are. It's very clear to me that you don't stop and think about what you're writing so as to sound a certain way or appeal to a certain taste. It's clear you're true and honest and I admire that. It must be said that I have never posted anything until this moment on AdultFriendFinder because, quite frankly, 99% of the people on here scare me. That's also why I still haven't paid any money to get a full membership and I've had this user name on here for what seems like years (honestly don't recall . Well, anyhow, I think it's great to see a REAL person on here and I truly felt it necessary to post this. Keep up with this blog and I promise I’ll be returning.

Best Wishes,

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 6/21/2006 1:52 pm:
I'm glad you enjoy my blog. Sometimes I suffer from "foot in mouth" syndrome because I don't think before I post. I offend some really sensitive people sometimes because they just don't get what I'm trying to convey until further explanation. Hell, your comments are always welcome here. Glad I didn't scare you!!LOL!!

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