To Shave or not to Shave - No, not there.  

rm_gerson42 53M
1752 posts
4/26/2006 5:42 pm

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To Shave or not to Shave - No, not there.

This is serious. I need blog power to help me through a difficult decision. In my quest to make myself the "perfect man", change those things within my control and make myself irresisitable to AdultFriendFinder women, I have identified certain things where I am still straddling the proverbial fence.

My confession, I am hairy (not as hairy as the guy on the left). OK, so there it is. I feel much better now.

Were talking chest hair, back hair... you name it, it has hair (except the very tip top of my head and my package).

OK, lay it on me. Shave it all, shave parts of it, use nair, wax it, turn myself in to the Atlanta Blogger Army and wait for disposition?

Please hurry with assistance, nerve only lasts so long.

Disclaimer: Although this blog is written with the utmost sincerity, said bloggers rights remain to make any or all final decisions. Majority rule may or may not apply. Revised profile photo showing no hair may be photoshopped. Any women stating they would "date me" if I only shaved will be held accountable for their statement. No responses will be construed not that no one likes my blog but that as everyone is busy tonight.

Sophie just got married, and being a traditional Italian was still a virgin. On her wedding night, staying at her mother's house, she was nervous. But mother reassured her.

"Don't worry, Sophie. Luca's a good man. Go upstairs, and he'll take care of you."

So up she went. When she got upstairs, Luca took off his shirt and exposed his hairy chest. Sophie ran downstairs to her mother and says, "Mama, Mama, Luca's got a big hairy chest."

"Don't worry, Sophie", says the mother, "All good men have hairy chests. Go upstairs. He'll take good care of you."

So, up she went again. When she got up in the bedroom, Luca took off his pants exposing his hairy legs. Again Sophie ran downstairs to her mother. "Mama, Mama, Luca took off his pants, and he's got hairy legs!"

"Don't worry. All good men have hairy legs. Luca's a good man. Go upstairs, and he'll take good care of you."

So, up she went again. When she got up there, Luca took off his socks, and on his left foot he was missing three toes. When Sophie saw this, she ran downstairs.
"Mama, Mama, Luca's got a foot and a half!"

"Stay here and stir the pasta", says the mother. "This is a job for Mama!"

TabithaElectra79 39F

4/27/2006 5:43 am

Personally, I adore a man with some hair, a man with no hair is just.....too strange for me! Although if the hair coverage is out of control, that is not good either....

rm_gerson42 replies on 4/27/2006 8:15 am:
Quick, hop on a plane and come out to Santa Barbara.
Just in case I decide to shave.

SexyRycheBabe 46F
820 posts
4/27/2006 8:38 am

I don't mind chest hair. Not so thrilled with back/butt hair but will tolerate it if I really llllooooovvvvveeeee the guy. For a hook up? Would probably freak me out and not make me all that likely to do it again.

rm_gerson42 replies on 4/27/2006 7:38 pm:
I'm just thinking this through out loud. If I do my butt, what constitutes the end of the butt area and how do I gently transition from no hair to hair? My imagination is coming up with something akin to farmers tan for hair.

TheRealThing655 49F
9558 posts
4/27/2006 5:41 pm

I like a man with some chest hair, but I am not a fan of a really hairy back. Try waxing'll hurt for a bit but you'll like the feel after.

rm_gerson42 replies on 4/27/2006 7:41 pm:
OK, Ive got 1 no hair, 1 some hair and 2 chest hair ok but no butt or back hair.
I may end up checkerboard.


4/27/2006 5:50 pm

I would do what makes you comfortable and what you like. Different things appeal to different ladies. We all keep ourselves shaved in different manners after all. {=}

just a squirrel trying to get a nut

rm_gerson42 replies on 4/27/2006 7:43 pm:
MOfun wins take gerson home contest.
She says, paraphrased, I can just be me.

LustyTaurus 50M
21253 posts
4/27/2006 9:57 pm

I shave your back if you shave mine...LMAO

And do you have the Italian Moma's phone #??


rm_gerson42 replies on 4/29/2006 7:31 pm:
I think I should get flowers or chocolate first.
Moma's busy. She says to tell you she'll call you.

Seriously_Real 49M

4/29/2006 6:31 am

Okay, seriously. I am SOOOOO not the one to be talking about body hair. (Side note to Sister "not a big fan of a hairy back" Real -- Bite me.)

I allowed her to use the clippers and shear what appeared to be a small poodle from my body. She likes it better, but something tells me it isn't going to stop there.

I'm a furry fucker. I am what I am. I am a man, goddammit, and men have hair.

I will say, though, that when the boys get liberated (completely) from hair, it enhances all manner of things....

--Seriously (still furry so fuck off)

rm_gerson42 replies on 4/29/2006 7:34 pm:
Seriously, I mean seriously,

I don't mind shaving parts off or having someone else do it. I'm frankly just a little worried about the transitions from shaved to unshaved and future maintenance.

BTW, it looks kinda like your braiding your back hair in the photo. What's going on there?


5/1/2006 11:18 am

aha.. Sorry I missed this post.... I SAY LEAVE IT !!!! All woman appeal to different things.. when you meet that special partner.. ask them..
As for me.. I like a real Man.. That accepts his self for what he is...and I love running my fingers through hubbys hairy chest. But if you have hair that piles out of a shirt a nice trim is apprieciated.. and please.. dont for get the nose and ears... and neck this is a must.
Thanks for the post

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rm_gerson42 replies on 5/1/2006 10:59 pm:
Thank you for the response. Please forgive me if I don't recalculate the results. I agree with everything you mentioned. If only the nose and ear hair didn't grow so quickly!

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