long days  

rm_fucksometoo 54M
4 posts
3/16/2006 10:48 pm

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3/23/2006 8:18 pm

long days

i have been back from iraq for three months and have had sex with my wife only one time. Things are rough coming back into the house and the work load at work is just as much at home.

miss the way we were when we started dating ten years ago but she is so concern about other things right now.

what do i need to do to get her back into me again or rather me back into her?


rm_goddess1946 107F
13518 posts
3/17/2006 8:41 am

This is a readjustment period, Ken...
I will acknowledge that it can be hard... when someone is
away for a long time, it can be like meeting again or the
first time...think of it that way...

Do not *expect* to pick up where you left off...
take her out on a *date* ..just the two of you as you would
someone you were first meeting...allow the spark to ignite once
again in *present time*. Good luck to you...and Welcome back
to the US and thanks for serving us by being away for openers
and then I want to say, Welcome to Blogland!

oh yes..and a Happy St. Patties Day too ! Keep your sense of
humor..stay sober and be the wonderful one you are! Let your
wife fall in love with you all over again!
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Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...

Looking4U23462 55F
1 post
3/18/2006 10:33 pm

You want some honest input; I think maybe you need to sit down and have an open and honest discussion of why she does not want to have sex with you. You need to keep your mouth shut, and your mind and ears open to listen to what she has to say.

I personally dated a Chief in the Navy and after he had been gone on a six month med cruise...I could not keep my hands off of him..we had sex morning noon and night.

I wish you all the luck in the world, stay optimistic.

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