Another comment I couldn't post...  

rm_funinic 50M
562 posts
4/16/2006 1:55 am

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4/16/2006 2:19 pm

Another comment I couldn't post...

Ok, maybe I need to lose my self-imposed inhibition to hijacking posts... Here's another comment that seems to stand on its own.


I think love has no duration, condition, or cost. It is, simply, love.

After rereading some words I've written, I fear I could have been misinterpreted to mean that without physical contact, blending of personal lives, commitment to common goals, it is somehow diminished in intensity or value. It is not, those are merely actions taken in response to love. Actions have consequence, love is beauty experienced firsthand and is in itself without cost or consequence.

Physical distance is easily overcome when needed. I'm quickly finding that in my life it's far more important to make contact, maybe never in the real world, with people who will listen and hopefully respond, and if I'm really lucky understand me even when I don't.

Surprisingly, I'm also finding that this has been missing in my real life, all my life, with all the women I've dated/married.

rm_funinic 50M
823 posts
4/16/2006 8:27 am

All right, I put a response to another's comment in someone else's blog.

Still uneasy about back and forthing with someone other than the blog writer. I hijack threads too easily, I'm trying to stop that and stay on topic in all my life. Bouncing back and forth with a third party feels too much like hijacking to me, but if it's something I feel I need to explain or correct about my own words I'm barely over the tipping point on the side of commenting.

If I'm out of line, or if I'm being too sensitive, I'd like to know. I'm still in my first month here and don't know where the edge of the envelope is...

rm_funinic 50M
823 posts
4/16/2006 11:19 am

If that's a rear view of the real you
I'd like a picture of your front too
If it's not
to me you're still hot
and I'd like a much closer view

For me:


I think flirting definitely falls in the realm of playful...

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