How do I help my girl  

rm_goffer11 50M
32 posts
6/9/2006 3:12 am

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6/27/2006 2:43 am

How do I help my girl


Hi all a little advice would be handy right now, I am not sure what to do or how to do it.

If you have read my previous blogs you would realise I am hooked on this lovely lady, the problem being is that she is on the other side of the world right now and not easily accessible.

Anyway I digress, she is having problems, here boss is playing games and is holding her paychecks for reason all because he wants something that she is not prepared to give (good for her).

She doesn't really need my help, but you know what it's like, when you love someone you want to help them. All you want to do is protect them.

Anyway, I want to protect her, but I am too far away, what should I do, I can't drop everything and run over there, it is not that simple.

All I want to do is wrap her up and take her home where it is safe.

Suggestions would be lovely at this point.

Thanks for your help

Goffer

neuroticafrican 37F

6/9/2006 3:22 am

Let her be, fiercly independent ladies tend to resent sympathy and empathy.


TXBITCH2006 50F

6/9/2006 4:27 am

Just be there when she needs to talk...listen to her, but don't try to tell her how to fix things (unless she asks).


rm_goffer11 50M

6/9/2006 4:39 am

    Quoting neuroticafrican:
    Let her be, fiercly independent ladies tend to resent sympathy and empathy.
Thankyou for your thoughts


rm_goffer11 50M

6/9/2006 4:43 am

    Quoting TXBITCH2006:
    Just be there when she needs to talk...listen to her, but don't try to tell her how to fix things (unless she asks).
Thankyou for your suggestion, I think she knows I am here for her, I am always interested in listening and hopefully only offer advice when requested.

I still struggle with the need to jump on a plane just to be there for support.


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