in need of your opinion  

rm_handyman_87 30M
6 posts
6/26/2006 5:42 pm

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6/26/2006 9:43 pm

in need of your opinion

Hey everyone,

I've been dating my gf for over a year now, but heres the problem. I'm going to school 400 miles away. I told her that I would wait for her and she said she would wait for me too.

But my thing is, if I have a no strings attached fuck with someone up in NY when i'm at college, that's cheating on her. No matter how to slice it.

I really want to stay with her, but also am going to have to have some of my own sexual needs met. Masturbating can only go so far.

So really, if you were in my position, what would you do?

moonlightphoenix 46F
6508 posts
6/26/2006 6:55 pm

Agree to give each other space while in school, see each other when you can and don't ask/don't tell.

The chances of a relationship surviving 400 miles and college, are very, very slim, realistically speaking. You both have to face that fact and take the pressure off.

showmemore47 70M

6/26/2006 7:05 pm

life is short.-If you cant take care of her 400 miles away and you have needs tell her but you must award her the same privilage.

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