my latest failure  

rm_hornE1971979 38M
2 posts
8/26/2006 10:07 pm
my latest failure

i met this girl a few months back and we really had alot in common and we were hanging out alot and really liked each other to where i was starting to have feelings for her but when i told her she turned tail and ran. Please if any one has advice olease share it


woofff 42F

8/26/2006 11:18 pm

Hey you...Am Woofff

This story holds true almost word for word for most folks if they stick around long enough. I've been hurt like that a good 2-3 times. It would occur to me later that I didn't have their contact details... or their addresses...or what they did for a living.

I could offer you a lot of reasons why it happens. Maybe one of them will fit your reality. But basically it all comes down to this: She wasn’t what she said she was. She wasn’t who she said she was. She had an entirely different reality that she is escaping from, or cheating on.

I have come to believe this is an occupational hazard of being on the internet.A wrong person was trusted….and be relieved that you are yet safe at least you didn’t expose yourself too much or too fast.

A long comment, so sorry….I know how you feel. It sucks to know someone you trusted, has just closed down the communication, taken away your access to her and there’s not a damn thing you c’n do about it.But you're not a fool, it happens to the best of us.

Take care you. Better luck next time.If its any comfort, I found someone I really like and who is real and honest right here online!
The site works, you have to be patient and canny.



abitcrazy4sex 46M
1335 posts
8/27/2006 12:18 am

maybe you both had a lot in common , except for your relationship goals.maybe she didnt want anything else other than a "friend with benefits" who knows why maybe a x spouse or boyfriend she was just afraid of it for some reason.


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