A mans mind  

rm_greedycat2 65F
72 posts
3/19/2005 1:45 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

A mans mind

Can you guys tell me what goes in a mans mind when he emails a woman first time with "I wanna fuck your brains out" or "your ass is mine",yes I know it's a sex and swingers site and yes I expect to get emails with sexual chat...just not keen on losing brain and ass on first contact.

ReadyToTango46 59M
161 posts
3/19/2005 2:10 pm

LOL! Just out of curiousity, what are the ages of the guys sending those types of emails? I'm hoping not over 30.

rm_greedycat2 65F
46 posts
3/20/2005 5:30 am

yes have to say most are 30 and under...so eager lol,do get the odd older guy being full on first email

ReadyToTango46 59M
161 posts
3/20/2005 4:23 pm

I'd like to think that guys like that are the minority here. Or at least I hope so. Like most vocal minorities they stand out the most, are annoying, and tend to make things a bit more difficult for the mainstream people.

You simply won't hear from the majority of nice guys here because they actually take the time to read profiles and don't email women that they don't match up with. And when they do email you they try to write something appropriate.

rm_greedycat2 65F
46 posts
3/21/2005 12:49 am

I'd say 1 in 5 emails I get are full on... the rest somewhere between "flirty n fun" and "life story" which is cool...would still like to know what their thinking when they send that "im desperate" email

parkiexx 59M

3/23/2005 4:35 am

I guess a lot of guys feel that's what's expected of them.It's a bit of a contradiction to be on an adult site where it says meet for one on one sex and still not quite knowing what the lady would like to hear.Reply's to mails would be nice too some people just don't bother it costs nothing to say thanks but no thanks.I'd like to share my life story with you sometime.

jburnsfree 63M

3/23/2005 7:09 am

I really have no idea what goes on in my mind sometimes much less anyone elses.

Just as there are all kinds of women, there is a wide range of men. Some types are merely more vocal than others.

Also maybe we should lay some of the blame on our age of instant gratification.

I myself am willing to spend some time at it. But then the quality was always more important to me.

I would email you myself with some kinder words than you have received but alas, us standard members can't do much.

rm_greedycat2 65F
46 posts
3/23/2005 9:06 am

Hi Parkie...youve been nothing but a gentleman in your emails to me...ill be in touch with the life story.
Since writting this blog I've had several young guys sending me very nice emails lol..sooo polite...thankz guys luv yer

sportyfun56 107M

3/26/2005 5:06 pm

That kind of "first contact" with a women must drive 98% of you crazy. I agree with Tango...What he says about the "minority" and "majority" of guys is true. I dearly hope anyway... lol.
And I wouldn't want you to lose either of your two parts to me unless you gave them up willingly.. and then I'd be sure to return them to you in good condition.

rm_tallboy246 62M

9/27/2005 11:33 am

I guess that many men come to the site with questionable social skills and graces, being an adult sex/swingers site they might be forgiven that all people on it are impersonal bods just itching to get their rocks off. Haven't we all discovered in the early stages of the e-mail culture that there is the temptation to turn someone into nigh on a fantasy figure, game for anything, this l think generates the will you ball me e-mails.
The notion of communicating, determining one's finer feelings, god forbid, discovering she has a name !!! can be off putting to some, and they just opt out altogether.
Of course it might just reinforce the notion that social skills such as communication, as dwindling with passing time, just like O and A levels !!! and l am not talking about the levels often encountered on this site.
It is worth investing in your imagination, and l have no complaints to make re AdultFriendFinder, have met some pretty stupendous and thoughtful souls on here, ok yes some were arseholes, but each to their own eh !!

1 post
1/8/2006 3:36 pm

Hi dont want to offend anyone but when guys send emails like i wanna fuck your brains out, its sends an incedent feeling of being immature and i hate to use the term boy'ish. just being nice and pleasent shows that you have a brain aswell as a penis.


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