Deception  

rm_gata11459 59F
8849 posts
9/3/2006 1:48 pm

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9/20/2006 7:10 am

Deception

I dont like to write bitchy blogs, but today i am going to make an exception to this. We read everyday about the deception that goes on here on the site. I mean it is everywhere all round the world i know, but confined to this small area we can look around and see it in every nook and cranny. I see it in the chat room, usually with people i neither know or care about really, and it is usually very obvious. I have a pretty tight circle of friends here. And we go beyond the chat room or the blogs. We are into each others personal lives, family life, and love life. We share things with each other as you would with any other friend. The people that i am associated with are open and honest and trustworthy, and we all confide in each other.

Thing is, when you lie on a place like this, you are making an effect on the lives of others. You are involving others in your lies too. You are toying with lives, and making decisions for others that you have no right to make. We can make excuses. We can chalk it up to inexperience and naivty. We can use depression, and self esteem as a reason. Once. Only once can you play that card and be excused. Only once can it be an honest mistake. You can not continue to ruin, destroy and hurt. It all comes back to you, ya, but what happens to the ones you hurt in the middle of your discoveries? Where does the excuse end and responsiblity for your self and your actions come to play? When do you grow up and become a man or woman? It isnt acceptable to change the lives of others because you dont have the balls to clean up your own.



Peace xxx K



parkingspacereq 46M

9/3/2006 4:59 pm

loves his friends he has made here, cant get better
unclepxxx


Sulabula 46F
12659 posts
9/3/2006 5:17 pm

well...when someone who u thought you could trust lies or is deceitful...it makes it harder for you to trust the next person who comes along...We make judgments and decisions about people here...and sometimes we get it right...and sometimes we don't...I for one am glad that you are one of my good friends...

Sula xxx

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rm_jurgon3 57M
4603 posts
9/3/2006 6:46 pm

echos parkies thoughts on this one gats chin up my girl!
be lucky!

Be lucky!


ladyjim1 88F

9/4/2006 1:10 am


Agree,s with heavenly.....take care xxxxxx...T


mgdingo 59M

9/4/2006 12:04 pm

nods head in agreement with everybody here. Trust is precious commodity to break. Betrayal and deception hurt all those around.


Duffer422 41M

9/4/2006 2:29 pm

Gata it isn't nice when this happens to either yourself or one of your friends. You care greatly about your friends so obviously it will hurt you as much as if it was yourself.
Someone who decieves will never have any true friends as they will always be found out, it's just very hard when you do find out.
Let it bring you and your true friends closer together and take something positive out of it

Duffer XXXX


cobra70118 106M

9/4/2006 8:47 pm

fuc 'em in the arse and feed 'em yams


askme4cock 40M

9/5/2006 11:15 am

Personally cannot understand why people lie on this site, be yourself. If someone does not like you for who you really are, why would you want them in your life or want anything to do wtih them.

Even the little things like having a single profile when you are part of a couple, don't understand it. I know that it may say in your profile that you are a couple but that is no consulation for a single man wasting one of his views (which aint many) on you to discover you aint what your meant to be.

Ok some started out on site as singles and then becoame a couple, doesn't take much to make new profile, tell all your friends your new name etc, then delete your old profile.

--------- shakes his head in angry confused state ---------

Nice post gata, like it.

xx


rm_madred006 46M
438 posts
9/5/2006 1:17 pm

never set out to decieve anyone


rm_gata11459 59F
10597 posts
9/6/2006 5:44 am

    Quoting rm_heavenly_:
    ohhh sweetie.... it hurts so when someone lies to us especially if it is someone we know and have put our trust in. You are so right about having a close network of trusted people here on the site and I am lucky enough to have you in my little elite group, and as you know you and I have exchanged many times outside of the confines of AdultFriendFinder things of our personal thoughts and feelings and told one another personal matters, this is trust. and it would be heartbreaking if someone we held in such a way would betray us by abusing the trust enstalled in them, this I know you would never do, as you know I wouldnt. There is no excuse your quite right on that one.And the effects of someones lie can esculate and change someones life dramatically.
heav.. yes but the deception will hurt them more in the end i think.. ta hun.. i love you and am so happy to have you as my friend xoxo k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 59F
10597 posts
9/6/2006 5:51 am

    Quoting parkingspacereq:
    loves his friends he has made here, cant get better
    unclepxxx
true that parky.. you cant xoxo k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 59F
10597 posts
9/6/2006 5:53 am

    Quoting Sulabula:
    well...when someone who u thought you could trust lies or is deceitful...it makes it harder for you to trust the next person who comes along...We make judgments and decisions about people here...and sometimes we get it right...and sometimes we don't...I for one am glad that you are one of my good friends...
suls.. that is true.. you begin not to trust.. but you have to chalk it up to the person not the entire human race


Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 59F
10597 posts
9/6/2006 5:54 am

    Quoting rm_jurgon3:
    echos parkies thoughts on this one gats chin up my girl!
    be lucky!
i am lucky hun.. really lucky ta xoxo k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 59F
10597 posts
9/6/2006 5:55 am

    Quoting ladyjim1:

    Agree,s with heavenly.....take care xxxxxx...T
you too hun xoxo ta k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 59F
10597 posts
9/6/2006 5:56 am

    Quoting mgdingo:
    nods head in agreement with everybody here. Trust is precious commodity to break. Betrayal and deception hurt all those around.
dingo.. very precious.. too precious to play games with xoxo k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 59F
10597 posts
9/6/2006 5:57 am

    Quoting Duffer422:
    Gata it isn't nice when this happens to either yourself or one of your friends. You care greatly about your friends so obviously it will hurt you as much as if it was yourself.
    Someone who decieves will never have any true friends as they will always be found out, it's just very hard when you do find out.
    Let it bring you and your true friends closer together and take something positive out of it

    Duffer XXXX
duffs.. it has hun.. very much so.. and im happy and proud to include you as one of those friends xoxo k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 59F
10597 posts
9/6/2006 5:58 am

    Quoting cobra70118:
    fuc 'em in the arse and feed 'em yams
yams are good.. so are beans.. lmao.. xoxo k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 59F
10597 posts
9/6/2006 5:59 am

    Quoting blonde367:
    ..get off your yam buzz my good man...and yes I agree..it is hard when it happens, but better to know now than way down the road...you know who your friends are and we will always be here x
((((((((((J)))))))))))) love you hun.. i know you are there and so am i xoxo k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 59F
10597 posts
9/6/2006 6:01 am

    Quoting HisBonnieLass:
    though sometimes when you are cleaning up your own you do change the lives of others....(c U again soon)
you do.. but should change in the most positive way possible.. not set to deceive and change in a negitave way xoxo hope so.. will i know it if i do see you again soon?? lol xoxo k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 59F
10597 posts
9/6/2006 6:02 am

    Quoting askme4cock:
    Personally cannot understand why people lie on this site, be yourself. If someone does not like you for who you really are, why would you want them in your life or want anything to do wtih them.

    Even the little things like having a single profile when you are part of a couple, don't understand it. I know that it may say in your profile that you are a couple but that is no consulation for a single man wasting one of his views (which aint many) on you to discover you aint what your meant to be.

    Ok some started out on site as singles and then becoame a couple, doesn't take much to make new profile, tell all your friends your new name etc, then delete your old profile.

    --------- shakes his head in angry confused state ---------

    Nice post gata, like it.

    xx
absofuckinglutely.. cheers for that xoxo k

Peace xxx K


rm_gata11459 59F
10597 posts
9/6/2006 6:04 am

madred.. i know you never would.. it would really actually kill you to .. miss you lots xoxo k

Peace xxx K


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