A Sexy Mutha  

rm_hotmamaNcols 41F
460 posts
5/14/2006 7:10 pm

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5/17/2006 11:18 am

A Sexy Mutha

I have this "friend" named Jimmy. I've known him about a year now, and I've displayed an enormous amount of self-control in his presence. I am sexually attracted to him, BUT he is a good friend. I wish I didn't want to jump his bones everytime he gets close enough for me to smell him or when I feel the heat eminating off his body when we're dancing. BTW, we've never gone there. We go out and get drunk and go home. SEPARATELY.

I catch him looking at my lips all the time. When I'm around him, I talk myself out of just telling him or kissing him during one of those awkward moments. And after I get home, I spend the rest of the night kicking myself for not acting on my desires. It is hard to be around him. I wish he would get a girlfriend already.

rm_jd29992z 55M
3888 posts
5/14/2006 7:31 pm

First of all you have the most beautiful lips I have ever seen! I don't blame him for for looking at them. I do blame him for not kissing you though. Hmmmm I know sometimes sex with a good friend ruins it but not all the time you know. That is something you have to work out. Maybe he is kicking himself too you sould talk about it if you are friends maybe he thinks the same way. Your friendly neighborhood tease JD.

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 5/15/2006 6:47 am:
I'd really hate to lose him as a friend. I shouldn't act on my impulses.

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 5/15/2006 7:10 am:
Oh, and asking him or talking about it is out of the question. I think it would make things more awkward between us.

im_your_man77 40M
961 posts
5/15/2006 3:46 am

Seeing as this is my first time at the Lip Starers Anonymous Meeting I feel I should stand up and confess.

"My name is not Jimmy and I too have found myself staring at your lips. My humble apologies."

BUT in my defence it is your fault! I was quite happily distracted reading your words until I came to the end of each post. Then once read I needed to take a moment to reflect on said words. With no further distractions your lips were there to look at. You should have wrote more I wouldn't have looked, well ok I can't promise that, I wouldn't have looked so soon.

I feel for Jimmy and his plight.

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 5/15/2006 7:08 am:
I don't care if you stare, just don't be 15 cm from my face implying with body language that you want to DEVOUR ME starting with my lips. It would turn me on beyond belief.

im_your_man77 40M
961 posts
5/15/2006 9:17 am

LOL I can only hope 3600 miles plus 15 cm could have the same effect. I'm no Jimmy and I can't dance so you should be feeling comfortable right about now.

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 5/15/2006 11:05 am:
Very comfortable.

rm_jd29992z 55M
3888 posts
5/15/2006 11:43 am

Well you know him way better then I do, all I can say is how I myself would react and handle a situation like this. I do have women friends like you have Jimmy and if one of them talked to me about this in an open manner I would listen and depending how I feel about her knowing each woman is different if I chose one way or the other I would not let it destroy the friend ship. One of my friends approached me once and I was not ready for that and I did not let it bother our friend ship we are still buddies every thing is cool. But like I said this is just me and not Jimmy. Let me ask you this what if HE asked you first how would you handle it? Think about it I hope I an help you a little bit. See you JD (your favorite tease hehehe)

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 5/16/2006 7:17 am:
If he asked me first, I would tell him the truth. If he kissed me first though, I would have too much regrettable fun.

slimcountryboy2 39M
46 posts
5/15/2006 3:51 pm

I too was in a similiar situation once with a co-worker.... Personally, I wouldn't have been offended if she planted a big kiss on me . She was married though, so I dont think I would have let it go too far...
If you are not in a commited relationship, and neither is Jimmy... You should at least find a way to talk to him about how you feel... That is, if you dont plant a juicy kiss on him first. Either method would be acceptable, I think...
Of course, a kiss would be much more likely to get quick results

rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 5/16/2006 7:20 am:
A co-worker? Interoffice is a NO-NO. You know this... I think I'll wait on telling him. Maybe this weekend.

pleasureyourclit 67M
836 posts
5/15/2006 4:18 pm

MMM ...they say some of the best you will ever have is with a friend


rm_hotmamaNcols replies on 5/16/2006 7:20 am:
I've heard that... Who are THEY anyway?

Nocturnal10 38M

5/17/2006 10:35 am

Well .. guys think of sex! Shocking I know .. as attractive as you are, i am sure he has the same thoughts!!!

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