rm_firehot2003 58M
2111 posts
2/28/2006 3:34 pm

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Today thinking about relationships, me, and loads more. I came to the conclusion that i think from the heart.Nearly all my thought process start at the heart. I suppose maybe thats why i do the job i do. I care about people I will risk myself to save or help someone i'll never know.But this leads to sentimental sensitive person that feels thing way to much. I really wish i could be a little more a head person you know get a balance between both heart and head. I like the person i am im comfortable with who i am, but if i thought a little more with my head i might not get hurt so often.
Question time

Is it possible to develope a balance?

Is it possible to change a personality?

Has anyone got any tips on heart survival?

love firehotxxxxxxxxx

rm_emmie234 53F
608 posts
2/28/2006 11:29 pm

Fire, Keep thinking with your heart.It is a wonderful quality in a person. Do not change who you are. I have no tipe on heart survival except choose carefully, tread lightly, then when it is right, give everything to the one who is willing to give everything in return.

sassybelle21 33F  
13313 posts
2/28/2006 11:38 pm

Today isn't my day either. I was sad and realized that I want a man badly. That's my heart feeling not my head thinking. I'm really not sure if you can develop a balance between your mind and heart. We will always lean towards one more than the other hence there won't be a perfect 50/50 ratio here. Just do your best to think more with your head

tillerbabe 57F

3/1/2006 12:05 am

You and I are so much alike you know that?

Is it possible to develope a balance? Yes, but I have found that my heart never fails me, I may hurt..but I learn what I am suposed to.

Is it possible to change a personality?Yes, but why? You are wonderful as you are FIRE!

Has anyone got any tips on heart survival?Yes...keep following your heart, your instincts, they willlead you to what you need to learn and protect you from harm. Following your heart is the path that is the most true, anything less would take away from who you are.... {=}

papyrina 52F
21133 posts
3/1/2006 1:21 am

i think mine are balanced,possible more head than heart.

But like tiller said your doing nothing wrong,so why change,your sweet,strong and a lovely from what we seen in here a good well balanced character

I'm a

i'm here to stay

Sulabula 46F
12659 posts
3/1/2006 4:12 am

Mine are slightly askew sometimes...I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve in certain situations and use my head in others lol....

But you don't need to change who you are...then it wouldn't be you

Sula xxx

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Chele46H 50F

3/1/2006 6:05 pm

Fire, people with personalities which are head over heart can come accross as quite selfish and uncaring. I know what type of man I'd rather get to know...... give me a heart driven guy anytime.

Chele xx

rm_SusieQ27 47F
2093 posts
3/1/2006 9:02 pm

Sula's right Fire. You're just lovely the way you are. Shame more men aren't as caring as you, is all I can say, darlin.
I don't think it's possible to change one's personality, for all that. Or, to be sure..lol..and why you should want to change, I'll never know. The trouble is, I think others are sometimes more able to see our good points than we are ourselves...rest assured that your personality is wonderful. It's only a caring person who can hurt, anyway Firehot, thinbk on that.

Luv n stuff...Susie...{=}{=}{=}{=}{=}and{=}

hugs4uagain 40F

3/2/2006 1:19 am

no answers to ur questions hunni cos i`m another think with ur heart and yes it causes pain but don`t try and change it thinking with ur heart is a wonderful quality!

hugs xxxxxxxxxxx

saddletrampsk 55F

3/2/2006 7:54 pm

don't change fire..you are perfect the way you are..

clevergirl4U 59F

3/3/2006 7:27 pm

Wrote my very first blog 5 days ago, so hope you don't think I'm being presumptious...

Really good food for thought here Unlike you, I am head over heart.
At 47, I've had the time for a variety of relationship experiences. The sum total of those resulted in me guarding my heart. It is there and available, but only to a very select few.(Most smart-ass people are head over heart). I'm patient and take my time these days. My realism is tempered with a little idealism Is that what you mean by somewhat balanced?

rm_FreeLove999 47F
16127 posts
3/4/2006 9:35 am

i think you are a wonderful man and i would not want you to change. sure you may mistakes with your heart, but you can make just as bad ones when u use your head!

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HBowt2 60F

3/5/2006 3:32 am

Fire....I think your doing well as you are...why mess with it when you have it rigt....

Balance is good Fire but if you don't follow your heart you will always feel as though you missed something....
Heart survival requires lots of first aid.....TLC

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