Why I enjoy single life.  

rm_farm_girl84 34F
1135 posts
8/23/2006 7:00 pm

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8/27/2006 11:54 am

Why I enjoy single life.

Well, I'm to the point of telling every guy that wants to have a relationship with me, to go to hell..

This guy that I was seeing, I had known for a while and talked to him and stuff. Then the dating starts, then he changes. What is it with people?? Why can't they be themselves??

He ignored me, made me feel like everything was my fault...and all of this with in a few weeks. I don't understand why guys feel that they can do this. I'm to the point, that I'm not gonna put up with anyone's bull shit. I know I deserve better than that, so I'm not settling.

So, I continue on with my singleness, and just gonna take whatever comes and not let it get me down.

I'm gonna head and take a shower, and wash all this stuff away and start fresh and just worry about my semester of school that I have left.

Just a little side note... Just be yourself, no matter what... if a person doesn't like you for who you are, f*ck them.

XJackinyourBoxX 43M

8/23/2006 7:38 pm

I'm with you... and the little guy with the beer too...lol

NickRules999 40M
9464 posts
8/23/2006 7:38 pm

I'm not sure why guys do that. I think most guys fear commitment. Course, that's not a well guarded secret. I'd like to think I'm different, but I really don't know. I have never been in a relationship. I don't think any women I have met has seen me as boyfriend material. And, the ones that did, always lived too far from me. It's frustrating.

The last part. Amen, my friend!

Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?

cougarprey4play 42M

8/23/2006 7:45 pm

I've learned not to change people & don't appreciate people trying to mold me into a new image.

I do have some flexibility in change but for the most part I happy with who I am. If someone doesn't like it, then hopefully they will find someone they are happy with.

sixshooter693 74M
203 posts
8/23/2006 7:46 pm

that last sentence hit it right on the head. i think the asshole just wanted to show who was in control. i assume u showed him because he's gone right. keep looking sweety u seem down to earth and very honest and that will win out in the end

BlueCanary1575 43M
116 posts
8/23/2006 8:05 pm

Unfortunately, I think this is a lot of what dating is about, separating the wheat from the chaff. I know what you mean, though, as I've been having similar difficulties (I thinke everyone has at some point). All I can tell you is what I've been told: have patience, the right one will come along soon enough. Not sure if I believe that, but I guess it doesn't hurt to hear it...


596 posts
8/23/2006 8:09 pm

good side note, could even be taken literary

lifeisablast333 55M

8/23/2006 9:48 pm

I tell my daughters all the time, Guys lie, and they just suck ass. I know that one day some lucky guy will sweep you off of your feet.
the redneck[image]

Djeeper1987 48M

8/23/2006 10:06 pm

I perfectly agree. And I am sorry it didn't work out with him.

Carpe Diem

Kristofer32 47M

8/24/2006 4:17 am

Hey FG,

Sorry it didn't work out, but women do the same thing. "honey I love you just the way you are, now change" People are fickle at best.



8/24/2006 4:26 am

Kristofer is right women are just as capeable of acting this way. I don't know what it is but people end up getting hurt alot from this sort of behaviour, I guess these people need to develop a proper relationship with themselves first so they actually know what it is they want before involving someone else.

You are so right though never settle, never accept bullshit and never accept less than you are worth.

Been nice visitin your blog, so had to come one more time before I leave AdultFriendFinder hope it works out for you and in the words of Jennifer Aniston
Because your worth it

NDGirlWantsFun 35F

8/24/2006 2:16 pm

i hear ya girl!!! sorry things didn't work out for you.. but that does open the door for wrangler chasing again! or at least going out and tipping a few longnecks back and checkin out the wranglers.. hope the healing goes fast!

fullysatisfyu 43M
332 posts
8/27/2006 11:42 am

Hate to be selfish, but thank goodness it didn't work out! I would hate to lose another great blogger to a "relationship".

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