A cry for excitment  

rm_hotlicks001 42F
11 posts
3/22/2006 3:22 am

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4/14/2007 3:46 pm

A cry for excitment

The hubby can always find himself wanting sex from me 3-4 times a week if I let him. I just dont want it all the time because its boring. Starts off with wanting a bj then missionary. this event has never changed with in 6 years 2000-2006. He's horney as hell but he needs to learn how to please me. Ive tried renting pornos but it may spark a little something into a 69 thing but just a kinky 1 minute of doggie style then back to the same old missionary position again.[

rm_coathanger1 49M
859 posts
3/22/2006 4:21 am

I feel for ya, we do most all positions and in different places. After 18 years of someone it's hard not to get bored. Thats why we decided to come here.

junglejim47172 57M

3/22/2006 5:08 am

Good Morning Hotlicks,

I wish I lived in your area, I could show you some real loving. At least I think I could. I'm just ending a marriage of 24 years and that description (that fits to a tee) is a large part of it. I kept thinking I could coax her into a more expieramental and agressive partner. There is no way she would have excepted me having an affair or fuck buddy, and I try to respect what others expect of me. I don't like to let people down.

This is the first post of yours I've read. I don't know all of the back ground info. Does he try to get you off or just not care? Have you talked to him about variaty? Have you talked to him about how to please you? Maybe with a little visual demonstration? Most men would sit up and take notice at that point. If he doesn't like it then tell him he needs to do something new. Slow down and please you. Make sure it's worth his wile to do. You know tit for tat. You have the right to satisfaction just the same as he does. It takes two (or more) to have sex. I never thought I would say something like this. Don't give him any if he isn't going to try. If he isn't interested in making you happy and he is the one you want for the rest of your life get someone on the side. In a few years your going to hit your sexual peak and you'll be really misserable. I think to people on this site, with our dirty minds, sex is to important to let this kind of behaviour continue.

I WANT TO STRESS THIS IS MY OPINION AND I AM NOT A DOCTOR!!! Take this with a grain of sugar and fill in the blanks.

I would hate to see someone go through what I have for 24 years. I have a handycapped daughter that streched our marriage out longer than either of us would other wise have allowed.

I hope some women will reply and give you some advice from there piont of view. Equality has to start at home and in the bedroom. Dom and sub is diferent. The needs of both are still being met equally. I'm talking about equality of male and female. I'm sorry I jump on a soap box when I here of people being mistreated in any way.

hunkylover1976 41M
1 post
3/22/2006 5:09 am

please, if i can help in any way let me know.

starlight_runner 40F

3/22/2006 8:51 am

sexual compatability is hugely important.Remember it takes two.U need 2 get to the root of his lack of adventure.There are more than one way to skin a cat.Dont give up on him yet.

Kisses Star

wantonwill 61M

3/22/2006 10:38 am


with me...it's the wife....no kissing(!!!)....she just rubs my leg....touches me...then wants missionary...and then she rolls over. Reently....I ate her pussy...she came...and then went to sleep...leaving me with a raging hard-on...and no relief......damn...this is boring!!!!!!!!!!!!!

sexycouple5572 43M/43F
4 posts
3/22/2006 11:24 am

You need to take control. Tell him what you want, and then proceed to do it, don't let him dictate what happens, bring a video camera into the room, that may spice things up a bit and encourage him to try new positions. Don't just lie there and take it!

MONA_14 31F

3/23/2006 2:29 pm

you are invited to be our Friends

constructionm62 55M

3/24/2006 5:13 pm

wait till you man comes home from work.
be sitting on the couch naked with a vibrator.
start playing with yourself, make him watch you get off, THEN let him have the pussy.
It'll get his attention real good.
It things don't change, call me before he gets home from work.
be sitting on the couch naked with a vibrator. I'll take it from there.

rm_jaybird114 54M
3 posts
4/14/2006 9:17 pm

To have fun and keep things spontaneous, you both need to give the other attention. Don't do the same thing all the time. With a great body like yours, I think I would want to be pleasing you more. Don't get me wrong, I love to receive, but giving is just as much fun.

rm_tucanchu4 53M
3 posts
5/9/2006 12:28 am

More communication before you head for the bedroom. Stop providing a free ride in a position that's boring. Take the initiative and get on your knees before he climbs aboard. Don't let him climb on until he has earned the ride by tasting the forbidden fruit. Get him hard and climb aboard. Then you're in control of the pace and direction you go. I'm wiliing to bet that most of the habbits he has developed, are impossible to change.

rm_rockyby3 48F
1 post
4/29/2007 8:21 pm

if you where my girl we would find different ways to make love. and i would find ways to drive you crazy. sex is one thing. but making love is something totally different.when a man wants to have sex he thinks thats making love. but is he ever wrong. a woman wants excitment,she wants danger{ not to the point of death} and she wants to be able to tell all her friends about it and not bore them to death. she wants to hear her friends say now thats the kind of sex or love making i want.u should be taken by surprise when it come to making love. not just someone standing in the doorway with his pants down around his feet saying u wanna its a cermercial.

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