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rm_guy4urdream 51M
7 posts
4/19/2006 8:59 am

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1/16/2007 11:16 am

Welcome to my corner of the world.

Two people want to have sex. One of those people contacts the other person. Even though one of the people says they want to have sex it never occurs. Why is that? Why do people post that they want sex (ltr or nsa) and they really are all talk. They stall on the little things like no way to contact them. They post that they are available anytime but when you contact them they say that you must always do the hosting(hey, lets split the hotel room). When I tell them I will host they still drag their feet.

It could be me but I don't think so because when I do link up, those ones always want to meet again and sometimes we end up with a six month affair. I'm just tired of those who are not for real. I don't mind cyber but please quit wasting my time if you are just fake.

Thank you for reading. Let me know what you think.

P.S. If I say discrete then why would I post a face shot for the world to see? While I may not mind meeting for drinks or having dinner in a nice public restaurant, I don't want the world to know I'm shopping sex sites.

rm_1SweetBitch 56F
8575 posts
4/19/2006 9:42 am

You will find the longer you are on this site the more you will see that many really don't know why they are on this site.

No Day Is So Bad It Can't Be Fixed With Great Sex!

1 SweetBitch

GoddessOfTheDawn 106F
11240 posts
4/19/2006 10:46 am

~nodz~ in agreement with 1SB...

welcome to blogging

dannothedude 47M
2 posts
4/19/2006 10:50 am

I hear ya buddy! I just came off an 18 year relationship. I'm new to this cyber dating thing and everyone seems to think they can hook up with Cindy Crawford or Brad Pitt look-a-likes. Or like you said, hey don't really mean it when they want to hook up with you for drinks. I think really they just want an ego boost to make them feel they are still attractive by using blokes like us who drool over them.
Take my advice, do it the old fashion way, have friends or coworkers set you up. But that's not easy too I know. Good luck to ya!


Kaliedascope61 42M
4084 posts
4/19/2006 10:51 am

well...the rule I learned early on from this site, is that men don't get to choose...funny how its like that in real life, You have to do everything you can to attract the person you want, but ulitmatly its up to her.

dannothedude 47M
2 posts
4/19/2006 10:58 am

I hear what Kaliedascope61 is sayig but no one desrves to be jerked around. Y'know?


imLadyBambi 59M/51F

4/19/2006 11:38 am


A similar situation happened to me and Mr. Bambi once.

We drove from Galveston to Houston on our gas,and the plans were to split the cost of the hotel.

When it came time to pay for the room he didn't have it.

So we drove back on our gas for not a freaking thing.Just a waste of our time and gas.

So be aware!!!

Lady Bambi

rm_sexycunt71 47M/46F
1 post
4/19/2006 12:21 pm

I think the vast majority of people on this site have joined just to veiw the web cams.. sad but true. A lot post pics that arent there own or are of them 10 years ago. There are some genuine people here but they are hard to find. As for the face pics.. i agree totally.. you never know who may be on here!!!!!!!!!!!!

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