what to do?  

rm_grimtanker 36M
6 posts
11/6/2005 11:05 pm

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what to do?

Wife wont join me here because of my choice of job. I am in the army. she is a Jehovas witness and wants no affiliation w the military. Any suggestions????

Wicked1TX 48F

11/7/2005 1:06 am

Were you already in the military when you met and married her or did you join after you had already been married?

hottie_fest_chic 41F

11/7/2005 2:30 am

i'm just wondering why you got together in the first place! both of those things are very important in a relationship. also, what does your job have to do with joining you on AdultFriendFinder? i guess she feels you're a military man and shouldn't succumb to such pleasures? please explain.

p.s. to answer the previous comment, some people are pacifist, like myself, and the bottom line of military is not only defense, but conquer and defeat at any human/earthly cost. (maybe not for each person who joins, but big picture).

bambam4400 40M

11/7/2005 3:15 am

trade her in and get a new model !

Mr_Woodsy 45M
4 posts
11/7/2005 3:15 am

Sounds like you've got some pretty serious issues to work out. Far more than the one of her joining you here.

I've known alot of Witness's, was she a witness when you married?? If so I'm surprised, they're usually more strict than others about keeping it in their religion.

I hate to stick my nose in things but I can say with all honesty if you don't work these issues out before playing here, you're relationship is doomed.

Most relationships can't handle this. You have to have a STRONG one to get started. And even some of those don't make it. I've never heard of a weak relationship making it through this, heard of alot that didn't though.

danigirl1000 57F

11/7/2005 3:15 am

that IS a tough one !! I have come across Jehova's ppl before, even in our country and there's loads of things they dont believe in.
You are doing a great job in the military, defending your ppl and country...and yes, even putting the food on the table. So I think you'll just have to agree to differ on this one if your wife wont budge. All the best, Dani

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