an Intial explanation  

rm_headnwhere 47M
1 posts
3/28/2006 4:54 pm

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an Intial explanation been a few years since I intially started this profile here.

I truly am a happily married man, but as the old story goes, my sex-life is somewhat non-existant now in my marriage. And when it does come around, its simply here needs.

Her needs are quite simple;

1) No foreplay
2) Vaginal sex only
3) Simulataneous Orgasm

sure an occasional position change, but thats about it.

It used not to be this way. I fell in love with a woman who was very open and adventurous. And i no longer blame her for the way things are, i used to...but not any more.

It not her fault, hell its not even my fault...its just the way things go i suppose. She is not comfortable with herself, her psotion in life, etc. I now understand that.

Sure we've talked about counseling, and i would like nothing more, but I can't seem to get her to invest in the idea, and i dotn think its healthy to "drag" someone to counseling.

Of course not healthy soliciting extra-marrital affairs either, which is probably ehy i have never really persued it...yet.

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
3/28/2006 8:09 pm

Welcome to the blogs!

There are many here going through the same thing. I can't even begin to understand it...or advise you. But, I think counseling might help. I know I shut myself down for 2 years also.......Its all VERY different now. But...I could've used some help back then I think. Good luck.

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