First blog? Where do I start?  

rm_hotlunch60 46M
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8/4/2006 8:02 pm

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8/6/2006 6:18 am

First blog? Where do I start?


Look, first of all, I don't have a " " key. So, I'll avoid words that use it in order to prevent a spelling mistake. It's up to you to figure out which key doesn't work.

Secondly, I don't expect anybody to read this. But I like the idea of venting, ranting, throwing my shit out to the world - I don't have another outlet for it and it's bad to keep it all in.

Third, let's get to it.

My reason for starting on AdultFriendFinder?
My love life sucks! Why else would someone go through this effort?! I'm married, but I think of sex and love as two different things. I love my wife, but I don't like having sex with her. And I'm OK with that. I know that if I find it elsewhere, my marriage can continue along its happy track. The fact that I don't have a happy sex life has put a considerable strain on our relationship. I want a vent, to ease that strain... I'll be happy, she'll be happy... it should be good, right?

That's why I'm on AdultFriendFinder. To find a part-time lover. Someone that I can connect with physically and sexually, without the strings of an emotional relationship. I'm bored - I need a shake-up of my love-life!

I have this fantasy that I can find this woman that works and lives near my office in Rosslyn. I'd call her at her office and say "How about lunch?" Which would mean that I would depart my office at 12pm, stop by a store to grab a couple of sandwiches or salads and maybe even a bottle of wine, and show up at her nearby apartment. She'd answer the door in her underwear and seduce me. Sex, sex, sex... yadda, yadda, yadda... then we'd eat lunch while naked in bed. Oh yeah - I'd bring some ice cream for dessert - because there's nothing better after sex than ice cream. And then I'd be back at work by 1:30 or so. Believe me, that's incredibly stripped down - I'm a very romantic guy, so there would be a lot more seduction involved... but you get the idea.

So, that's what I want, and why I'm here. More to come in the future..... and they'll be a lot better then this one, I promise!

So far, I've been on AdultFriendFinder for 1 week, and I've had 5 women e-mail me. Only 2 of those were real, the others were trying to get me to buy my way into their websites. 1 wink, but she was fake. I've sent 26 e-mails to women, and rec'd only those 2 responses. I changed my profile once to make it more accurate. No Im's rec'd and I can't figure out how to IM the women that I want to. On a frustration scale, I'd say I'm Deeply frustrated with this site

LuvnSex4Lifetime 69F

8/4/2006 8:33 pm

Don't dispair, give it some more time. Join a club or two in your area, and you may be connected before you post again. Good luck!


angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
8/5/2006 7:42 am

Welcome to the blogs! I think you'll find that you'll have better luck getting to know people here in the blogs rather than in emails and winks. Visit other blogs and comment there....get to know people...and soon you'll have more visitors to your blog too and who knows what may develope from there! Good luck...and be patient! I hope you'll stop by my blog sometime and say hello.


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