The male to female ratio  

rm_greedycat2 65F
72 posts
3/24/2005 1:04 am

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4/2/2006 9:56 pm

The male to female ratio


I was wondering seeing as the men outnumber women by quite a large amount on AdultFriendFinder...how hard is it for you to make contact with them...do you think a lot of us play games with your lustful thoughts...you know! tease you tempt you get you all boiled up...make promises we dont keep..disappear without a trace.
How does it make you feel..angry?or do you just shrug your shoulders and go on the hunt again.

maestro723 64M

3/24/2005 5:20 am

Definately too many blokes chasing too few women. It is a buyers market and the women are the buyers and with so much to choose from there are some (or many)of us blokes that feel it is a waste of time. My profile is a bit restrictive so I didn't expect hundreds of takers. Loads haven't bothered to respond to e-mails and all (except two that I have contacted) that have have teased, raised expectations and then not had the final courtesy to say 'thanks but no thanks'. No doubt some blokes are successful but I suspect a lot like me wonder whether it is worth it - I won't be renewing my gold subscription again.


rm_Kojone8 63M

3/24/2005 7:42 am

American women just play silly ass head games with men anyway! They are the most jaded women that I have ever encountered in my travels! That is why there are so many American men with foreign women! Stop wasting your time, money and life chasing American women! There is so much better to choose from in other countries and they don't have the attitudes prevalent in American women. Coincidentally, I am an American male.


rm_gray0001 50M

3/24/2005 11:34 am

I have to say I find this site pretty hopeless in terms of the m/f balance... i did meet and get off with one lady about a year ago, but I'm not holding my breath for any more to come along!


rm_greedycat2 65F
46 posts
3/26/2005 12:38 am

YOU!!! have been stood up...ok well dont go for the deaf dumb and blind one next time lol


expatbrit49 63M

3/26/2005 10:27 am

While there is a huge inballance when you take age, distance, ect into account the chances of actualy getting laid is thin, but if know that to start with its fun trying

Thank You for Your Time and Attention


sportyfun56 107M

3/26/2005 4:43 pm

Greedy..
good questions... thanks.
YES... it is hard to make a real contact with a woman here no matter how you present yourself, or your contact attempts.
I think (for the most part) this is more a product of women being so wary and careful, combined with just the shear number of contacts you get, that the math is just overwhelminly against the men. I don't think that the reason men not only strike out so often, but never get up to bat, is because women are playing games and have an agenda.
Now of course, I do know that does happen. And I can name names if you want. But I still think that women are here for the same thing the men are. And want it to happen, just like the men. They just are afflicted by the numbers like the men are. But from the other side of the balance. And I think women are naturally slower to act on something here than the men are.

sporty


sportyfun56 107M

3/26/2005 4:55 pm

and Sexyfit..
If a guy stood you up hun, it was because he was struck silly and couldn't remember his name or what he was doing. The chances of any normal guy actually getting far enogh along to arrange a meeting with a catch like yourself would overload his circuits.
(This does not compute.. This does not compute)
So yes it is such a huge "buyers market" for the ladies... when they actually "purchase" or "make an offer" on one of the men, he might just forget what it was he was selling and go stupid.

hopefully we men hope that only happens to ... "the other guy"....


parkiexx 58M

3/28/2005 6:39 am

hey greedycat just to let you know the first instalment is ready when would you like to hear it?I wish my tongue was part of your story so far.


wishing2massageu 54M
1 post
4/20/2005 11:21 pm

Yhis site needs to do away with auto reply. It takes the woman off the hook because you never know whether the auto-reply truly is sincere in what they say. It seems like they are not sincere most of the time. This device keeps us coming back to the table and ultimately helps them make a profit, which is ultimately what this is all about anyway.


EaTmYaSsJuiCe 43M
4 posts
4/29/2005 10:30 am

i think it is pertinent that men will always outnumber women in everything....because this is the only way we know how to attract the opposite sex with absolute no dignity...some of us think by showoff their gifts that all the ladies are suppose to drool over such arrogance w/ the thought of a BJ as an inevetiable...but c'mon already guys what does that prove...your silence is a mere reflection of your intelligence which suggests that cavemen still exists in such a modern day world...

Nancy


love5748 69M

7/3/2005 10:23 am

Hi, my name is Terry and I live in the united states, west virginia to be exact. On this site for west virginia there are 40,000 men and only a little over 4,000 women. So its a ten to one ratio and by time you factor in every thing such as miles, age, turn-ons and so forth there is dam little chance a 57 year old man like myself will ever get laid by one of these 4,000 or so women. Hope the guy to girl ratio is better in England.


we11hard 49M

9/5/2005 4:38 pm

Mostly the women i have contacted with regard to getting to know them better are certainly teasers, as if you read their profile they seem to be up for anything or anyone but then never do anything about it apart from one great lady i did meet.


rm_gauger1000 69M
1 post
1/11/2006 6:07 am

Some additional thoughts: For those, like myself, who fully admit to their middle-aged frailties, there seems to be little hope of anything meaningful coming from this site, particularly as so many men appear to claim to be Superman and so many women think that they are Lois Lane!
Also, I have noticed a number of photos appearing where more than one person claims to be the owner, and they don't even have the same birthday,how common is this and what is done to sort these people out.
I have doubts about some of the six or so people/couples who give Testimonials to nearly everyone on the site. Are they lonely or what?
Finally, if more folk learnt to spell, they might impress their heart's desire more!
Good, I've wanted to air those concerns for some while.
G. ( PS. Even if I never meet Greedycat, I'll know that she supports the best Football Team ).


doggingclaire 57M/42F

1/23/2006 4:26 am

Hi all, me and my partner hold small party's once a month, just 2 girls and if we are lucky about 6 to 8 guy's. To get that many guy's we have to ask at least 40 so it's not just girl's that say yes and don.t show
claire xx


vengeur 42M  
837 posts
4/2/2006 10:24 am

    Quoting rm_Kojone8:
    American women just play silly ass head games with men anyway! They are the most jaded women that I have ever encountered in my travels! That is why there are so many American men with foreign women! Stop wasting your time, money and life chasing American women! There is so much better to choose from in other countries and they don't have the attitudes prevalent in American women. Coincidentally, I am an American male.
There are so many more men on this site than women. The ratio is about 20 to 1 at least by now.

I also live in America. Although I have had some luck meeting women through this site, there are still too many of them who wind up wasting my time.

I spent the entirety of of December 2005 in Ontario, Canada. Even though I did not try using this site to meet women there, I could just tell there was a difference between women there and where I live. I could see the difference in the Ontario chat room of this site, too.


rm_greedycat2 65F
46 posts
4/2/2006 9:56 pm

ive met some guys from here 2 of whom ive had very regular meets with(still do one of them)my findings are that because the guys get so few replys or dishonest ones when they do..some of you become a bit hostile so when someone comes along that is honest with you your attitude is off putting..not blaming you as its not nice to be lead on


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